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Serious WANT TO CONFESS?, Be Ready For The Aftermath..
Serious WANT TO CONFESS?, Be Ready For The Aftermath..
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Mar 6 2009, 12:18 PM
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Mar 6 2009, 01:05 PM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Mar 6 2009, 12:47 PM) The biggest problem is your low self-esteem. You don't believe in your self, you don't have a positive view of yourself. You look at your flaws, and think everyone judges you on that. By thinking like this, you sub-consciously project these flaws to people around you, which in turn, turn people away. What happens is a negative feedback loop that sends you in a downward spiral. ...and the romanticist replies to the realist.... All the comforting and uplifting words in the world is not going to get you the attractive partner of your dreams if YOU ARE NOT WORTHY. You can make all the excuses you want..."not meant to be" ... bla bla bla ... "focusing on studies" ... bla bla bla... "dont want to get in their way because they are already taken" ... bla bla bla... and when you are thirty you will realize that you have lost out in the game of love and will have to settle for less. Knowing your place before making a move is a good thing. Because then you can take steps to improve yourself (eg. eat well and hit the gym). When the time is right, romance will come...naturally...when you are attractive and you meet someone attractive who thinks you are attractive. People notice the "nice/good/charming" characteristics of people they are attracted to. THen love blooms. LOVEY DOVEY POEMS _really_ apply to people who have found each other and who do not think they can do better. |
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