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This post has been edited by Kokokrunch_1: Jan 22 2024, 09:40 AM

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This post has been edited by loonar92: Jul 24 2024, 10:17 PM

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Came across this thread and thought of giving it a try. Let’s connect

Gender: Female

Location: KL

Born in the year: 1989

Weight: 65kg

Height: 167cm

Religion/Race: Buddhist/Chinese

Occupation: Manager

Hobbies and interests: I love to explore new places (both locally and overseas) and travel as much as I can afford, simply because the world is big and interesting. Enjoy outdoor activities (hiking, cycling, road tripping) and indoor activities (yoga classes, movies, cafe hopping, baking, etc).

Other description (you may write a short essay about yourself to show your personality): An ambivert, can be talkative and enjoy peacefulness or quietness at times. Relatively calm person (not a drama queen), pretty good listener, considerably independent. Enjoy meaningful conversation, and I will share more about myself when I get comfortable with you. Professional and serious at work; quite a laid-back person off-work. Happy-go-lucky personality.

Requirements and preferences: Chinese, about my age (slightly younger or a few years older, that's fine), Buddhist preferred, kind, caring, emotionally and financially stable (knowing money is important, so as a lot other things), non-smoker. Looking for a serious relationship, not here for hanky panky.

Links (facebook/friendster/blog/pictures, whatever) etc (optional): will provide if we click

Time to give it a second shot! After using dating apps for a few months, lectured by Takudan , met with old classmates (unfortunately all got boyfriend liao...), go learning dancing with girls, with age comes wisdom...

Gender: Male

Location: Singapore (Hometown: Penang)

Born in the year: 1999 (25 years old)

Weight: 60kg

Height: 173cm

Religion/Race: Buddhist officially on IC but more of a atheist/freethinker these days. Race is Chinese.

Occupation: First-year PhD student at NTU Singapore with salary and savings



Hobbies and interests:

Indoor	Outdoor
Reading (You will find me in Kinokuniya KLCC or the one in Bugis Junction Singapore )	Hiking
Dancing (started to learn Bachata Dancing one month ago, and now picking up ballroom dance)	Jogging
Cooking (yes I can cook, not just instant noodles and egg, I mean fry chicken/fish/meat, stew, steam, grill etc.)	Running
Cleaning houses (yes, unlike most men, I tidy up my room once a week and I can clean toilet as well, definitely can help you do housework and take care of kids after marriage )	Travelling (dream destination? Japan (I love their 15-button-for-you-to-press-yet-ultra-clean toilet), South Korea, and the whole of Europe (I have never been to any single European country before!))

My favourite books are mostly of business genre and I also like philosophy. Some of them are shown below:



That said, my reading interest spans all academic areas of natural sciences and social sciences, from Physics/Biology/Chemistry, Medicine, Geology, Geography, Botany/Zoology, to Law, Archaeology, Politics, History, Philosophy, Music, Arts, and Linguistics. I like 80s and 90s Chinese/English songs. Classic ones still the best!

I am a beginner in swimming and badminton.

Other description (you may write a short essay about yourself to show your personality): A serious man looking for a serious relationship. You will find me very active on the FBIH section of Lowyat: https://forum.lowyat.net/FinanceBusinessandInvestmentHouse. I am a straightforward and blunt person. In Mandarin, you call me 直男... My family and friends noted that I am more matured than peers of my same age, which probably explains why I need to write this long post. This is the 熟男 side of me...

I am not very talkative and very introverted, but I am flexible/agile and easy-going. I am open to learning stuffs from my lady too, especially on fashion/clothings and handling interpersonal relationship. Girls are damn good at these! A lot of girls are afraid of dating with PhD holders because they need to "squeeze their mind" to communicate with them. Err. I think this is not true and probably a misnomer. We are just like normal human being, obviously research is our work, but after work, dating is a whole different story and we can chat other stuffs. Unless you like it, I won't discuss work matters during dates.

I am a planner and a very organized person. I keep my desk clean all the time, and tidy up stuffs always.

I am a frugal person, as stated earlier. I plan my spending months and years in advance. In fact, I am already starting to save for my wedding/kids education and other family expenses, aside from my our retirement.

