LOL this seemed fun, let me try and see also

Gender: Male

Location: Puchong

Born in the year: 1981

Weight: 90 kg

Height: 170 cm

Religion/Race: Chinese, Buddhist

Occupation: Senior Manager

Hobbies and interests:
- Playing music
- Reading
- Video Games
- Traveling
- Netflix-ing

Other description:
Let's see.... 44 years old, divorced, single father. took a couple of years hiatus after the divorced, maybe it's time to go try the market again. i do have a weird sense of humor and i love comedy.

enjoy cooking and pretty much domesticated.... rarely leave the house aside from going to work or getting groceries.

physically, i'm a little on the fat side, but i am trying to lose some weight

Gender:Female

Location: Subang Jaya

Year: 1985

Weight: Cubby/Fat depending how anyone want to view it. Working on it blush.gif

Height: 165cm

Religion/Race: Chinese Banana (ABC text only) sad.gif Speak Eng Cantonese Mandarin

Occupation: Retail.

Hobbies and interests:
I can be happy with ice tea and a book snuggling together.
Not picky about food but would try everything once at least. But weak against spicy food.

Other description (u may write a short essay about yourself, to show your personality):
I have been commented I'm easy going but easy to lose concentration.
-When I'm comfortable and safe I play like a child. If not,I'm just a practical adult who is sufficiently independent. A friend said I do have a fault.Too straight forward, but I guess only with people I'm comfortable with?
-Very much a family oriented person. Too practical for my own good. So i have been told.
-Used to spend time in career and taking care family(I'm eldest). But now looking for quiet and peaceful life + adventure included.
-I don't think I'm a high maintenance person. brows.gif

Requirements / preferences:
Chinese. More mature than me. Understanding and really patience man. I admit I'm not easy to dealt with biggrin.gif . Plus I think I forgotten how to actually be in a relationship..it had been quite long since my last long term relationship.

I posted once before under my old account TOS. Here's a new one.

Gender: Male

Location: Penang <-> Singapore

Born in the year: 1999

Weight: 60 kg

Height: 178cm

Religion/Race: Chinese/ Buddhist (more like agnostic these days, I rarely go to temples except to pray for my mother who passed away a few years ago due to terminal illness)

Occupation: PhD student at NTU Singapore, can either become a researcher in Singapore or work in the SG finance industry (more stressful with higher pay) when I finish my PhD. I will always balance between family and career.

Hobbies and interests:

1) Cooking and cleaning the house/do housework
2) Reading
3) Traveling (I do that virtually, by playing Euro Truck Simulator 2 with a worldwide map combo In real life, I would love to explore ancient places especially those near eastern Mediterranean, Egypt, Greece, Italy etc.)
4) Budgeting my expenses/income and reviewing my investment portfolio
5) Plan for all sorts of things (what to do next, what to do tomorrow, what to do in 5-10 years time etc.)

Other description (u may write a short essay about yourself, to show your personality):

A boring ISTJ Taurus, a planner, straightforward, realistic and down-to-Earth person. Thrifty like Ramjade but after my last failed relationship I am more open to spending on a girl I like. Never regretted doing that, for good or bad, my ex uplifted my living standards significantly and I can see why people spurge once in a while. That said, budgeting and planning of expenses is still a must. I don't want to go into bankruptcy, nor do I want my future partner to go into the same mess as well.

I save and invest for my future family, including me and my wife's retirement, kids education, sudden medical expenses etc. Looking for someone who is ready to be in a relationship and knows what it takes to make a relationship work.

Prefer to settle down in SG/JB area as my work opportunities are available in SG. Current plan is to get married in a few years time (30s), settle down, have kids, and retire in Penang, my hometown when old. Plan subject to change depending on the girl I meet. Say if the girl prefers to retire in/emigrate to SG I am open to that too.

Requirements / preferences:

1) Non-muslim, Chinese female (Within 5-6 years before and after 1999 should be tolerable) Mix-blood also ok.
2) Speaks English, Mandarin (Hokkien and Malay would be good too, in case we want to talk secrets in front of foreigners lol)
3) No strict preference on height and weight, as long as not obese or too thin. Moderation is always the way to go.
4) Emotionally stable and not violent (My ex can strangle me at times, and I never do any physical harm to her)
5) Indulges in deep conversations (I am not romantic, and I don't expect my wife to be one either, would be nice if you are romantic, but don't be disappointed if I am not as romantic as you... )
6) Never been married before
7) Non-smoker but can be a social drinker (I don't drink and I advise you to refrain from drinking for the benefit of our family in the future)
8) Serious relationship only, no hookups, no FWBs, no one-night stands, no sugar baby/sugar daddy etc. I only invest my time and money in a woman who values loyalty and understands the essence of delayed gratification. Attitude determines altitude.

Links (facebook/friendster/blog/pictures, whatever) etc (optional):

PM me & we'll see how it goes from there. For those without LYN account here, here's my LinkedIn account: https://www.linkedin.com/in/zheng-tien-kang-782b13248/ Drop me a message or connect with me over there and we will see how things go.

Would appreciate fellow LYN members to introduce girls to me as well.

This post has been edited by TOS2: Sep 5 2025, 10:13 AM

Have you paid for CMB subscription?
Have you tried speed dating?

CMB subscription works meh?? gives you unlimited swipe and activity report and seen who liked you saja kan

You can see who likes you. The free version cannot. So you can see their profile and see if you like their profile.

Last time no such restriction. Last time after 24H they will show the other person profile. Now you will never see the profile unless somehow you matched.

Also now you can see who replies message. Those don't reply message don't bother liking their profile.

Also they give you free 8 flowers which works as the girl maybe have like 30 likes. So how to stand out?

Takes time la be patience like you

Patience, persistence and know what you want. Don't settle for lesser.

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