Usually I see Malay guys going after Chinese girls... Applaud their courage, but sometimes they just look clueless to me when they're trying to woo Chinese girls. All the 'chut chut' sound and the horny jangut looks, POOF... Chance gone. Watching my Malay friends do that makes me laugh sometimes

Too bad, karma hits back.

I find myself interested in a few really good looking Malay girls in my Institute (possibly because there's no pretty Chinese here ) I have never went out with a Malay girl before (you probably guessed it, but I went out with an Indonesian!!!) I tried giving the usual friendly smile and friendly guy presence in my class and it worked out well (the girls like me, the guys love me) but err... That's it. I dunno how to move on. I'm clueless on whether a Malay girl will fantasize the prospect of going out with a Chinese guy or not.

I tried asking one of my Indian friends today for his opinion on going out with Malay girls. His answer was a straight no. "No no no no. You go out with Malay girls will be veeeeeeery troublesome. I don't like the idea la..."

So what do you think? Do you think a Chinese' chances of going out with a Malay girl is pretty good? Do you have any special tips on how to court smart pretty Malay girls? Share it with ME!!!!!!

Make sure tak kena tangkap basah, otherwise the whole kampung will after you to marry the girl, convert to islam and the best thing.

Wow... That's scary...

hahaha..thats not be a problem la dude...

just try her 1st la...tell her u wanna date...

but when u 2 true in love no compromise to be la...

I m a chinese guy and I m also interested in a few malay girls.

They will smile with you, they are good manner, polite and their smile are so sweet.
No doubt, a lot of malay girl are pretty and without tudung will look prettier.

Dating them is a big problem and therefore I dare not date them. I hope I can date malay girl once in my life...

If marry confirm have to convert to Islam right? I'm an atheist!!! I don't want to believe n any Gods!!! (sorry if I'm rude )

Anyway just wanna see how it goes 1st (with a Malay girl), marriage still kinda far away Thanks for replying though!

careful or else

And


if u ready those 2, then i see why not?

ya ya ya...me too...i wish i can date with cute chinese girl once in my life ..

hhaaha... good try!g

Go ahead man, in Singapore a lot of malay guy dating chinese girl but u must aware that they(most of the local chinese girl dont like to smile).

Oh yeah, most Malay girls have bigger bewbies too.

just go for it.. going on a date doesnt mean u have to

just be careful if u really fall in love..

malay girl tend to be more open mind if other races want to date her..(my malay fren btw)..

yeah yeah the idea of



really freaks me out

I hope most Malay girls are as open minded as you say my friend! Thanks for replying!

Remember to raba puas2 ya.

this is interesting. =) all the best.

Lol... I think she'll chase me to ehem s*nat ehem lo that time...

Thanks!

and u got to give up ang pow and pork
and

Oh man... Oh man... Oh man...

im just curious..why u guys really scare of "sunat" ??
nowadays we can see lots of non-muslim "sunat".. even for porn star oso..


from my experience, my chinese fren treat me better compare to malay..(im malay btw)..
really easy to ask them go yamcha after study or training..

Well err... Simply put it that I don't like people messing with my 'younger brother' Let it stay the way it is please!!!

Maybe you handsome That's why they are so willing ngek ngek ngek

try tackle 1st. pass or fail only then come here comment la. u dont try, dont simply giv negative comments and generalize them all. Just do it man.

Erm, coz we're not used to it, duh.

Won't you feel the same if you're married to a chinese and your in-laws force you to eat pork?

Eeeee.... Analyse the situation before jumping in ma...

just go for it lah
i'm a chinese and my girlfriend is a malay....nice!!!
no problem ah!

MY IDOL!!!!!!

How you do it man??? How long did it take you to get your gf???

lotsa malay girls are very open IMO experience.
can talk talk talk then get number to talk some more then can ahem ahem* but i cant live life without Bak Kut teh so its only friend friend le.

can you introduce that girls to me ?

Woah... The poll shows many people have different opinions on this topic... More 'yes' than 'no' currently... Just a bit though...

I am chinese guy...

I definitely want to avoid from anything related to islam...

SO, i rather no date Malay gal

hmmm.....let say it like that ...no need to wait...she's the one that chasing me..not me chasing her

YO LADIES OUT THERE

ima hot stud with 6 packs wif no brains and i noe yall dying to see teh size of my 010, PM me !!

erm,..i think u need to define which type of malay girls u r like to date..
The baju kurung kind
The tudung with tight shirt kind
The Normal-Avarage sweet looking girl kind
or
The party animal kind..

The easiest catch is the party animal. They love to show off their bf esp if its not malay,..plus if he's cute, poket tebal & drive a fancy modify car
This is wht i saw at those nite clubs at Jln P Ramlee hehehe

try tackle la. malay girls think highly of chinese guy. if ur other race and tackle them u already got that x factor.

If any of you are dating a malay chick, please notify me cos i wanna personally shake ur hand.

