Hi Guys, Please help me out below!

I'm playing Demon Soul as a mage and have been stuck in 1-1 and 1-2 unable to find Phalanx. I have venture all the way to a red dragon splitting fire and killed a red eye soul at soul level 6 only!!! And I still can't find the so call Phalanx to spwan the black dress women for me to level up! I'm crying my tears out 7 hours into the game and cannot level! I'm afraid I'm stuck in a glitch!!!

Can anyone please guide me clearly how to find Phalanx in 1-1 and spawn the black dress women? In my world tendency, I dun even have a so call 1-1 or 1-2 appearing at all...

HELP HELP HELP!!!! Thanks a lot again!