because you phail to read the thread carefully, the first post till now never mention about millionaire

the people you have named are all celebrities.  have it every occur to you, them having their successes, fame and $$ makes it harder for them to find Mr. Right?  how many of the average guys are bold enough to even approach them?  furthermore, they're of a different social circles etc... and hence the same beings often do flock together.  it's normal for the rich to marry the rich.

guys, ask yourself truthfully.  how many here would actually feel secure with a gal who's richer and more career driven than yourself??

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True love can't pay for bills, infant formula, and Huggies PullUps, nor can it pay for that Chemo for that aged in law of hers.
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Working hard together yes, but not to the extent of until the rest of their lives.

DTA: correct. which is why boys ought to strive to achieve a steady passive income the soonest possible.

Try and see if you can work hard while having monthly periods, emotional instabilities, then you get pregnant for 9 months and still have to travel to work in that 9 months, then rest 1 month, and get back to work again, while having to take care of the baby, day in day out  while looking after the husband as well.

DTA:
which is why mothers are awesome! sh1t! mothers day is approaching soon! must be nice to my mum on that day.

anyway, girls can opt for those kind of 9am - 5pm stress free jobs instead of those stressful pressurizing jobs.

some girls still want to work, regardless if they are married and have kids. social circle thingie i guess.

The gist is, the man have to STEP UP and be more reliable than when he was a bachelor. 

DTA: correct. money is essential for survival! passive income ftw!

Woman who dun mind feeding the husband? Wow..

I ain't gonna go work, come back, cook dinner, go to the bed and spread my legs, get pregnant, give birth, raise a child for a couch potato who did nothing but flipping the tv channel at home.

Is that love?

If that is, wow.. I better convert to a muslim and marry 5 wives. They can go to work and give all their salary to me while I sit at home and watch my investment grow.

well of course if the gal is the bred winner than the guy have to be the house maker... both have to contribute to the family of course

the thing is how many guys could suck up their pride and do that?

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Divorce happen, and it is a common thing now, I heard from lawyer 2 most common factor in divorce is 3rd party and financial problem.
heart change and people change.

The sad thing is we're divided by worldly thing, Love is part of human instinct, we fall in love with no control thats why many parents who dont understand say kena pukau la.

But to continue the lovely relationship in this demanding world now is difficult, kids nowadays is not like in the 60s, where you give them a few kayu and they can play whole day. Nowadays kids wan PS3 which cost a bomb!, then education, tuition,  medical fees, McD, all these are very costly.

Same goes to both the parents, life now are no longer like those days, finding money is difficult and stressful so this is where it is very very taxing if you hope love will prevailed without money.

It is sad that we're in this generations, but then again this generations we've so many luxury things to indulge in.

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Make money for yourself, not to get a girl or even to marry her. The money you make should further your own goals. As for women, rather than marrying up, it is perhaps a better idea to make your own money also, in order to be financially independent. I've known of enough examples where women marry richer men only to find themselves completely dependent and thus completely at their mercy.

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But i dont believe your sentences below the pic are good quotes  it is childish talk. plain imaginary theory.
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Right. I shall now attempt (foolishly, probably) to put in the last word on this debate.

The phrase "money-minded" seems to be a particularly loaded one for both men and women. Men find it offensive, and use the term as an insult. Women, in turn, are offended when the term is used insultingly. Clearly, it means different things to both men and women.

What it means to women - we shall refer to this as Definition A:
- Girls who are attracted to smart, successful, independent men with bright futures.
- Girls who want the security - both financial and emotional - of being with such a man.
- Girls who dislike unmotivated, directionless men who can't hold down a job.

Now, what it means to men, is the following Definition B:
- Girls who judge men by the car they drive.
- Girls who demand that men spend on them beyond their means - nicer dates, more expensive presents, more spending money.
- Girls who value expensive clothes, jewellery and supplementary credit cards over love and affection.

Now, there is a wide gulf between Definitions A and B that most men and women can comfortably find middle ground in. Most men are not shiftless slobs, and most women are not gold-digging parasites. Men should understand how women are naturally drawn to successful men. And women should understand that men are naturally offended to be judged solely by their bank account.

In fact, here's an analogy. Let's say someone starts a thread titled "Guys are sex-minded... and proud of it". The TS goes on to say how it's men's nature to go after sexy women - and if you're fat, don't wear makeup, don't wear revealing clothes and don't know how to giggle like a Japanese schoolgirl, you're simply losers in the game of love.

Wouldn't you, as a woman, be offended by that? That's how men tend to feel, whenever this "money-minded" topic crops up.

As for the1 i bolded,1 of my ex-collegue is a good example.He told me tat his GF is demanding and ask him to spend tis n tat to her.Since his GF always tell him tat "Is a boy's job"...he become a fool bcos of tat gal...almost spend half of his salary for his GF.I used to give him a advice tat...1 day if there is a guy who is richer than u,she will leave u and break up wif u1.But this fren of mine dun believe wat i say...saying tat they are been 4 years relation and wat so ever.

I do tell him tat...ur relation wont last long for 3 months from now,he still dun believe....

I nvr met his GF b4,but I know wat kinda/type of gal she is...based on wat he told me lar.As i always tell myself tat no gals can lie/cheat on me!

So,end up 1 day...he call my hp and tell tat his gf break up with him.Reason bcos he can't "support her needs & demand". (not even 3 months after I give him tat advice)

wELL,...I believe tat most guys always like to go for beautiful gals...but they dun realise 1 thing...

越美的女人，就越会骗人！

Just admit it,men always have 2 weakpoints....1 is WOMAN....another 1 is W***

Sorry, not everyone here understands chinese

Then how about 越帅和越坏的男人，越会伤女人的心！！！！！

See? as I said...$$$ is the main thing in a relationship...or else it wont last long!

I dun mind to offer sumthing 1st,but those gals tat I met they demand "beyond" of wat I can give!
If u been look down & criticise b4 just bcos u r poor....then u know why I need to save every single ringgit! Frankly speaking,I been look down and criticise by gals b4!
Well,...ok let me tell u lar.

If ur GF knows who u r,I believe she must accept ur pros n cons rite? and she also know ur limitation as well?

But my ex-collegue GF DOESN'T care of him...wat she want...my fren pays.Every month,he always wait pay day to settle his credit card bill.

I do ask him tat,did ur GF ever spend on u? even ur bday? like spend u for dinner...buy u presents...this is wat he told me

No,...not even once.She always say tat is a "Boy's job"

gals ask for it....bcos most them want handsome/good looking guys and also a bit naughty as well.

Good guys with not handsome look...always DIE!