I have seen lotsa chinese girls date malay/indian guys
But i have never seen chinese guy date malay/indian girls

This post has been edited by King83: Jul 16 2008, 04:07 PM

thn come shake my hand...my gf is a malay...dn't know why
u all say it's impossible...dn't know lah..she's the one chasing me which is brave enough
but my gf is not purely malay...she's a mix blood bumiputera and chinese educated when she's in primary school.so,she can speak fluent chinese.

well.. that will depends on how much of a "hunk" you really are

perhaps date is ok, but not marry due to religion conversion issue...

thts more personal rite,..
lots of discussions & thinking u need to make..

my ex collegue (his in late 30's) a chinese guy who drinks beer & eat ham
date a very religious malay girl (wear tudung of course)..
he even take care of her hs when she when for umrah
i still wonder how they make the relationship works..

besides,..being muslim is one thing,..but being gud muslim is another thing

Huh? Did you post at the wrong place my friend...

Party animal is a no no for me. I don't like clubbing I prefer either the baju kurung kind or the sweet looking girl kind. I want them to be PURE. Very innocent type. Preferably out going, but the ones in my batch that I like are shy, quiet, baju kurung type.

Hopefully you will shake my hand someday

Think twice before you want to date a Malay girl.

The first question you have to ask yourself before dating one "Will you be willing to convert into Islam if the relationship works out one day and will be planning for a marriage?"

Sad but true, the religion problem will be the biggest issue.

Hmm... I think the marriage question is still quite far away to be considered. Even if we really really fell for each other, I'll simply leave this country and reside in others where she can be her Muslim, and I can be my atheist! I'm sure someone who loves you very much will not force you to do something you don't want to.

Easier said than done. You cannot predict the future , can you? No one knows how serious will this relationship turn out to be and you always have family factor to consider. Avoid at best unless you're very deeply in love with her.

Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan.... You must have some reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeally bad experiences with Malay girls

You're asking for opinions, aren't you? I'm just being realistic lol.

you gonna get lots of respect if you are going out with malay girls
especially if they are hot hot hot

Respect? Hmm... Didn't expect that. I only expect lots of Chinese onlookers with weird stares

mah fren, I'll pat ur shoulder if u can brainwashed a sweet baju kurung malay girl to marry u w/o converting. I know Indonesia has no prob with that (muslim married to christian).
but be logic, not many muslim will be willing to give up their religion even their not a gud muslim. especially living in this society & country.
how bout this, try to tackle a malay Indonesian girls

If the girl likes you she will hit on you, it doesn't matter which race you're.

i think all of you guys should give malay girl a chance ..

try to date them and you will know the difference between dating a malay girl and chinese girl.

i must say, from my experience .. i prefer to date malay girls .. what i refer to is decent malay girls and not "minah rock" at least during my time.

although i married a chinese girl, i still miss the feeling of dating a malay girl.

they really know how to respect you, humble, not materialistic and most of all .. easy to start a relationship with mutual respect and understanding and support.

as for chinese girls, i think the quality is less as compare to malay girls ... more lembut

cuba jangan tak cuba .. nyesal nanti.

Hmm... You've got a point. I'll discuss with you again if I'm about to marry a Malay girl right now I just want to go out with one ^^

If I'm Brad Pitt I wouldn't have started this poll and take into account that not every girl who likes you have the guts to make the 1st move

Hey man, I sense your 'gatal'ness already Stay focused and stay loyal!

Well I think it has nothing to do with race la friend... It's just that majority of the Chinese are perceived to be materialistic. This is not true! It's more about how you're brought up to be, your family upbringing. IMO

I hate to heart sunat

dude same issue with me..

one hot malay girl after me but i resist temptation..

was even in her house, she was bathing, came out in her towel and she always tease me ask me to kiss her..

i never did and wont do it..

because come to think of it, if break up and they wana do nasty things to u, they can do it. especially if during the relationship u hold hands + kiss + raba raba etc..

-Wrong post-

This post has been edited by Lefty: Jul 18 2008, 01:14 AM

Why did you even go to her house in the 1st place must be you gatal gatal also la hahaha

I dunno whether you really refrained yourself from kissing her or not (even though she's half naked, sounds a bit unbelievable haha ) but if you really did, really applaud you man. You have some freaking strong will power

I don't think you should worry about conversion yet ... but you should think about sunat if you're going to bed her.

rofl thats a good one.

and be careful with the JAIS ulamas as well.

You need to do it before you do a Muslim?

JAIS ulamas? What's that? Care to give a brief explanation ga

one word. khalwat: close proximity with someone who is not married. You may be caught for that/

Wha...... Thanks for telling

its usually in malay papers. so if you're going after a malay girl, take note to not touch her in the wrong places.

Seriously, sometimes Malay girls are better with their tudung off.

