Checking out some other girl as in? Browsing and click their name? Or insist to get to know the other girls?

Moreover, i think is best, that at least put a little trust on him. It wouldn't be that hard, right?

Thing is, why you have to make it sound abnormal? To our expectation and assumption here, unless you tell us here in details what do you mean by 'checking other girls out', i guess most of us here assume its normal? I can click on a girl's profile, and if you're not satisfied about it, should you look at your insecurity? Or perhaps he isn't actually finding and spending quality time with you, which i believe is the reason why you're unhappy?

And its hard for you to gain another little more trust on him? Just for the note, trusting someone is not about, 'i put my faith on him and just let him be'. You can still trust the person when you confront the person ONLY if you know how to ask and question properly. I don't expect you to interrogate him, but you could actually try to ask him in a nice or flirty way perhaps? He knew you trust him, if you care about the relationship. Now that's trust. Rather than blindly crossing fingers and let him do his own thing, now that's like trying to hit double jackpot in a slot machine in Vegas.

How about just spare yourself more time and see what he is actually up to. At least you can gather up reasons to support your doubt and curiousity. How's that sound?

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Added on December 9, 2008, 4:42 pmThat depends on what pda the guys have, i guess.

This post has been edited by peinsama: Dec 9 2008, 04:42 PM

o.o

You're not catching my drift....anyway it's okay.

So in summary, you do feel he crossed the 'line', right? The reason why you felt such insecurity because part of the reason is he didn't provide you the security that you seek, aside from feeling that you're not good enough to be with him. Well, then learn to step up and discuss such issue with him. Use your maturity and confidence to talk this 'limit' issues with him. If you know how well communication is essential towards a relationship, then now its the time to put it to the test. If you think you can't keep it too long inside you, then spill it out. If possible with less emotions. Learn how to talk the right way to guys. Showing negative emotions are not going to make him understand what you're trying to express. Instead he will actually tries to retaliate with you more. So, beware about it when you confront him. Just don't make him felt like he is useless.

I didn't say it's you also. Why you perasan jek..haiyayayayayaya