Requirements and preferences: My experience with dating apps and in real life is that, as love guru Takudan said, I tend to attract elder woman who wishes to settle down. Indeed, I have only connected with Malaysian and Singaporean women from 25 all the way to 30ish years old. (There are plenty of Indonesian matches on CMB/OkCupid who are <= 25 years old but I won't consider them). I prefer:

Malaysian/Singaporean Chinese (Ancestral home is not important, 籍贯不重要), about my age (max age gap preferred: about 5 years), Buddhist/Christian/Atheist/Freethinker/Spiritual/Catholic, emotionally stable, non-smoker.

I wish to have at least 2 kids (1 boy + 1 girl would be a perfect combination ). Uhm, I really wants kids and will work hard towards that. Also, I am pretty health-conscious (no junk food, no cigarette, no drug, no alcohol (yes, not a single drop), irregular sleep cycle etc.).

I am definitely not ok with long-distance relationship. As I intend to build my career in Singapore, I wish my partner will stay with me in Singapore or JB (I can cross the causeway to work daily, if needed). My plan is to retire either in my home in Penang, Malaysia (preferred) or Singapore.

That's all for now. Let's chat if you wish to know more about me and/or my future plans.

Links (facebook/friendster/blog/pictures, whatever) etc (optional): PM me on Lowyat, or connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/zheng-tien-kang-782b13248/. Will give you my WhatsApp contact thereafter.

New year, new hope. Let's see if I can meet someone special this year.

This post has been edited by TOS: Jan 8 2024, 11:35 PM

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This post has been edited by Sleepinz: Jan 3 2025, 01:33 PM

Hey it's CNY soon, trying my luck again

Gender: Male

Location: Living in Selangor and work in KL

Born in the year: 1990

Weight: 70kg

Height: 170 cm

Religion/Race: Chinese

Occupation: IT guy(Yes the one who gets all the blame when your computer/printer not working or no internet)

Hobbies and interests: Jogging, motorsport, gaming, piano.

Other description : I like cars, because cars is awesome. No I do not go fast and furious in highway or touge, but only in racetrack. I can play the piano, as a hobby. I don't mind dating a women older than me like 1 or 2 years, don't care about education background or profession(As long as you're not doing anything illegal of course). Oh and I'll be frank, I am not a prince charming or oppa, I got tanned skin(Looks like malay but I am not malay), not tall as I only 170cm height, earning wise well enough for me I would say.


Requirements / preferences: Chinese female, shorter than me, older 1 or 2 years don't matter, not overweight, can or cannot cook dont matter to me. General hygiene, yes because a women should look good and no funny smell, you wouldn't want a messy dude with funny smell too right?

Gender: Male

Location: Seri Kembangan

Born in the year: mid 80s

Weight: 61kg

Height: 166cm

Religion/Race: Chinese

Occupation: Multimedia + tech

Hobbies and interests: Don't really have hobby in particular unless you consider listening to songs, watching shows and exercise?

Other description: Single for only god knows how long ago... I am not a talkative person, don't know how to express my feeling and I do not have much of a social life, keeping much to myself. I don't smoke, drink, clubbing, gambling. I can speak english and bit of mandarin

Requirements / preferences:
1. Chinese girl born in the 80s or early 90s
2. Non-smoker, non drinker, non-gambler, I can't stand all these.
3. Friendly and understanding type

If you are interested, drop me a message and let's start from there.

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This post has been edited by _xmadison: Apr 20 2024, 06:34 PM

Gender: Male

Location: KL

Born in the year: 1983

Weight: 78kg

Height: 173cm

Religion/Race: - /Chinese

Occupation: Marketing

Hobbies and interests: Badminton, Running, Gym, Gardening, DIY project, Books

Other description (u may write a short essay about yourself, to show your personality): I am a person that did not talk much, enjoy quiet and peace at home.


Requirements / preferences: Someone caring, patience and matured

Links (facebook/friendster/blog/pictures, whatever) etc (optional):

MSN (optional):

This post has been edited by x_suncai: Mar 1 2024, 04:16 PM

Mind to dm?

