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babytensai
post Jan 21 2009, 03:32 AM

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QUOTE(miromiro @ Jan 17 2009, 08:47 AM)
I wonder how to be best friend with boys???
I don know what they wanna talk about....
I'm a girl which have few 3-4 best friend, when childhood that time...,im a tomboyish,but now i became a little girly....and thinking why all my best friend are so fat,and laughing the things that are not funny,even think im not with them as well.....something like tat...i sorry,i really sorry...T.T
and sudden all my boy best friend losing away,just because im ignore them,I know ignore them is a bad habit i got now....but i still can't talk to them....i don know why... i wanted to be the greatest best friend forever...but i can't,im just a part time student and working full time...and they are full time student...is hard to have time with them,when they invite me....I know,sometimes i try to smile and talk with them...but seem they giving me a space,but now as i can see the space between us are much wide....far then i thought.
much probably my best friend are quite style...even me 
well,now im really feeling that i losing all my best friend...what should i do??
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Ok, now I analyze ur case dis way.
U were once a tomboy, now u r gradually turning into a young lady, not important.
Feeling dat u dun belong to ur group, normal hormone changes showing dat u r turning into a young lady. A piece of advice, u can reduce ur involvement in da group, but plz dun cut all ties with ur gp, u will be thought as being stuck up.
Part time student, i understand. When u r half involve in da study world n da working world, its kinda hard. Coz da study world n da working world is 2 different worlds.
Well, there r actually 2 different kinds of friends.
a) Many social friends, no best friends.
b) Few best friends, less social friends.
U r of da 2nd type obviously. N my advice, broaden ur circle of friends. Have an open mind, just be urself n blend into da social world, not as hard as it seems. Most importantly, enjoy urself. happy.gif

 

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