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If (Rudyard Kipling)
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too:
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim,
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same:.
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build'em up with worn-out tools;
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings,
And never breathe a word about your loss:
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much:
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
QUOTE(ezralimm @ Mar 6 2009, 01:05 PM)
LOVEY DOVEY POEMS _really_ apply to people who have found each other and who do not think they can do better.
EPIC FAIL @ READING.
I agree with Silverhawk's points.
Self confidence is King. Supreme. Numero Uno. The Big Boss. When a man is confident, he doesn't need to rely on other people to be happy. Gaining and maintaining strong self-confidence is a lifelong process, as a man should seek to constantly improve himself.
Things like having a good-looking body, being highly skilled at something, being knowledgeable and well read are all things that nobody can take away, and once a man has these his self-esteem also rises, everything else comes naturally, because in the pursuit of improving oneself that other things fall into place.
This post has been edited by ~LynX~: Mar 6 2009, 02:15 PM