well, that is your belief.

mine is the other way round.

爱情是伟大的!
love is great!

love gives you everything...including money!

depends on how you look at it though.

love but both boy and girl slack off no put in effort to make money obviously is not going to work. :

a better example would be:

boy and girl in love, tengah pak tor
boy has a goal in mind, works smart and hard to achieve it.
the girl's true love towards the boy is a strong force driving the boy to excel.
girl is not money digger and also works well on her end.
both achieve financial freedom.
happily ever after


however, i strongly feel that many lyn forum members are unable to accept the above concept?

in the manga - zetman, a scientist was able to achieve that, survive by drinking water only.

planning memang essential lo.

habit #2 of the 7 habits of highly effect people / teens - begin with an end in mind

dun be so rude la.

moorish is happily married.
her hubby monthly income i think 10k ++
she is satisfied and contented with that.
her first boy friend was kinda like a loser who did not improve himself.

edit:
not defending moorish.
just sharing what i know.

This post has been edited by Deimos Tel`Arin: Sep 28 2009, 02:03 PM

@debbieyss, moorish:
i is sad to hear such stories. the wives of those men stood by them when them boys are having difficulties and this is how they (boys with gugujiao gatal) repay their wives who work hard to help them when they (bad boys) need help most?

anyway, just to share something of my own.

my current gf's elder sister, now age 31. got 2 kids. boy 13, girl 11
age 18 pregnant, then marry.
then 10 years later, divorce. why? the boy tarak boleh guna one.
family got business, dun want help jaga also, dun wan work, lazy bum, take drugs, etc.
elder sis work hard take care of the 2 kids until cannot tahan liao. 10 years the boy still no change, useless.

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another case. i went to a high school class mate wedding last saturday and heard that one of the girls of another class also divorce case, she got 2 kids liao. the boy no use, gamble, owe money, hilang.

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boys like this ... give boys a bad name. :

This post has been edited by Deimos Tel`Arin: Sep 30 2009, 01:22 PM

contentment is happiness!

i never understand.

please explain.

i still think it is a waste of good money.

i can build an awesome gaming rig with all that monneh.

what if i am already kinda at rock bottom when i met up and coupled up with my girl?
she be here to support me, believe in me as i race to reach the top together with her ...

This post has been edited by Deimos Tel`Arin: Oct 6 2009, 12:27 PM

hmm i will join the buaya-ness.

@dancingwind:
have you had your lunch yet?

kawan, i dun think they will understand even after they watched that movie.