Feb 28 2009, 10:43 AM
QUOTE(MagicPudding @ Oct 4 2008, 02:55 PM)
let me say something about the culture in my family, my parents plan well for our future, they saved enough money for educational and future needs. They used to be stingy, which is why we almost never went on a family trip before, the things I did during school break were mostly reading books, going shopping complexes. My family members sucks in expressing feelings, celebrating birthdays, mother and fathers day is not a tradition of my family. In other words, my family life is quite dull. Not I want to blame them but I grewed up in these cultures which made me quite dull and closed-minded as well.
well .. even if your family has this tradition .. it doesnt mean that u have to stick with it for the rest of your life .. previously , my family also same as yours ... doesnt celebrate fathers/mothers day , birthday .. etc ...i felt bored also ... but i know i needed to change the situation ... so i started to let my family members know my feelings... thoughts ... ideas ... juz sharing with them..*not emo-ing k ?*
had birthday cakes celebration for them ...and things started to change..
so ,, as for ur situation ... why not change ur attitude or way of expressing towards ur parents for starters ?
remember ... its not wrong to let mistakes happened and screwed the situation.. but its never correct if you juz sit there doing nothing to change the situation...
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