It's true that never try then you'll never know. But I just don't want people who have the same tendencies/traits/characteristics like me back then to be in a state of self distruct time bomb or worse, became a stalker / psychopath as a result of rejection from a friend that they truly became infatuated with. People like these (sorry) should be restrain from ever confessing if they know deep inside their hearts that rejection is NOT an option for them, and what are they capable of after that..Thank God that I've come down to my senses and finally live with it ( took me a whole year though), but let say if I wasn't, I'm guessing you'd be reading about a serial rapist / psycopath at large in southern Malaysia..