Questions to TS: What does it take to be a good guy? How good is good? What makes you think that you are good enough for your so-called good guy?

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Added on November 4, 2008, 2:13 amTake note of the the words in bold. Kindly rephrase your sentences by using the 1st person singular which is "I, me, and myself" Don't be afraid that people might call you selfish in this particular context. Don't speak as though you represent the majority of your own gender as every girl has got different wants and needs (although standard ones remain).

I would like to paraphrase your lines for the benefit of every dude here.

As a modern dude who chases after big ambitions and aspirations, I find it increasingly harder to look for a suitable soulmate to spend the rest of my life with. A typical modern KL dude usually finds dating hard, when out of 10 girls:
- 4 would be feel insecure if a man is not financially stable. (money)
- 3 would be sluts only out looking for a fling with sugar daddies. (again money rules)
- 2 would totally fail in taking care of man's one and only need. (singular and the rest is history)

And only 1 out of 10 girls may match well with the man and both have each other's needs fulfilled. She doesn't feel insecure just because the man is not financially stable, and is ready to commit and spend the rest of her life with this man through thick and thin. When he eats porridge, she tightens her belt and suffers together with him. When he eats abalone, she feasts with him and enjoys the fruit her labour. Remember, behind every successful man, there is a woman or rather a wife. But of course that doesn't apply when a woman intends to marry a rich man just to claim all the credit for herself.

I wonder how do you guys cope with this situation? And what do girls think of this? And I would say, for those guys who have found that loving '1 out of 10' girls, you gotta feel really lucky.

This post has been edited by samteng: Nov 4 2008, 02:20 AM

Oh puhleezzz, look and aim before you pull out your shaft and spew your venom. I would be lying if I say that you have never demonstrated hypocrisy so far in your life. So stop calling the kettle black when you're no whiter than it. That would only make you a double hypocrite.

Just because you can't resist doesn't mean others can't too. Well, I can't stop the birds from flying above my head but I can certainly stop them from building a nest on my head. It's just like saying when a stalker follows your girlfriend (if you have one) and eventually rapes her, she actually allows it to happen. Boy, your logic is totally skewed in this sense. What kind of twisted mind have you got?

Yeah well, I didn't even have to make a conscious effort to reject them, I just needed to ignore them and that's it. Sincerity is all that matters dude, not hypocrisy. Well, my dad has a friend who managed to do it. So it's no Mission Impossible. Judging from the way you wrote, you must be speaking this from experience.

This post has been edited by samteng: Nov 4 2008, 08:38 PM

The point is, the seaman did not manage swim through the tunnel and finally found himself crashing at the side of it and went