postpartum depression...google it

yeah...men are expected to fight them most of the time. but i think its pretty obvious that most wars were started deliberately due to men. i dunno the full story, din read up much on wars, i could be wrong.
to the 2nd statement

and I love how suddenly she says it must be a balance between money and love, when I'm pretty sure all this shit started because she was PICKING MONEY OVER LOVE IS THE MATURE WOMAN'S CHOICE

google more

In that case you've misinterpretted her. She's merely saying pick from among the financially capable, and who's to say that love cannot happen within these brackets?

Okay let's see here ....

Postpartum depression:
Thoughts of hurting the baby
Thoughts of hurting yourself
Not having any interest in the baby

I've read about six pages on google now and not one of them says anything about killing babies.

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Added on October 9, 2009, 1:22 pmLOL Why has the original post been edited and the incriminating statements removed or modified?!

You're twisting this way off course, then can I say got average income man who keeps jin and sex the wife 14 times a day...google it

I saw this post yesterday but didnt find time to reply. I find his angle very very interesting. Drug dealer.

During my time with my ex he is sort of gangster type, I've come to know a lot of others in gang and of coz the girls would be mixing and chatting.

I used to follow my ex to meet this leader in penang, he is filthy rich and his money of coz isnt clean. He has 4 wifes and all the wifes knows each other. They stay in big houses each of them, with so many big guard dogs, they drive nice cars, he has a guy who drives an Estima to all the wifes house to pick up and send all the children to school,  LV and diamond rolex of coz included in the package, I used to adore her watch we call them "moon thin sing", diamonds were set even on the casing and bracelet, it cost about 120K that time, I'm not sure how much it cost now.

During that time, we're living hands to mouth, no savings, sometimes ex will get big money duno from where and he will spend it all within 2 weeks, karaokes and gambling. I remember sometimes deep in my mind how I wish I was like those wifes enjoying life. All his 4 wifes are ex karaokes GROs

I sometimes try to put my shoes if I can be like them? I guess when you're very low in your life you dun seem to have much choice, so security has a new meaning, you actually dun care, but its only in my mind I didnt do it.

Then I look at those girls and wonder, do they love him? The answer is yes I believe. But if you ask what kinda love this is I dont know. I guess it depends where you come from.

I've mixed even with prostitutes, some of his frens gfs are prost and we do talk a lot, I've asked them why they do what they do and most times they come from poor broken families.

I guess moral and how many people ignored moral, or are force to put moral aside. I dun and never look down on them, I kept in touch with a few girls after married but I can see from hubbys face he dun really like me mixing around with those girls so I slowly stayed away.

Coming back to this topic, those girls comes from broken family with very little guidance, sometimes money is so tight and without much education and mother sick or bro and sis still young need to go to school they sell themselves for quick money. I respect this girls in the sense they willing to lower thier standard and make sure their younger bro and sis can have proper education. OLs I know or white collar girls, will never in thier life sacrifice so much for the family.

They never got out from the slum as its already become part of their lives now.

I dont come from broken family, but I do come from poor family, my parents never agreed with me going out with thugs, but that time young and I practically elope and stay with my ex, I was very in love with him, and broke my mums heart into 1000X pieces.

As I grow older, and time is catching up, I start to panic coz I see this is going nowhere, hence fast forward to today I got out of it.

So you see, if you come from a comfortable lifes, drug money is a big sin, but if you're way down there, its heaven sent.

I know its morally wrong, thats why I make sure I'm a fulltime mother and put as much reality and moral to Noreens life. I'll try to give my best.

ok guys, time for yuo to twist and attack me...I'm being truthful of my experience and what I felt that time, the temptations was strong.

Seriously, i dun mind giving chances to a fat and ugly gal if she willing to slim down and learn how to look more presentable.

but u is different, u never give chance to those who not rich momentary, 1st thing u did is to filtering out what he own, but ignoring what he can be in future.

but what you're doing is still shallow right? why cant you leave her as it is?

I asked you what if she cant slim down or no plastic surgery can fix her up, would you still marry her?
fulltime mother need to makan right?
or you expect the baby to earn her milk and diapers?

i duno wat u all talking bout here.....

but i agreed for this !!!!

Girls are money minded, And be proud of it !!!

who's no?? not even girls...its applied on guys as well....

sumore...wat century is this??  everythg is all about money....
eventho money cant buy any happiness...life or wat so ever...but if without money u ar nobody.... hik

cheerzz !!

so you're saying all those GROs and prostitute are all losers with no moral and that is why they end up there? gosh a long essay and thats all you're able to picked up.

My hubby is exactly 10 years my senior, he always tells me I live a life full of experience, I dun read a lot but I experience a lot in life hence I look at life as real and not from books.

I'm amazed, you really fully understand everything. I've tried to tell them this somewhere back there but the message got lost or deliberately ignored.

he is just pretend to amaze u 

baby makan and same time mama fighting off internet war

she prolly feeding while spamming in lolyat

You guys who are trying to put moorish down is simply because you are afraid one day you will fall on a gal who aim to be a fulltime mother while your financial capable can't afford to meet her dream?

I'm really curious the reason why you guys can't accept a true mother who wants something better for her family.

At least she has made it comes true yet all you guys who putting her down aren't able to settle down yet.

teongpeng, you seem to be the only man who understand what "life" means.

Well there's KFC, restaurant for you to work so why must one prostitute to earn money? If they are capable of prostituting I'm sure they pretty much capable of washing plates or become a promoter at some shopping complex.

Also most prostitutes become prostitutes, and this was in an article in the Star section2 a few years back, not because they were forced to, but because it's better money, and that comes from the horse's mouth.

this brings an interesting question, as much as you want to be a full time mother, it somehow does reflect that's the only choice that you can make or is it not

Wow, that's a big claim. Is it because you agree with his opinions, or you that you didn't give other points of views much thought? Just as you want people to accept that your philosophy of "life" is correct, you have to accept that it doesn't mean everyone else is wrong. It's a matter of CHOICE.