huhuhu when ever im hang out wif my classmates or my so called buddies
they always treat me like i was never there
especially guys..if they doesnt talking with guys,they talking wif girls who r prettier than me...
im so pissed off..but when the pretty girls isnt around..they started talking wif me again...haish
i know im not pretty enough..but if didnt want me to hang out wif them then why asking me to came along rite...hiyooo
i really hate guys...for ur information...im only can get along wif guys coz girls in my class...err are soo "gedik"
they make me wan to puke...

so what am i gonna do??he?
start to find another friends??

face it!
the world is too cruel

This post has been edited by w3er: Dec 16 2008, 02:16 AM

I've been there, done that, and bought the T-shirt, girl...
Stop being so emo. You are only pissed because you have a low self-esteem and virtually no self-worth. Lighten up. You gotta start communicating with some girls that you know. They don't have to be in your class. Besides, maybe those girls are 'gedik' because that's what you judge them to be but in reality they probably think you are some snooty nosed tomboy. People won't mix with you if they think you don't like them or have the same interest as them in the first place. It's the vibes you are giving.

Still in highschool eh? You don't sound much like the college type somehow... I know that it can be painful from where you are standing now. Don't worry about it. Just hang in there and think of college. There you can make friends that really matter. Same thing happened to me. Peer pressure can be such a pain in the ass.

Don't worry about guys in your class. All boys are schmucks before they hit 21 anyways. Some are still schmucks after that but the lucky few can grow to be decent men. Stop trying to hang round them too much. Don't waste your effort on them because it's not easy being 'one of the guys'. And no matter what you do you can't be one of them because you don't pee standing.

You can try making new friends in tuition class. Or talk more here ^__^ There are lots of people here and over in kopitiam corner who just love to reply to random threads... like me XD

Why are you worried about not being pretty anyways? Maybe you haven't had that growth spurt yet. I'd suggest that you go right now and look at yourself in a decently bit mirror. Find one part of your features that you like the most. Yes... not what other people say. The part YOU like the most that you feel is your most prettiest.
Now go and find things to make it nicer. If it's your hands, start experimenting with hand creams and nice manicure techniques. You might not be able to use nail polish but you sure can buff them good. Your eyes? On weekends or after school, play around with some nice eyeliner or mascara Hair? Pretty it up with some accessories and nice hair styles. Read magazines to learn how to tie it up differently.

Or maybe it's not about beauty. Maybe you can draw really well! Then by all means buy a sketchbook and start drawing! Move that pencil! Or maybe you are good in studies! Who knows?

In the end, it all boils down to you. You gotta love yourself before someone else can love you, girl o.o; Start small. Find something about yourself that makes you proud and happy. Don't think that there is no one in the world who cares.

I believe in you Keep us posted on your progress.

P/s: Guys like a girl with confidence in herself ^_~

the world is not cruel. maybe they are more outstanding than you do.

like they have more topics to talk on. but they got nothing to talk to you, and sort of.

improve yourself.

saintangelius >> im a college student lor.....huhuhuhu am i act childishly ...??


is not like i dun like to talk
im a bit talkative
but when ever im talk when bunch of us hang out together
they didnt even pay attention in wut im saying...and most of the time seems like im talking alone...nobody wan to hear it...
becoz of that i think better for me just keep quiet..
huhuh

dun blame the world
blame urself
when i hang out with my frens especially gals i will try to tok to those which are more literate and tok much into the topic rather than person who doesnt talk into the topic
mind my sentences more literate doesnt mean talkative

This post has been edited by mjjj: Dec 16 2008, 04:14 AM

u are telling here that u are not getting attention

you might happier if u keep yourself doing something or reading a book rather then thinking such thing

You can never have too many friends.
Start making more.

never go out with them, i hate these kinda people too.
yea you need new friends

let face it people like to be around people that are attractive, but attractive does not mean only in appearance it can be inner beauty too, about the appearances i think saintangelius had give a good idea about it, maybe the thing you talk about deosn't interest them, else sharpen your knwoledge more by reading more books, news and stuff, be more aware of what's happening around you, it does help, lastly people will always shun away from people that are always unhappy and like to rants, they rather stick will people who are cheerful, cheers =)

This post has been edited by nickisthemost: Dec 16 2008, 10:06 AM

get to know more new frens

i'm sure u got other frens oso rite? b confident on urself. sometimes listen to wat ppl said n improve ur communication skills from the observation. i'm sure u can attract ppl to b ur fren.

Yes yes it's all guys fault, girls don't do the same thing. OH please stop whining and do something about it.

obviously not all guys fault.. but little percentage is exist there...
i met few during my high school days too...but i wouldnt care, coz gurls frens are the best ^^

no ur not invisible...u r jus lack of attention...no hard feelings...
most guys are like dat...the only want attention from a certain lvl of female...wen they dun get it dey go for the others or stalk them...n u know guys can't really pay attention to a lot of ppl at one go...so wait for the right moment to speak up...they would answer u sooner or later...

learn how to observe and strike at the right time...lol

cool i wish i am invisible too den i can go around stealing stuffs and destroying people's property

I can be your friend

6 Ways To Make People Like You

Become genuinely interested in other people.

