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post Sep 30 2008, 01:24 AM, updated 18y ago

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Hi readers,

this happen quite some time ago. Once, my pms didn't come, so i and my boy went to the clinic to do a check up.
we didn't have intercourse but he accidentally shift abit of his "liquid" to my part when we sorta had foreplay..

That very day, i saw a clinic that belongs to a malay lady doctor. Race will not be an issue here. She was very very very nice n kind. probably the most outgoing n friendliest malay lady doctor i've met.

Her assistant is also a malay lady, quite young. So the doc ask me to do urine sample, n i went to do it lah.... there were alot of patients ,all malay with family (small kids,babies and pregnant mom's) except me n my bf (paiseh).

Anw, while i just came out of toilet and put the jar on the reception table and sat with my bf to wait, the assistant lady call out loud in front of all the patients,

" PREGNANCY TEST! PLS COME THIS WAY!"

Me and my bf look at each other. WTF!!! so damn loud say in front of everyone like this, she stood far from us and did so, while i went to the doctor to tell this matter, she said the lady didnt do it on purpose but i think it was purposely done.

So share any comments or your own story about anything happened like that.

Until today, i'm very very angry with this lady and i dont want to go back to that clinic even though the doctor is very nice. My dignity is damaged in front of other visitors. And im not pregnant.
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post Sep 30 2008, 12:51 PM

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QUOTE(vey99 @ Sep 30 2008, 12:44 PM)
whats with the embarrassment? are you underage or something?
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The assistant yell out my purpose of visit in front of all the other guest which are adults with family of their own.

A professional assistant shouldn't do that but come closer to a patient and inform face to face.

No i wasn't underage.
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post Sep 30 2008, 04:54 PM

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QUOTE(nexous @ Sep 30 2008, 01:07 PM)
you went to the clinic to do a test just because there was semen in your external genitalia?

omg you are really a noob  doh.gif  shakehead.gif

peace  icon_rolleyes.gif
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hey..... do u even know if i did DIY at home b4 that? if u dont, then dont simply start calling names k? i did a DIY b4 i went n i wasn't sure with the result so i went to the clinic lah, simple as that. Anw, what does the duplicate acc got to do with this post??


Added on September 30, 2008, 4:59 pm
QUOTE(nexous @ Sep 30 2008, 01:07 PM)
you went to the clinic to do a test just because there was semen in your external genitalia?

omg you are really a noob  doh.gif  shakehead.gif

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Do u knw that pre-cum or semen can actually get a girl pregnant? who's noob now? sheesh.

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post Sep 30 2008, 05:36 PM

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QUOTE(abubin @ Sep 30 2008, 05:22 PM)
what's wrong with letting people know you are there for pregnancy test? It's a joyous moment to have baby.

The only reason you are embarrassed is because you are guilty about it. Which in your case is pre-marital status.

How old are you anyway? There are something called pregnancy test kit. Don't you ever shop in watson or guardian pharmacy?

You know what I think? Shops should start putting pregnancy kits next to condoms. So kids don't get embarrassed when yelled at for pregnancy test in clinics.
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Ok, let me make this clear.

1.) i DID bought the test kit and brought it back home, and TEST IT.

2.) I saw the result, and i'm not satisfied because my PMS haven't come for a long time, so that is WHY i went to the CLINIC.

3.) ALL PATIENT was staring at me with THAT STARE as if i've KILLED someone. If u were me, how would u feel?

4). I'm just sharing my story here, and NO. i'm NOT underage.


yes i know what i did was wrong... but i did not had SEXUAL INTERCOURSE. AND TOPIC INI SUDAH LARI!!!! PLUS, IT WAS ONLY A FOREPLAY. And why is everybody shooting at me? What did i do wrong at everyone?

I was 18 at that time k? and i don't do it anymore.

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post Sep 30 2008, 06:09 PM

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QUOTE(abubin @ Sep 30 2008, 06:03 PM)
ok ok...good that you tested with prenancy kits first.

But still about the stare...you know when you are guilty of something..when people look at you, you will think they know with their death look? Well, it's because you are guilty.

I am not judging you right or wrong but saying you are overreacting. See..like in this posting...you think everyone is shooting at you...all the negativity have to go. You must be a real pessimistic person.
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Hey,

Actually i was just mentioning that, the kakak shouldn't call me like that lar. she should just call my name, and tell me its my turn, bcos she did called my name and she said the purpose, now there's no need for that right?

Sorry if i seem to be a pessimistic person but i'm really not smile.gif . Because i thought by sharing, other people can share their own stories or something like that, but what's with the duplicate post investigation thing and the noob calling ? sleep.gif

Sorry for any misunderstandings, and thanks for reading!

But overall, thanks for replying everyone. Maybe i should just let this thread as it is. Thanks! biggrin.gif
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post Sep 30 2008, 06:49 PM

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QUOTE(N's @ Sep 30 2008, 06:17 PM)
So how was the test?
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Clear smile.gif . Not pregnant. This was long ago lah.


Added on September 30, 2008, 6:50 pmnokia2003 : PMS


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Lol???

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post Sep 30 2008, 07:15 PM

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QUOTE(nokia2003 @ Sep 30 2008, 06:52 PM)
your terminology is clearly inaccurate.
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Isit? Sorry. Then i call it period.
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post Sep 30 2008, 10:09 PM

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QUOTE(nokia2003 @ Sep 30 2008, 07:20 PM)
@ ore0
sure thing. whatever that floats your boat.
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your rabbit is cute biggrin.gif


Added on September 30, 2008, 10:11 pmActually, she did ask her other assistant to go tell that lady off. I would more appreciate if that lady come in n apologize to me face to face. But what to do, she didn't. instead, i dont know where she go hide herself.

