We been together before about 2 1/2 yr relations then break due to some problem... ...
after 7yrs.. we meet up and get back together till now almost 2yr relantionship...

So how bout u girls? any lovely story to share with us ?

yes! believe in fate. I broke up with my current bf 6 times in 2 and a half years. Till today, thank god, we are still together and the relationship is still sweet. Fate + TQ to God's Blessings!

i believe in fate only 30%
another 70% is your and his effort

nowadays too many divorce ...
it's that mean divorce is the end of your fate with him/her ?

nice fate...
since meet again, and together again, hold the relationship tight ba.^^

belive in fate is good.. but also need to c how he layan u .. broke up coz of what .. gal or $$ ..hehehe.. that is up to u all to think .. as for me .. we can make thing up .. dont make thing until broke up.. what also can say out n work out together ,.., if cant work out together mean ..what .. only one thing in my mind .. is ..after marry .. always fight for this n that..hehehe....

easy to get together but hard to maintain ...

haha.....my story almost 50% same like TS the front part la the end part havent appear yet........but i also put fate @ 30% the rest is in ur hand

huh.. in my hand ?

its not fate la

i assume most of this fate stuff happpened to old ladies only la ... want to know why? this is a smal world la if u age 30+ sure tend to meet each other again laaaaaaaaaaaaaa lorrrrrrrr

ya ur life is in ur hand u cant juz sit down there n wait fate to the job for u........

This post has been edited by BuBuCai: Nov 8 2008, 03:34 PM

i believe tat if u want smtg..
get it urself..
during my 18 years old birhtday..
my friend bring him along..
n say he is my birthday present..
aft a few month..
we really together..
aft abt one year +
i went to KL study..
den alot problem come out..
in the end..
we broke up..
so..
fate ar..
depends lo..
sometimes..
i will still believe in it..
bt..
sometimes i will oso ignore it

waaa.. so kind 1 ar ur fren..
i also wan can? haha..brg a guy for me 4 my 20th b'day next year, ok?
haha... joking lo ~~
actually my stry also almost similar lik urs..
the actual reason for break s coz he's goin to kl for studies..
however, problems keep occuring..
whenever v tried 2 be together, bad thg happens..
tat restrict us..
for each n every time...
therefore i believe in fate tat god never wan us 2 get along..
or perhaps the truth s not like tat..
but apparently it is..

i believe in fate.. but actually i don't believe in fate

LOL.....say ad like dint say anything

This post has been edited by BuBuCai: Nov 10 2008, 01:12 AM

lol...

i don't know whether this is a rant, don't know where to tell my feelings but here it goes:

I had been with my ex for 4 years since college, we both thought that we will be together till Death do us part.

We share the same strength and weaknesses. The feeling is hard to be described. We both fell for each other almost naturally...

But after we got out to the working world, everything changed. It has been almost 11 months since our relationship has ended. I don't know whether I could have the same future like what our forumer "Maye" mentioned, reconciled after 7 years!

I really missed my ex so much... I hope she'll be back to my side once more

By Christmas this year, it should have been our 5th anniversary...

This post has been edited by geekster129: Nov 10 2008, 08:56 PM

wow. geng. 7 years....
but my first boyfriend is still waiting for me till now. during my schooling days, we were together, but because he is from NY, we dont meet each other often. he enrolled himself in the college here to be with me. he have so many girls around him. at the age of 14, im really very very jealous. so we broke up. and i told him that if he can wait, he wait till i finish my spm. and yeah he waited. but i still not prepare for this. now, i'm 19, he is still there. and still very very loyal. he dont sleep ard and stuff.

Wow....hard to get a boy like him d loo now a days.....appereciate it lo.....

brother come hug hug......wuwuwuwu i also got the same feel wif u n the same story wif mine.....

fate is disappointing never believe in it

dun cry... come hug hug..
but sometime get back together might b not so happy like last time..

hai i think i bliv in fate lo.... coz i've been thru 8yrs relationship dy, since the very beginning until now, no matter how hard v tried, stil can't avoid quarrelling...... sien laaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.... i really wonder how to enter into marriage wit him since v used to quarrel.... i really dun want it ler....
i went for fortune teller few times dy. all of them also told me tat v love each other very much, but our " 8 zi xiang chong "... lol...

ever watched Disney's "Enchanted"?

too bad we are living in the real world... and "Happily Ever After" will not always be the case.

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Added on November 11, 2008, 11:35 ammight not be so happy? mind sharing your xperience/thoughts?

This post has been edited by geekster129: Nov 11 2008, 11:35 AM

my bf.. very " big man" , bad temper..
i oso go to those fortune teller.. our relation hard to maintain...cos both oso bad temper..

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Added on November 11, 2008, 12:44 pmmayb bcos both oso noe each other well... sumthin dun like those lovely coupler.. we seldom talk.....
few mth 1 sms ... even we r stay together but.. like after work he watch his drame i play ps..
feel a bit bore....no topic at all.. except football..

This post has been edited by Maye: Nov 11 2008, 12:44 PM

yeah.. i think after coming out to working life... it's a totally different love life. Same case here.

This post has been edited by geekster129: Nov 11 2008, 02:13 PM

erm.... mayb old oredi .....

I don't believe in fate, because i think whatever happens has its concrete reasons and i only believe in what i do and i did......

hah? old? still in early 20s only wor...

if can oredi bcome mommy lo..

ya is true but hav to move on also rite no matter back together or not??

This post has been edited by BuBuCai: Nov 11 2008, 11:15 PM

ya.. if get back together happy is ok la.. but if not happy den .. u let the same person hurt u second time.. haih..

love is such a complicated thing....haih x2

getting back after 7 years is amazing! But the thing is, will it be totally different than the past? Both must have changed a lot already for that period of time.

This post has been edited by geekster129: Nov 12 2008, 11:15 AM

new thing came out of my head maybe i put love aside n start my dream......

Good. Keep up the good work. Live your dreams

tq bro.....if love come sure wanna stop also cant stop,if havent come u push hard also not use........if love doesnt comes at all so juz be it have to move on also

OK. Good luck. Come hug hug...

good luck ... wish dream come true

Maye: wish that your relationship is sweet everyday.. hope that you and your BF get married soon. Take care of your relationship and appreciate all that you have now.

not i dun appreciate ... i hope so..but sometime really many thing happen tat cant control.
i thinkin to let go erm...

agree agree.....

thanks... guy ... i hope to

wow....you are reallly lucky >.<

Bad for me, I really too believe in fate before this >.< I was thought that i married a very ncie husband...who knows..after 2 years relationship, he left me and my little boy >.<

I hope both after meet up, solve all the problem that occured that cause u both break up alredy =)

erm.. hope he will back soon ..

The notion of "make love" originally does not refer to sex. In the 16th century,
make love meant "pay amorous attention to". So when a guy makes love to a gal
in 16th century, it meant to write love letters, sing a song, etc, etc all the romantic
stuff to the gal. And they will continue to make love until death do them part.
In the 20th century, society has relate make love to only sex.

You know what this means? Fate is only 50%. The remaining 50% goes down to how
you continue to put effort in the relationship to make it last. BOTH the guy and gal
of course are responsible to make this happen. If either one stops, the relationship fails.
Haven't we all experienced this before?? A guy and gal falls madly in love with each other.
After a fews years down the road, either one or both got bored of each other. Then they
break up. It was fate that they met, but it wasn't fate that they broke up. It's because
they stop 'making love' to each other.

So what have we learn from this?? DO NOT STOP MAKING LOVE. Muahohohohohoho.

haha.. ok ...
i thk i will not stop making lov with the guy that i love...