bro.. honestly i pity u.. i understand your situation like yours not to say i've encounter something like this, my friend does

1st he get in a local expensive college, then he swear he work hard while studying n earn $ to lighten his parents burden (aint rich)
then his family cant support him no more because he have a bro at US and monthly expenses is scary
he changed, he became greedy n materialistic
slept a girl
got pregnant.. his parents do not have money to support another soul in the family
dint got marry but chosen adoption
life a rich n famous continues while his parents work off their @$$ to support him
soon he finally realize he do not have enough money to spend
he started a small business with some friends online
soon i realize its a conning @ scamming business or whatever u guys call (i cant say anything cause its non of my business)
still no money
get drug addicted.. with lotsa debts n problem behind him..
finally committed the most unforgiven crime - rob n accidentally killed a young man while on crack
end up in jail.. lost contact with him..

my story is long i know,
i respect ridzuan to be a man n admit his mistakes n he is willing to pay back. not like my friend, timid n cowardly act drag him deeper under
so i wish that all of u all will give him sometime n a chance to make things right!

not helping him nor siding him, just a concern passer-by ^^

p/s: please do not flame me, just my 25cents to make this place more peaceful