Came across this thread and plan to leave something about me

Gender: Male

Location: East coast of Peninsular Malaysia

Born in the year: 1992

Weight: 62kg

Height: 169cm

Religion/Race: Buddhist/Chinese

Occupation: Healthcare

Hobbies and interests: I love to explore new places and travel but now i prefer local first. Enjoy activities like camping, hiking and play sports like badminton but amateur type...

Other description (you may write a short essay about yourself to show your personality): A quiet person and enjoy inner peace and do not engage in office politics... Will be open up more if you know me longer.... I am a doer instead of NATO...

Requirements and preferences: Chinese, about my age, emotionally and financially stable, non-smoker
Looking for a serious relationship

Links (facebook/friendster/blog/pictures, whatever) etc (optional): we can talk in PM first if u r interested

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This post has been edited by hanhanhan: Oct 11 2024, 10:09 PM

Gender: Male

Location: KL

Born in the year: between 1992-1996 (prefer not to say exact)

Weight: 62-64kg

Height: 5'7-5'8

Religion/Race: Atheist/Agnostic Indian

Occupation: IT

Hobbies and interests: Anime/Manga, Games, Traveling, Food hunting

Other description:
I'm usually a planner but sometimes I can be spontaneous and up for an adventure when bored.
Traveling and hunting foods excites me and I enjoy having open-minded or logical discussions.
Loyalty and promises are important and valuable to me so I can be serious and immune to jokes at times.
Hit me up if you think we're a match.


Requirements / preferences:
- Age: Somewhere between 20-28
- Height: 5'6 or below
- Race: Indian/Chinese/Etc (as long not Malay)
- Religion: Any (as long not Muslim)
- Build: Average (please dont be heavier)
- Exercise: Any
- Job: Any
- Hobbies: Any
- Location: KL
- Others: Dont mind a partner with no car or house

This post has been edited by mrKentucky777: May 16 2024, 11:23 PM

Gender: Male

Location: Johor Bahru

Born in the year: 1991

Weight: 68kg

Height: 174 cm

Religion/Race: Hindu / Indian

Occupation: Engineer

Hobbies and interests: Hiking, Swimming, Running and Volunteering

Other description (u may write a short essay about yourself, to show your personality):

I like to be in the outdoors, spending time with my friends and family. I can cook a bit and speak 4 languages.

- Non smoker
- Drinks occasionally
- liberal (not religious but do pray)

Requirements / preferences:
Someone who is health conscious.
I lost my parents at an early stage which made me realise the importance of eating healthy, working out and enjoy the life while we are still fortunate.

Links (facebook/friendster/blog/pictures, whatever) etc (optional):
We can start via PM and then proceed accordingly.

This post has been edited by Gabriel03: Jul 14 2024, 03:50 PM

Gender: Male

Location: From Klang now working in Bukit Jalil

Born in the year: 1988

Weight: 55kg

Height: 171cm

Religion/Race: Chinese

Occupation: Stock Trader

Hobbies and interests: Badminton, Platform Action Game, Anime, Manga & Hiking

Other description : abit Social phobia, love rock music, can be very "guai lan" to close friend,


Requirements / preferences: Female, Chinese, emotionally stable

Well, I just give it try here


Gender: Male

Location: KL

Born in the year: 1991

Weight: 70 (trying to go 62kg) need the weight as work involved

Height: 163

Religion/Race: Buddhist/chinese

Occupation: Medical sales

Hobbies and interests: Tinkering/fixing stuff, badminton, hiking, computer games, watching international movies, exploring, camping, outdoor stuff

Other description (u may write a short essay about yourself, to show your personality):
- INTP, always trying to improve process
- like straight to point,
- like impromptu plans(that where speedy long and short term plan)
- own apartment waiting to be renovate
- semi-banana(broken chinese)

Requirements / preferences:
- 90' - 95'
- consider randomness as part of life
- can understand jokes from various source (meme and general knowledge)
- chinese or banana 😅
- likes any animals

Links (facebook/friendster/blog/pictures, whatever) etc (optional): DM

MSN (optional):

Wow, I wish this existed about 20 years ago...