Advice Wanted Should I confront, my new bf
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 Dec 9 2008, 03:53 PM
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i met and got together with my current bf the same way as well.
i think you should confront him about it, but do it tactfully so as not to make it sound like a threat. my bf and i open up about everything, including stuff about our exes, and its a good way to clear up all insecurities and all the unecessary worries. =) |
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Dec 9 2008, 03:58 PM
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QUOTE(^Hobbes^ @ Dec 9 2008, 03:55 PM) so u can accept him having an affair and caressing Oh sure. As long as i stay as his first, and his pda always comes second » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «  jk   |
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Dec 9 2008, 04:05 PM
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QUOTE(AngelOrDevil @ Dec 9 2008, 04:01 PM) His activities are within these few days too, else I wont be bothered. I can't accept it if he told me he is still open for other options. But I can accept it if he admitted and not going to do it again. yeah giving him the BOD once in a while is alright, but if you find that you have to do it every time you ask him bout stuff, that means something.I think I just going to ask him how he see our relationship. Whether he going to lie or not, I can still trust him to be honest. some guys have a flirtatious nature and it takes a while for them to settle down when they got a gf. perhaps open up to him, tell him that you understand, and just give him some time to get settle down =) Added on December 9, 2008, 4:06 pm QUOTE(^Hobbes^ @ Dec 9 2008, 04:02 PM) You not afraid that his pda will overtake you some day? Nah. There are some things that his pda just cant provide At the rate pda's being released today, you not worry that he'll find his pdas more interesting?  This post has been edited by chocoholic221: Dec 9 2008, 04:06 PM |
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Dec 9 2008, 04:11 PM
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QUOTE(^Hobbes^ @ Dec 9 2008, 04:09 PM) That statement wouldnt be complete without examples I'm sure you have an imagination  |
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Dec 9 2008, 04:35 PM
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QUOTE(AngelOrDevil @ Dec 9 2008, 04:28 PM) So if he is just checking out and not insist to get to know the other girls then its normal? Whether he insist on getting to know the other girls, I'm not sure but I can find out also. If not because of hte lilttle trust I have on him, I should be arguing with him right now... Actually that comes back to my topic question, whether I should trust him and see how things go or to confront him. just checking out is normal, i mean, we girls check guys out too right? |
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Dec 9 2008, 04:56 PM
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QUOTE(peinsama @ Dec 9 2008, 04:41 PM) That depends on what pda the guys have, i guess.  i do not class guys based on the pdas they have. |
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Dec 9 2008, 05:01 PM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Dec 9 2008, 04:58 PM) good, cause I don't have a pda... eh i didnt say that i dont class guys based on whether they have a pda or not |
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