finally the day has come, for those who have yet talked to me before should know i got some problem regarding having a music instrument in my house so here goes..

Today after finishing my routine college class, went straight to home and guess what? my grandparent come for a visit with some cousin,first i was happy they came but later on they asked me to sit in the living area for a moment and i thought this could be a bad omen since their face shows some serious expression

first they asked me bout hows college going etc ( all the nice stuff b4 they bring the worst question ) and then BAM!.. my grandma goes to my room and take out my musical instrument with the help of the cousin. And they start nagging bout why you play music? and many other (pedas question) i can barely hold my anger at that point but heck.. if i talk it will make thing worse, my opinion doesn't seems to mean anything to them and they come up with a collusion so that i would get the instrument out of the house before they thrash them to pieces

my parent dint help much in this matter, they also join forces with my grandparents while lecturing me non stop for like.. 1 1/2 hours!


i really need some opinion in this guys, shud i just leave my instrument at a friend house? there's the second problem.. i dun have ANY friend that lived near me..

or the second option.. sell THEM!
its a very hard option since the instrument that i own barely reach 2 months! ( STILL NEW!! )

help me guys, I WANT to keep the instrument but at the same time.. i dun want to disappoint my family for not taking the issue seriously.. and they wont stop nagging me everyday since the day grandparent visit (>_<)




This post has been edited by mushimushi88: Nov 19 2008, 01:08 AM

darn.. nice move blacktrix but that doesn't simply works for me, student like me hardly cant afford to enter Alexis

its guitar ( got electric+acoustic and classical ) actually i got 4 guitar with me 2 acoustic 1 classical and 1 electric

i told them earlier back then when i purchase the guitar, cant simply resist to tell them i started playing guitar.. but it turn out to be the opposite reaction, they hate it but i still stick with the guitar until i stumble on this BIG wall atm!

listen to them is the only option now..



Haha! my neighbor family originated from India and pretty hard to talk with them since they not too cater to have a chat!

taking your advise, I did it! and this is the result..



1 of my acoustic guitar got whacked by my dad using his knee, this happen after the debate* went pretty hot.. luckily my dad randomly pick a santa cruz acoustic among those 4 guitar.. still.. its my loss ( this picture taken while me cleaning up the mess my dad done, gotta removes the strings before somebody get hurt! )

the debate resulting by 1 of my guitar got Whacked! and a new serious demand, i had to sell all my guitar and and show them the money, any cheating like sending to a friend, lending to a friend or anything equals to it shall not be tolerated.. i might be thrown out of the house if i were caught telling lies

usually my dad would not go this far but.. my grandparent insist my parent needs to be more tougher on me, u spoil your son too much something like that la

i had to do what i had to do, sell 1 or 2 of the guitar and hide the other one at my college.
I'll take and upload some pictures in the garage sale section later on this weekend

lastly all i want to say is Thank You for all your support and advise, seeing so many respond and how positive u guys can be make me cry in my heart. i`ll not stop my desire and passion for music yet! but still... life must go on,just like a wheel, sometimes you are up and some time you are down

Thanks For Your All Support Guys, i love u all!

the one i bought using my own money were 2 only, the other 2 given by my uncle and friend as a gift =)

my uncle wont wont nego in this matter, he will ask to stay move along on watever happen, yeah he will be sad but i wont involve my uncle in my family matter
it just not good to give bad impression about your family to other family members

they are still my meatblood so like it or not of coz i would submit to them

sell all of them.. quite interesting idea.. just might work!



This post has been edited by mushimushi88: Nov 19 2008, 08:53 PM

for what purpose? have a duel with my dad? xD

thanks for your concern paramore, i really appreciate that! =) but sorry if i must say this, things had gone pretty bad but surely i know my dad would compensate for what he had done to me

well.. he wont apologize and wont take back what he said but yeah.. wait till me birthday~ =)

geez.. u such a nice guy arent u Paramore? =)

This post has been edited by mushimushi88: Nov 19 2008, 09:32 PM

Phew! finally i can get online!
Wow! there a lot of response! thanks guys

oh! my grades are good, not excellent like most of u guys but above average

back to the story continuation, a week after the incident that my dad broke the guitar, he bought be a new phone, i dun understand at first but i think it is the way he shows that he sorry for what he had done to my guitar. And he also said that for this time please just follow what he asked me to do. soon enough i figure i should listen to what my parents requested and respect their decision.

and yeah, i put my guitar back at my uncle house for the meantime, after i told all my dad did to me bout the new phone and stuff to my uncle, he concluded that i should sell my guitar, if i cant bear to lose all of them drastically, he told me to sell them 1 by 1.

so for the start, i wish to sell my Yamaha F310 and later so on with the electric. i already post it in Garage Sales section.
for anyone who interested, please visit this link :

http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=864584

p/s: mod, im sorry if i linked this thread to garage section, forgive me


And thanks guys for the support! haha about the mogok1, dun do it! if not my family will get a bad reputation with this already not so friendly community

oh thanks guys for giving more option bout this, i hope this thread could be any help to other who might as well having difficulties regard with music and their parents

until the end of our day come, please let us enjoy the music of this world!

=)

This post has been edited by mushimushi88: Dec 10 2008, 12:40 AM