Oct 6 2009, 08:42 PM
QUOTE(viper88 @ Oct 6 2009, 08:34 PM)
This reminds me of my friend real life experience.
My guy friend - A
Only child in his family. living with family.. average family type.. single storey house, drive Wira and Nissan old car.
ok ok leng lui - B
Living with family, average family,
In university, A met B.. try to make fren - success.
In uni 3.5 years time A want B more than fren..alwys try to confess - fail, reason given by A.. study time duwan involved into special BF& GF relationship.
A alwys hlp B in uni assignment and even spend alot of time with B instead of studyng well to get good grade..
Come out to working life.
1st year
A - work as a programmer. pay abt 2000.
B - still looking for work.. jobless.
A confess to B, B said no.. only good friends coz she wants to get a good career life 1st..Career important for her.
She like guys with spikey hair, body well build, confident and stable in financial.
2nd year.
A- still work as programmer have some experienced ady.. boss sent oversea SG & Thailan to do client work. pay abt 2500
Chg outlook. went to GYM workout .. etcs..
B - work as normal admin office work.
A confess to B, B still said no only can be good friend...she said working life is hard.. she wants to look for bf who is working as profesional in line eg.. Doctor, Engineer, etcs earn stable high income and can help take care of her and family.
3rd - 4 th year.
A - Senior Programmer. pay up ady Pay abt. 3K++
B - quit admin job, doing insurance coz heard alot ppl make big money in selling insurance line... dream big. but in the end no client, no good sales.. quit and kwai kwai go back into admin job line ...
A confess to B, B said can only be special friend, she still plans to look for bf/hubby who are professional n stable type.
This 4 years.. A try very hard to kaw B, bring her holiday, go movies, expensive restaurant dinning, buy hp and gifts etcs. BUT still the most SPECIAL friend only.
He told me many times during yam cha session, he is very sad and even have tears because he loves B very much but B cant accpt him as bf.
He also said he have tried improves alot to makes her accept him but still failed and wanted to give up on her already..coz spend alot MONEY and TIME. She only gives B some hints and abit hope there might be some changes coz she start to feel touched by my friends determination.
I told him.. u have try ur best so if she don't accpt you, go for other girls who can accpt him.
Breakoff is the best if A feel very hard to accpt the fact tat B set a very high expectation for her future bf/hubby.
A said he will not give up but still be special friends to B.
5th year.
A - Anlyst consultant pay abt 4K++
B - still normal admin job..
A - grandparents pass away, his father eldest son in family inherited one big lump sum of money.
His father buy new double-storey house, sold old wira and nissan car n change car Toyota vios and Nissan X-trail..
When i go his house i oso shock.. suddenly my friend
B - Age about 27 ady..
A stills goes out with B driving new car VIOS and bring B to his new parents bigger house for CNY... den.. the MIRACLE thing happen.. B finally accepted A's loves.!
A so happy he told me the feeling when B accpted him is like his soul flying out from his body heading to heaven liao..
I feel abit suspicious on B, coz after so many years.. 4 years not including uni years.. B alwys rejected A, only treat his as normal/best/special friend. Why suddenly B chg her mind. A said... maybe B feel touch by his sincerity n effort. I told him to be careful coz maybe she's saw his family and his work financial chges only accpted him.. not to mention she's getting older 26 and still cant find any DOCTOR/ ENGINEERS/ Professionals yet to become bf/husband. If A suddenly lost job, etcs.. maybe B will leave him la.. A said he don't care wat B thinks abt his financial but as long B accpt him now he is happy already. I wish A gud luck la..
Then by the age of 28.. B married to A ady. Finally A can reap all the harvest he sowed after many years.
this i what i call today scenario of BF & GF relationship.My guy friend - A
Only child in his family. living with family.. average family type.. single storey house, drive Wira and Nissan old car.
ok ok leng lui - B
Living with family, average family,
In university, A met B.. try to make fren - success.
In uni 3.5 years time A want B more than fren..alwys try to confess - fail, reason given by A.. study time duwan involved into special BF& GF relationship.
A alwys hlp B in uni assignment and even spend alot of time with B instead of studyng well to get good grade..
Come out to working life.
1st year
A - work as a programmer. pay abt 2000.
B - still looking for work.. jobless.
A confess to B, B said no.. only good friends coz she wants to get a good career life 1st..Career important for her.
She like guys with spikey hair, body well build, confident and stable in financial.
2nd year.
A- still work as programmer have some experienced ady.. boss sent oversea SG & Thailan to do client work. pay abt 2500
Chg outlook. went to GYM workout .. etcs..
B - work as normal admin office work.
A confess to B, B still said no only can be good friend...she said working life is hard.. she wants to look for bf who is working as profesional in line eg.. Doctor, Engineer, etcs earn stable high income and can help take care of her and family.
3rd - 4 th year.
A - Senior Programmer. pay up ady Pay abt. 3K++
B - quit admin job, doing insurance coz heard alot ppl make big money in selling insurance line... dream big. but in the end no client, no good sales.. quit and kwai kwai go back into admin job line ...
A confess to B, B said can only be special friend, she still plans to look for bf/hubby who are professional n stable type.
This 4 years.. A try very hard to kaw B, bring her holiday, go movies, expensive restaurant dinning, buy hp and gifts etcs. BUT still the most SPECIAL friend only.
He told me many times during yam cha session, he is very sad and even have tears because he loves B very much but B cant accpt him as bf.
He also said he have tried improves alot to makes her accept him but still failed and wanted to give up on her already..coz spend alot MONEY and TIME. She only gives B some hints and abit hope there might be some changes coz she start to feel touched by my friends determination.
I told him.. u have try ur best so if she don't accpt you, go for other girls who can accpt him.
Breakoff is the best if A feel very hard to accpt the fact tat B set a very high expectation for her future bf/hubby.
A said he will not give up but still be special friends to B.
5th year.
A - Anlyst consultant pay abt 4K++
B - still normal admin job..
A - grandparents pass away, his father eldest son in family inherited one big lump sum of money.
His father buy new double-storey house, sold old wira and nissan car n change car Toyota vios and Nissan X-trail..
When i go his house i oso shock.. suddenly my friend
B - Age about 27 ady..
A stills goes out with B driving new car VIOS and bring B to his new parents bigger house for CNY... den.. the MIRACLE thing happen.. B finally accepted A's loves.!
A so happy he told me the feeling when B accpted him is like his soul flying out from his body heading to heaven liao..
I feel abit suspicious on B, coz after so many years.. 4 years not including uni years.. B alwys rejected A, only treat his as normal/best/special friend. Why suddenly B chg her mind. A said... maybe B feel touch by his sincerity n effort. I told him to be careful coz maybe she's saw his family and his work financial chges only accpted him.. not to mention she's getting older 26 and still cant find any DOCTOR/ ENGINEERS/ Professionals yet to become bf/husband. If A suddenly lost job, etcs.. maybe B will leave him la.. A said he don't care wat B thinks abt his financial but as long B accpt him now he is happy already. I wish A gud luck la..
Then by the age of 28.. B married to A ady. Finally A can reap all the harvest he sowed after many years.
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