After exit the clinic, me and my boy agree dowan go bck there anymore.

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post Sep 30 2008, 10:53 PM

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Race is not an issue.

Its stated clearly smile.gif
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post Oct 1 2008, 12:03 AM

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Whats wrong with mentioning the race? I didn't make a big deal out of the race??? Didn't kutuk or anything right? So whats so big deal? I just kutuk the person not the race.

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Nokia,

ur bunny is really cute, haha. so tame can put on in the car like that biggrin.gif rclxms.gif
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post Oct 2 2008, 10:56 AM

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QUOTE(nokia2003 @ Oct 2 2008, 09:39 AM)
again, we are not arguing exactly how impossible are the chances of fertilisation taking place because at the end of the day, patients are only interested if it is feasible for one to get pregnant (coitus interruptus is usually how this accident might happen). anyhow, i think that we have found our answer for today (as underlined by you above), the pill has a higher likelihood to fail than fertilisation prevention via ejaculation outside or near the vagina (or external genitalia as pointed out by TS).
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OMG Nokia2003, i'm so sorry u have to deal with this "smart" fella who studied for then spm level for human body, leave him / her to what he/she wants to think cos either way, many websites have said that even the pre-cum or semen is on the women's overall vagina, doesn't matter if its not near the hole, the sperm still can swim up into it and thus, makes a girl pregnant.

Nexous, thanks for those medical education but, to further this prove, pls check out "http://teenwire.com" . They did explain that the girl CAN get pregnant even if the guy did not ejaculate in her but outside of her part.


Added on October 2, 2008, 11:00 am
QUOTE(evilkiey @ Oct 1 2008, 03:30 PM)
I heared frm a friend that there are now pill for guys.Eat the pill and it will kill sperm in ur body or somthing like that..Well it is still in a testing phase..Almost the same kinda pill like women take..
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lol....wait the guy become girl how? tongue.gif or become more girlish (touchwood). joking tongue.gif


Added on October 2, 2008, 11:02 am
QUOTE(-Evo_8787- @ Oct 1 2008, 05:10 AM)
y most of the reply is guys?? -.- flaming somemore... didnt knoe they 'understand' gals so much..

of course as a gal we care a lot for our air muka... if im 18 n i go for pregancy test, wat would other tink of me.. n usually clinic should call patient by their name...

lazy to talk so much.. only gals will understand gals
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Thank u for understanding! cry.gif Gosh .... finally a person who understands how i feel, thank u so much! rclxms.gif


Added on October 2, 2008, 11:10 amto wisd:

Another BIG thank u for understanding! i don't know what is their problem lol.....

To nexous:

Anyway, no matter how much you say that the possibility is low, there is still certain small % the sperm can swim up and meet the egg. Its not impossible.

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post Oct 2 2008, 06:23 PM

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Hi Deslack.

yes the chances are low, but lets not take the risk am i right? this topic suddenly becomes about the egg and the sperm war debate? lol.

the doctor knows that i only want to be called by my name once its my turn, i did told her and the lady who made that mistake was also standing there with us in the room.

but once i waited again for my turn outside, she called my first name and immediately say my purpose of visit. patience before me....she didn't do like this....

I'm not lying la, it really did happened.
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post Oct 3 2008, 02:22 PM

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QUOTE(bobby85 @ Oct 3 2008, 02:18 PM)
hi ts...still remember for how long ur period didn't come when u decided to go to take a pregnancy test??
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hi bobby smile.gif

more than a month and 2 weeks...

hi temptation,

its ok, i don't mind what you said. Its an open opinion, nonetheless, there is no need to be racist lol.
Thank you, it is like what you said, human mentality and its reactions. smile.gif
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post Oct 5 2008, 01:00 PM

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QUOTE(PerfectStop @ Oct 4 2008, 11:37 PM)
wow..are u a doc?  thumbup.gif
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His probably a medical student who ran away from my topic. And telling a FEMALE that she dont know her own body. Tsk tsk.
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post Oct 6 2008, 08:56 PM

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QUOTE(narkon @ Oct 5 2008, 04:42 PM)
u r so offensive...open your mind....what he/she say is true...so no need to deny..its good he/sh share his knowledge to u and all of us aite? doh.gif
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Aish.... i'm using sarcasm only la... yeah he/she is sharing knowledge, but don't have to talk like a professor lol doh.gif sweat.gif
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post Nov 12 2008, 11:15 PM

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QUOTE(cracksys @ Oct 26 2008, 04:28 PM)
even if this story supposedly really happen, i bet TS is a HE
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No, i'm a transexual becoming a SHE. of course i'm a girl.


Added on November 12, 2008, 11:15 pm
QUOTE(enemyofgod @ Nov 12 2008, 03:18 AM)
Unsafe sex is bad practice. You deserve it mate...
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keep that to urself buddy. ppl who make mistakes shud have second chances.


Added on November 12, 2008, 11:16 pm
QUOTE(NeoMnemonic @ Nov 12 2008, 05:26 PM)
Cheer Up! ur not pregnant and still alive from the stare of death. Anyway what will happen if your parents is reading this?
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thanks! my parents dont read lowyat. n this is a thing of the past which is not repeated. (:

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~ thank u all for ur kind reply.

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