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Advice Wanted Should I confront, my new bf

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^Hobbes^
post Dec 9 2008, 03:22 PM

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QUOTE(ling~ @ Dec 9 2008, 03:21 PM)
1st date he grab ur hand without ur permission
wat does he plan to do on 2nd date?  rolleyes.gif
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btw that guy is who ah?
^Hobbes^
post Dec 9 2008, 03:25 PM

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QUOTE(ling~ @ Dec 9 2008, 03:24 PM)
hmm.... start with e?  laugh.gif
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lulz

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post Dec 9 2008, 03:55 PM

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QUOTE(chocoholic221 @ Dec 9 2008, 03:53 PM)
i met and got together with my current bf the same way as well.
i think you should confront him about it, but do it tactfully so as not to make it sound like a threat.
my bf and i open up about everything, including stuff about our exes, and its a good way to clear up all insecurities and all the unecessary worries. =)
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so u can accept him having an affair and caressing
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post Dec 9 2008, 04:02 PM

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QUOTE(chocoholic221 @ Dec 9 2008, 03:58 PM)
Oh sure. As long as i stay as his first, and his pda always comes second  tongue.gif
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You not afraid that his pda will overtake you some day?
At the rate pda's being released today, you not worry that he'll find his pdas more interesting? brows.gif


Added on December 9, 2008, 4:04 pm
QUOTE(AngelOrDevil @ Dec 9 2008, 04:01 PM)
His activities are within these few days too, else I wont be bothered. I can't accept it if he told me he is still open for other options. But I can accept it if he admitted and not going to do it again.
I think I just going to ask him how he see our relationship. Whether he going to lie or not, I can still trust him to be honest.
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I see you are seeking for reassurance

Why not confront him?


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post Dec 9 2008, 04:09 PM

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QUOTE(chocoholic221 @ Dec 9 2008, 04:05 PM)
yeah giving him the BOD once in a while is alright, but if you find that you have to do it every time you ask him bout stuff, that means something.
some guys have a flirtatious nature and it takes a while for them to settle down when they got a gf. perhaps open up to him, tell him that you understand, and just give him some time to get settle down =)


Added on December 9, 2008, 4:06 pm
Nah. There are some things that his pda just cant provide  brows.gif
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