it's not money minded or not...
it's the partner u choosing, if he/she is poor and he/she willing to put effort together to improve, y not?
but if ur partner is rich ( of cos parent's money) and he dun know how to manage and use it to improve his life, u r screwed worst than a poor one .. lol

so ... it's about the money and also a right partner as well lol...

instead of keep arguing, just ask urself a question, what is the purpose u all looking for a gf/bf?
and also... what aspects u all look into when comes to relationship? maybe it will give u a clearer pic.

i dun object gals should look for security(moneytary or whatever) in relationships... but too extreme will only make it worse.

my 2 cents.