it started to make sense now after hearing this and the story you tell before about your bum bf, i feel that you have been misguided by money, it then turn out the be your biggest insecurity in your life, hence the reason why you want to find a rich hushband

you want to solve problems with money, or perhaps preventing it from happening, it's actually not wrong to think that way, but to me, life is not about preventing problems to happen, but is to be prepare when problem arise, how to prepare you ask ? collecting lots of money ? lol no of course, but our attitude and mentality itself that when we fall, we can rise up again with our own two feet, see ? money it's not even involve in it, hence money is not even the biggest problem solver but our character itself

and that's the character that girl wish to choose compare to money in a person