I think the tudung's there for that reason right. To make their girls less attractive Not sure, can anyone enlighten me ar

I suggest you start reading the Quran before b4 tackling her.

and oh. the syariah laws as well/

Zzz... Are you kidding me

I'll just skip those deeply religious ones lo... Go for the ones who's much more open minded. Doesn't wear a tudung kind

well if you have to sunat before marrying a Malay, why do you suppose you have to do that if not for "purity" when you bed her?

I have a lot of Malay friends who don't wear a tudung when I meet up with them, but they tell me that they still do occasionally because of religious regulations.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jul 18 2008, 02:06 PM

no harm reading the Quran tho, got lots of facts that we can think for ourselves...

knowing the rules helps prevent problems with the authoritahs.

I wondering if Chinese wear tudung will become how leh???
Still pretty ar???? not attractive at all that y same as Melay

I was made to wear a tudung once because I had to play the piano for a whatchacallit Islamic choir nasyid

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jul 18 2008, 02:12 PM

Well if they really have to wear one occasionally it's ok with me. I mean even if she has to wear it all the time I don't mind too 'cause I'm just interested in the girl herself. About the sunat-before-doing thing... I think I can worry about that later (when I really have a Muslim gf )

Yea I understand why you're asking me to read that Holy Book but sadly I'm not gonna do it

Well I guess if I'm aware of the few essential rules on going out with a Muslim girl, it'll be just fine

Eh dude, what you trying to say lol

understanding can prevent lots of pain when meeting her parents. also shows that you're seriusely after her and not just using her as your muse/

I mean u try where tudung see got chinese guy's go for u or not

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Added on July 18, 2008, 2:42 pmHi guys

This post has been edited by wonghanjiang: Jul 18 2008, 02:42 PM

Err... Your avatar...

someone's gonna get the banhammer

anything wrong if my girlfriends do that to me...i just post it here

What's the point...his soul is defiled to the worst of all 'garbage'. Even hell won't accept him.

Oh man why must you come and disrupt the discussion we're having here zzz

seriously, take it from me, don't worry about all those gods and angels stuff all these religious nutsoids are blathering about. all that nonsense you deal with afterwards. get the girl first. see if both of you are alright, then deal with any problem as they come up. even if they do crop up, trust me, people will mellow out, even holier-than-thou brickbats.

what you want to care about is her and her tastes. you're damn well not going to marry her family. being good with them is all fine and all, but if they're any decent, a guy who is good to their daughter is good enough stuff.

you marry a girl, you marry her family leh.

Hmm... I guess I have received enough positive signs haha. The poll shows that the majority of people thinks it's ok for a Chinese to woo Malay girls too

Imma consider making my move soon. Will get some hate-mails from my new friends if I woo her

hah, not if they're bad for her.

don't crash and burn. anon wishes you luck.

Look here BUDDY !!! , Let me congratulate you on your sharp sight and powers of deduction , Unless you have any advise as to how to handle chinese women , i suggest you keep your ridiculous and useless criticisms to yourself.. everybody can talk ( its the equivalent of farting) ,

As per your question , Less talk , just go and approach your target , and dont tell is the negative parts only the positive parts.. I remind myself and to all other guyz , THERE IS ONLY ONE WAY OF GETTING WOMEN !! AND THAT IS SARGING !!! Dont know what that is ,, FIND IT OUT !

Look here BUDDY!!! I suppose you're referring to this right? >>> All the 'chut chut' sound and the horny jangut looks

It's pretty obvious you're a Malay guy who does the chut chut sound. No, an emo Malay guy who does those irritating sounds. And you're pretty offended when someone says what you're doing is not cool.

And yes, I do know how to get Chinese girls. 14 of them to be exact without the stupid sound you make.

Oh, and sarging only applies to total strangers. These Malay girls I was mentioning are not strangers to me. Read before you post, PULEEEEASE.

nid luck and charisma ~

lawl my friend [chinese] dated one before

and guess what, he puasa together with his gf and buka puasa with the girl family. They are much more open than you think

to go for it or not is totally up to you. but kissing stage wont make you conver+ sunat yet. but if you intend to go any higher then you better prepare.

i won`t talk about after effect yet since you not even started.

i mean she also a human girl also, just a religion and race diferent.
if you not thinking that far to marriage yet then feel free not to worry and go ahead

but yea real problem is after marriage lol. dating isn`t big problem.
you will get what i mean soon XD

open open so open ~

Thanks for the advice! Applaud him for buka-ing puasa together with his gf AND her family.

So... furthest can go is kissing stage

u wanna go til bed stage ?

hahahahahahahahha.... Eh tonight very cold ar?

must be

you are welcome, just happen to have friends that babble to me. either way good luck LOL

yea is cold here hahaha

ignore them
they are jealous

just bring her out and enjoy the time together

dont worry about people telling you that you have to convert and stuff like that cause you are only going out with her

cheers!

Cheers bro!!!

going out sometimes lead to dating... sometimes lead to something something... sometimes lead to parental problems... and next thing u know u gotta play the take it or leave it...