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cyloh
post Apr 16 2009, 03:11 PM

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jyou if you are what you say on the above, i believe you should have no problems meeting such a girl. if not, something is lacking from your post you're not telling yet....
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post Apr 16 2009, 04:38 PM

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QUOTE(Jyou @ Apr 16 2009, 03:45 PM)
Man you are a really sharp guy...
Yeah I missed out on something, I'm leaving for Canada for my tertiary education in September ... she will be leaving for USA one year later.
I do plan to tell her how I feel before I leave, the problem is the aftermath ...
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You might as well tell her now and have a good time if things go well. Else, don't need to tell at all since both heading different directions, different timing.
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post Apr 16 2009, 04:46 PM

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QUOTE(Tatsumaki @ Apr 16 2009, 04:43 PM)
Eh, I wouldn't hammer Jyou on his outlook in life. He's got a good and positive outlook, and it isn't an easy one to live. There are times we being human falter and lose sight, but those are times to get up again.
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Eh no lar, not hammer, just something doesn't sound quite right. Since now he kind enough to reveal more then we all know and talks can move along.

QUOTE(Jyou @ Apr 16 2009, 04:43 PM)
Hmm well we'll see, I'll no doubt tell her but long distance relationship is something I'm pondering over, a lot of the LDRs being posted here in Cupid Corner doesn't seem so promising anyway this is something to discuss with her.
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Protect your heart first yeah. Also try not to consider LDR.
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post Apr 16 2009, 05:08 PM

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QUOTE(Jyou @ Apr 16 2009, 04:53 PM)
Yeah the heart, sigh its the most fragile organ God gave us.
Yeap LDR ain't good, lots of eventual break-ups I see going on.
Maybe I'll give myself and her some time to grow a little (in the meantime still keep in touch, thanks to the great power of the internet!) and when time comes I'll take a flight over to US... or lure her over the border to Canada  laugh.gif
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Lets put God out of the picture for awhile. What I really mean is don't let a small flop drag you down. 1 month, 2 months, years? The downtime is not worthy of such a pursuit, that is unless you value LOVE higher than your own Life, Career, Studies, Social.

Don't make those plans before things even hit it off bro. Also, LDR failure rate is due to us just being human. A simple call, webcam over the internet will not suffice to maintain passion, not when you enter a new life where there is new people to know and lots of excitement/possibilities.
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post Apr 16 2009, 05:32 PM

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QUOTE(Jyou @ Apr 16 2009, 05:25 PM)
Currently my education comes first, love just happens and well I have to share with you another of my philosophies, I don't have to have her to love her. Which can be a problem, my friends think I love too freely.
It is a problem. Infact it can destroy all your other philosophies. I could say alot about it but if you stay strong to that believe, please proceed with caution.

Anyways, you seem confident on your plans with her, so should be no problem there.
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post Apr 17 2009, 12:22 AM

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QUOTE(Jaroque @ Apr 17 2009, 12:20 AM)
come on, this is a place for people whoes ready to confess, not some arguing place ughhh
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Read properly, there is some healthy discussion going on. And still considered on topic if you take time to track back.
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post Sep 30 2009, 12:01 PM

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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Sep 30 2009, 11:42 AM)
me: do you like me?
her: err.. what?
me: i said do you like me?, because i like you...
her: but...err.. i like you too.. as fren...
me: ohh.. i was kinda hoping for more..
her: sorry... you're a good fren, that's all..
me: ohh... okay... i hope this wont affect our frenship..
her: me too..

sometime it's not that easy..
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No wonder la. rclxub.gif

You just tell her u like her. No need to care if she like u back or not.
Your confession above got ulterior motive, or course she don't like.
Its like u scared to confess and want to question them to make the first move.

Need to be more suave. If thats even possible sweat.gif

 

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