I posted once before under my old account TOS. Here's a new one.
Gender: Male
Location: Penang <-> Singapore
Born in the year: 1999
Weight: 60 kg
Height: 178cm
Religion/Race: Chinese/ Buddhist (more like agnostic these days, I rarely go to temples except to pray for my mother who passed away a few years ago due to terminal illness)
Occupation: PhD student at NTU Singapore, can either become a researcher in Singapore or work in the SG finance industry (more stressful with higher pay) when I finish my PhD. I will always balance between family and career.
Hobbies and interests:1) Cooking and cleaning the house/do housework
2) Reading
3) Traveling (I do that virtually, by playing Euro Truck Simulator 2 with a worldwide map combo

In real life, I would love to explore ancient places especially those near eastern Mediterranean, Egypt, Greece, Italy etc.)
4) Budgeting my expenses/income and reviewing my investment portfolio
5) Plan for all sorts of things (what to do next, what to do tomorrow, what to do in 5-10 years time etc.)
Other description (u may write a short essay about yourself, to show your personality):A boring ISTJ Taurus, a planner, straightforward, realistic and down-to-Earth person. Thrifty like
Ramjade but after my last failed relationship I am more open to spending on a girl I like. Never regretted doing that, for good or bad, my ex uplifted my living standards significantly and I can see why people spurge once in a while. That said, budgeting and planning of expenses is still a must. I don't want to go into bankruptcy, nor do I want my future partner to go into the same mess as well.
I save and invest for my future family, including me and my wife's retirement, kids education, sudden medical expenses etc. Looking for someone who is ready to be in a relationship and knows what it takes to make a relationship work.
Prefer to settle down in SG/JB area as my work opportunities are available in SG. Current plan is to get married in a few years time (30s), settle down, have kids, and retire in Penang, my hometown when old. Plan subject to change depending on the girl I meet.

Say if the girl prefers to retire in/emigrate to SG I am open to that too.
Requirements / preferences:1) Non-muslim, Chinese female (Within 5-6 years before and after 1999 should be tolerable) Mix-blood also ok.
2) Speaks English, Mandarin (Hokkien and Malay would be good too, in case we want to talk secrets in front of foreigners lol)
3) No strict preference on height and weight, as long as not obese or too thin. Moderation is always the way to go.
4) Emotionally stable and not violent (My ex can strangle me at times, and I never do any physical harm to her)
5) Indulges in deep conversations (I am not romantic, and I don't expect my wife to be one either, would be nice if you are romantic, but don't be disappointed if I am not as romantic as you...

)
6) Never been married before
7) Non-smoker but can be a social drinker (I don't drink and I advise you to refrain from drinking for the benefit of our family in the future)
8) Serious relationship only, no hookups, no FWBs, no one-night stands, no sugar baby/sugar daddy etc. I only invest my time and money in a woman who values loyalty and understands the essence of delayed gratification.
Attitude determines altitude. Links (facebook/friendster/blog/pictures, whatever) etc (optional):PM me & we'll see how it goes from there. For those without LYN account here, here's my LinkedIn account:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/zheng-tien-kang-782b13248/ Drop me a message or connect with me over there and we will see how things go.
Would appreciate fellow LYN members to introduce girls to me as well.
This post has been edited by TOS2: Sep 5 2025, 10:13 AM