At the first place, i notice that your self-esteem is very low, which means you do not trust in yourself, you do not have self-confident in yourself.
Alright, financial problem that your family is facing, its totally out of your control and you cant do anything about it.
If you refuse to accept the truth that your family economy is going down, you will think negatively and your emotions will be out of control.
Ok, listen, it doesnt really matters on getting poor or living in a negative surroundings like you described as long as you trust yourself, self-confident.
Always do remember, " Poor is not scary at all, but Poor mentally makes you sick and falls "
Since you got a lots of dissatisfaction about you current life, why dont you change it?
Whats up with cant continue study? you may just work, put efforts on whatever you do, i believe you will find your way one day. Cant continue study then start working, you always got choices, its not like end of the world if you cant study.
So now, put away your negative thinking thoughts, think the bright way.
Attitude, Belief build you internal strength, your self-esteem, your self-confident.
Its life, chances are anywhere anytime, just be strong and go over your depress.
good luck

Exactly! Thats what my gf facing currently, shes been worrying too much on her age.
Shes now standing in the middle of cross road, work? or study?
Dont know how to advise her anymore, sigh ~

Thats the problem, she dont even know want to study or not
Meanwhile shes waiting for job offer letter from her mom's fren.
Totally no idea what shes thinking about.

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Added on March 14, 2009, 2:57 amyea, totally agree about the ptptn, cause I'm taking one as well.
But please do remember, as student, it is your job to pass all the subjects, or else you better dont borrow it as its like you are using your future money, you still have to pay back someday in future.
What I'm trying to say is, set yourself a target and strike hard to achieve it, theres no turning back.
Think positive way, dude, even though you lock yourself in your room, the sun still rises and shines.
Acting like this wont change your current situation, but probably making it even worst.
Wake up and stand up dude, its time to do something.
Cheer up, the earth is round, anything can happen as long as you put efforts on what you do and never give up.
Take care ~! Alot of peoples sitting somewhere in the earth now suffering from war, and straving.
You're a lot lucky than them, Think Maturely and Think Positively, it helps !
Good luck TS

This post has been edited by devilshen: Mar 14 2009, 02:59 AM

Even herself got no idea on what actually she interested with
I analyzed the overall situation for her and tell stories of my friends around as reference for her.
She says she scared she'll regret in future if she does not take the chance to study now.
At the same time, her family having economic burden due to some business failure, therefore shes thinking of working to help her family.
Im out of idea on how to guide her and encourage her through

Study + Part time
I think she wont do that, shes kinda like playful girl bah
Most the things she did always end up in half way, hangat hangat tahi ayam only
I mentioned her about this, she seems to be noticed it too, hopefully she manage to get through it and go forward lo, or else I totally no idea on helping her.
Ah ~ Its kinda late jo, i better go sleep now. thanks for your advices and suggestions
TS, sorry for tumpang your thread, Good luck, all the best for ya ~
Nitez

This post has been edited by devilshen: Mar 14 2009, 03:20 AM