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 Why is it so hard to find a good guy nowadays?

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silverhawk
post Nov 2 2008, 02:14 AM

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QUOTE(ace.princess @ Nov 2 2008, 01:51 AM)
As a modern girl who chases after big ambitions and aspirations, we find it increasingly harder to look for suitable soul mates to spend the rest of our lives with. A typical modern KL girl usually finds dating hard, when out of 10 guys:
- 4 would be intimidated of a woman's career success.
- 3 would be playboys only out looking for sex and one night stands.
- 2 would totally fail at taking care of the woman's needs.

And only 1 out of 10 guys may match well with the woman and have each other's needs fulfilled. He's not intimidated by her success and independence, and ready to commit and spend the rest of his life with this woman.

I wonder how do you girls cope with this situation? And what do guys think of this? And I would say, for those girls who have found that loving '1 out of 10' guy, you gotta feel really lucky.
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This is because all these requirements you post take a back seat to your emotions. Guys that fit your "requirements" lack in the "feeling" department, and vice versa. Its not a problem with girls only, guys face the same problem looking for good girls.
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post Nov 2 2008, 08:13 PM

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QUOTE(aragorn.yoong @ Nov 2 2008, 07:45 PM)
Don't you guys get it?
What TS actually meant is she's found a good bf.

No where was that implied, from the way she writes, the opposite is implied. Would the TS like to clarify the matter?



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post Nov 4 2008, 08:46 PM

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QUOTE(aragorn.yoong @ Nov 4 2008, 04:53 AM)
Oh come on, stop being such a hypocrite.
When you have a gold digger going after you, you actually allow it to happen.
If you hadn't allowed it to happen, you would reject any gold diggers straight off.
And only date sincere women.
Face it, it won't be easy saying no to a "hot-supermodel-material" gold digger, can you?
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You totally missed the point.


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post Nov 9 2008, 01:25 AM

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QUOTE(LoveMeNot @ Nov 9 2008, 01:11 AM)
Yeah its not easy.Just got to have more faith and trust on such guys. . So it is possible. Its not hard to find a good guy nowadays. They are everywhere. The problem is on the gal itself.Having high expectation and wanting everything to be perfect e.g. good looking, rich, romantic, ya da ya da..

Ive managed to overcome it. and Ive found mine over here in lyn  wub.gif
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