Smile.

Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.

Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves.

Talk in terms of other people’s interests.

Make the other person feels important and please do it sincerely.

huuhuh im so touch..
got so many reply....

ermm maybe its true
some time i dun hav topic to talk about
and i dun hav many friends either
so that is why they didnt talk to me...
they always talk about people/friend that i dun know....
i felt so left out...

i think my self esteem are too low to stand out...
n not many people know me...

It's not about your looks lar.

Trust me. Guys (or the rather shallow ones, at least) may prefer to flirt and hit only on girls who are pretty, with no interest for the rest regardless of personality.

But if you're an interesting conversationalist, or you connect well with them, they will still TALK with you even if you look like frankenstein or the incredible hulk, even if they are not interested in you.

The problem here really isn't your looks. You're either unlucky to be surrounded by people whom you cannot connect with, or it's in the way you converse and your personality. Personally, I feel there's nothing wrong with NOT being the centre of attention and conversation. But since you actually want to, I'd suggest you look into those things instead of thinking that guys don't want to talk to you because you're not pretty.

for me, i rather have 1 or 2 good friends who i can share everything with instead of a bunch of so called friends

nvm laa..don't be sad. i be your friend

yea..just be more confident to yourself and just mix with more friends will do....try to get few closer friends so that u can share your problems and hang out more often....i can be your friend as well..

oh yea, true frens are hard to find.. but when the time has come you guys will click together immediately. trust me i've been there. the worst period of my life is my high school. thank god it is over!!! now i'm living happily though i'm busy with my assignments.. i have cool frens n a great bf.. time will heal everything =)

yes true my bff and i took 10 years before we finally become besties. we are like a soul in 2 bodies. when i blink, she knows what i'm up with already

err... i m a guy... diff... usually when we hang out i dont talk at all 1... but i just listen... can learn more... when ppl wanna talk then only i talk... some ppl fake or boast to talk but i rather not talk...

i think girls a bit different from guys. we normally talk about shopping, guys, erm...girly talks and everyone is like fighting to talk..lol

hmm.. i think that im a bit like u , sometime i really do not know what to talk about, especially when in new zealand with the kiwis..
im also tryin to improve in my ppl skills...

sometimes i envy ppl who can easily make friends, they just have the ability to be likable generally have to be thick skin, not afraid to say anything,
and also have a sweet mouth... im a bit straight forward person, dun like to pretend... but in society you have to know how to mix around with different kinds of ppl even ppl you dun like

so we have to LEARN and improve

jz ignore them and i would choose never be friends again with this kind of guys lol.
i nvr experienced this before but i knw how it feels when we only hv guys to be friended ...

We're all here to support you

I guess your face are not the type that can't be look at rite? Guys are wolf, hmm, did I? I guess not, I always went to talk with whoever look lonely in a group. xD!

try to be more talkactive?

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Added on December 27, 2008, 7:49 amOk, i would like to know you, we can be friend
i ain't no colour wolf

This post has been edited by freyastyle: Dec 27 2008, 07:49 AM

u can try to join other gang

Just hang out with other new friends, the world is so big, why only them? Get yourself more knowledge and be a better person. It boosts your self esteem at the same time. Always walk with your head up even though deep in your heart you are very scared. Everyone likes confidence people (but not over). When you talk to people, try to catch what they are interested in so you'll catch their interest on you. (But never bluff on things you're not sure) Good luck !

Be confident to yourself girl. Every girl have her own beauty.
Sometimes looks isn't everything a guy is looking for.
It's the content inside of a girl.
You won't get attracted to a guy who is not confident himself right?
If you still think the looks is very important,
try using some make-ups or put more effort in clothing.
I'm sure it will give a different feeling to the guys.
But still, I think the way you show yourslef, and the way you talk,
and how you treate people is the right way to make yourself "stand out" more comparing to other girls.

Maybe your thinking and mindset.

Always remember this:

The world does not go around you, you are going around the world.

Just live happily like any other normal girl, and most importantly is your THINKING and PERSONALITY. Yes, guys attracted towards physical pretty girl, but that's just for temporarily and back with purposes. From my experience, if a girl who have a cute personality, are more welcome than pretty girl.

The key point; cute and smart personality is the one that permanently attract guys no matter when, and where. Trust me on this.

This post has been edited by iDk: Jan 6 2009, 12:44 AM

opps...same prob with one of my classmate well.. 1st of all...js asking a sensitive question if u dun mind? do u look like or ur action look like TB ?

mayb i cant solve the prob for u entirely but ...eh...when i was in secondary school, i looked like TB too, but i can mix with gals n guys classmate, js that sometimes guys classmate doesnt treat me like a gal only...but now i improve alot...so i believe u can improve urself too

Believe in yourself

i'll be your friends.
Hi babe.

dun be so serious, girls not supposed to be so serious

And what does that suppose to mean?

just the way u are ........

U need a personality transformation...... Renewing... In this world, there is no UGLY Gal....
Ever heard a mermaid become princess

Good advice.

Lol, from the book by Dale Carnegie ...

Make more friends , perhaps?