I wonder how to be best friend with boys???
I don know what they wanna talk about....
I'm a girl which have few 3-4 best friend, when childhood that time...,im a tomboyish,but now i became a little girly....and thinking why all my best friend are so fat,and laughing the things that are not funny,even think im not with them as well.....something like tat...i sorry,i really sorry...T.T
and sudden all my boy best friend losing away,just because im ignore them,I know ignore them is a bad habit i got now....but i still can't talk to them....i don know why... i wanted to be the greatest best friend forever...but i can't,im just a part time student and working full time...and they are full time student...is hard to have time with them,when they invite me....I know,sometimes i try to smile and talk with them...but seem they giving me a space,but now as i can see the space between us are much wide....far then i thought.
much probably my best friend are quite style...even me
well,now im really feeling that i losing all my best friend...what should i do??

just be yourself ... dats all, if they are really your frens, they will accept you for who u are.

maybe its just for a while, because everyone is very busy cuz exam is coming?

if can try spend time with them more, like on saturdays and sundays u guys can always hang out together, do the stuffs you all like to do together and enjoy yourselves.

Get new best friends loh. Friends come friends go, as your "commonality" with them fades away, you will have to find new best friends that have the same hobby/interest/properties as you currently. Don't need to purposely maintain your old best friend status, just keep in touch with them will do

dun depends on others too much k?

I believe that's what they called grow up? I firmly believe there is a big gap between people who are still studying and working people. For your case, you have already expose to the society, and earning your own hard earn money, rather than people who just take their hand out and ask for money. This is a huge different in the mentality and attitude. I know it because i had been through this stage before, and i believe every one will going through this stage too.

My advice, just get used to it and non-stop making new friends.

yeah...is kinda different when i had come to this...I may make new friend's but I won't leave my friends as well. because they all are my bestest best friend i never had...thank you would try to get some topic to talk so i can group with them as well...

This post has been edited by miromiro: Jan 19 2009, 03:06 PM

just be urself.. if u guys click.. then u be the bestest best friends.. if dun then try to move on.. there are so many friends out there waiting for u..

Best friend does not mean need to see each other everyday, chat on phone everyday or do things together everyday. One of my buddies used to be so close to each other and we know almost every inch of each other, i had lost contact and dint see him for 6~9 years. After all, the faith still make us meet out of nowhere one day, and we are still like old times (18 years back). But of course not everyone be the same, people will change and same as ourselves too.

So my point here is: treat everyone as your buddy and as if it is the last day you going to see them, you will never know what is going to happen next though. This is not easy and it takes time to learn.

yea just be yourself and dont give yourself too much of unnecessary stress thinking of what topic should talk about. just talk whatever comes in mind and be a good listener at the same time, show interests on what they say =)

Ok, now I analyze ur case dis way.
U were once a tomboy, now u r gradually turning into a young lady, not important.
Feeling dat u dun belong to ur group, normal hormone changes showing dat u r turning into a young lady. A piece of advice, u can reduce ur involvement in da group, but plz dun cut all ties with ur gp, u will be thought as being stuck up.
Part time student, i understand. When u r half involve in da study world n da working world, its kinda hard. Coz da study world n da working world is 2 different worlds.
Well, there r actually 2 different kinds of friends.
a) Many social friends, no best friends.
b) Few best friends, less social friends.
U r of da 2nd type obviously. N my advice, broaden ur circle of friends. Have an open mind, just be urself n blend into da social world, not as hard as it seems. Most importantly, enjoy urself.

Hrmm.. Cant really be bestfriend with boys. Somehow we'll fall for each other. The sexual attraction between boys n girls are strong.

Just my point of view. Cheers!

yeah lor so sad...

i agree with u also
i use to have a best friend (boy) when in secondary school.. we study together,play and joke together even hanging out also together no matter where we go (Except toilet) lolz...and one day i found out i fall in love with him deeply cant even forget him, i try to tell him tht i have feel with him but tht time he already have his beloved girl already He know i love him too but in his mind im his best friend more then a couple.Since we both become more mature and have our new own life, our friendship getting far and far away already...

I thought that was a norm.

just be yourself as you are who you are...

find those friend who suit with you will do..

not everyone can meet the right friends now but we will meet one day..

why must be best friend with boy ?
why dun just be friend with gal?

boy fren must be boy lar.
and girl fren must be girl too...

i always thought i had best friends...but few years ago they met some others who were better..and then distance came between us.the most incredible thing is.....some things that i did with my best friend for example....after a while ..when he recall he said he did the things with that other friend...then i noticed...i am standing in the shadow of that friend...sad case...and now when i look at my life....i only had close friends..but never best friend(s).

1) people come and go
2) be friendly and be nice to everyone


two simple things to remember

ts is a bad girl she is ashame to befriend with fat guys.