I guess you tried liao lor? Hahaha...

BTW, care to tell why it hurts? Because condom are lubricated and there is no reason that it would hurt you lor. However, when using condom, if your bf wanna 'cool down' to prolong the session, just make sure he doesnt pull out from you for too long. Just left it inside lor. Thats because the lubricant that applied on the condom dry quite quickly.

Since you are not married, I really suggest condom lor. Actually using condom is much cleaner. If you let your bf shoot inside, it will be messy when the sperm comes back out. Tips from a married man.

I think sex shouldnt hurt for girl unless the first few times where the hymen torn when being penetrated. After that should be okay. If still feeling hurt, then you are not aroused enough lor. Not enough lubricant in your vagina causing the movement unpleasant and hurts at times.

Im OK with sex before marriage for serious couples. For those who are still teenager, better wait till you finish studying. The reason is that I found most couple who dated back in college/school, when they came out to work, they start comparing especially girls. One thing leads to another and so so, and finally end up in break up.