Questions to TS: What does it take to be a good guy? How good is good? What makes you think that you are good enough for your so-called good guy?

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Added on November 4, 2008, 2:13 am

Take note of the the words in bold. Kindly rephrase your sentences by using the 1st person singular which is "I, me, and myself" Don't be afraid that people might call you selfish in this particular context. Don't speak as though you represent the majority of your own gender as every girl has got different wants and needs (although standard ones remain).

I would like to paraphrase your lines for the benefit of every dude here.

As a modern dude who chases after big ambitions and aspirations, I find it increasingly harder to look for a suitable soulmate to spend the rest of my life with. A typical modern KL dude usually finds dating hard, when out of 10 girls:
- 4 would be feel insecure if a man is not financially stable. (money)
- 3 would be sluts only out looking for a fling with sugar daddies. (again money rules)
- 2 would totally fail in taking care of man's one and only need. (singular and the rest is history)

And only 1 out of 10 girls may match well with the man and both have each other's needs fulfilled. She doesn't feel insecure just because the man is not financially stable, and is ready to commit and spend the rest of her life with this man through thick and thin. When he eats porridge, she tightens her belt and suffers together with him. When he eats abalone, she feasts with him and enjoys the fruit her labour. Remember, behind every successful man, there is a woman or rather a wife. But of course that doesn't apply when a woman intends to marry a rich man just to claim all the credit for herself.

I wonder how do you guys cope with this situation? And what do girls think of this? And I would say, for those guys who have found that loving '1 out of 10' girls, you gotta feel really lucky.