seriously, take it from me, don't worry about all those gods and angels stuff all these religious nutsoids are blathering about. all that nonsense you deal with afterwards. get the girl first. see if both of you are alright, then deal with any problem as they come up. even if they do crop up, trust me, people will mellow out, even holier-than-thou brickbats.

what you want to care about is her and her tastes. you're damn well not going to marry her family. being good with them is all fine and all, but if they're any decent, a guy who is good to their daughter is good enough stuff.

you marry a girl, you marry her family leh.

Hmm... I guess I have received enough positive signs haha. The poll shows that the majority of people thinks it's ok for a Chinese to woo Malay girls too

Imma consider making my move soon. Will get some hate-mails from my new friends if I woo her

Usually I see Malay guys going after Chinese girls... Applaud their courage, but sometimes they just look clueless to me when they're trying to woo Chinese girls. All the 'chut chut' sound and the horny jangut looks, POOF... Chance gone. Watching my Malay friends do that makes me laugh sometimes 

Too bad, karma hits back.

I find myself interested in a few really good looking Malay girls in my Institute (possibly because there's no pretty Chinese here  ) I have never went out with a Malay girl before (you probably guessed it, but I went out with an Indonesian!!!) I tried giving the usual friendly smile and friendly guy presence in my class and it worked out well (the girls like me, the guys love me) but err... That's it. I dunno how to move on. I'm clueless on whether a Malay girl will fantasize the prospect of going out with a Chinese guy or not.

I tried asking one of my Indian friends today for his opinion on going out with Malay girls. His answer was a straight no. "No no no no. You go out with Malay girls will be veeeeeeery troublesome. I don't like the idea la..."

So what do you think? Do you think a Chinese' chances of going out with a Malay girl is pretty good? Do you have any special tips on how to court smart pretty Malay girls? Share it with ME!!!!!!

Look here BUDDY !!! , Let me congratulate you on your sharp sight and powers of deduction , Unless you have any advise as to how to handle chinese women , i suggest you keep your ridiculous and useless criticisms to yourself.. everybody can talk ( its the equivalent of farting) ,

As per your question , Less talk , just go and approach your target , and dont tell is the negative parts only the positive parts.. I remind myself and to all other guyz , THERE IS ONLY ONE WAY OF GETTING WOMEN !! AND THAT IS SARGING !!! Dont know what that is ,, FIND IT OUT !

lawl my friend [chinese] dated one before

and guess what, he puasa together with his gf and buka puasa with the girl family. They are much more open than you think

to go for it or not is totally up to you. but kissing stage wont make you conver+ sunat yet. but if you intend to go any higher then you better prepare.

i won`t talk about after effect yet since you not even started.

i mean she also a human girl also, just a religion and race diferent.
if you not thinking that far to marriage yet then feel free not to worry and go ahead

but yea real problem is after marriage lol. dating isn`t big problem.
you will get what i mean soon XD

u wanna go til bed stage ?

hahahahahahahahha.... Eh tonight very cold ar? 

Thanks for the advice! Applaud him for buka-ing puasa together with his gf AND her family.

So... furthest can go is kissing stage           

hahahahahahahahha.... Eh tonight very cold ar? 

Respect? Hmm... Didn't expect that. I only expect lots of Chinese onlookers with weird stares 

ignore them
they are jealous

just bring her out and enjoy the time together

dont worry about people telling you that you have to convert and stuff like that cause you are only going out with her

cheers!

ignore them
they are jealous

just bring her out and enjoy the time together

dont worry about people telling you that you have to convert and stuff like that cause you are only going out with her

cheers!

going out sometimes lead to dating... sometimes lead to something something...   sometimes lead to parental problems... and next thing u know u gotta play the take it or leave it...

yeah I know man. But... If it really happens, I guess I'll be starting another thread "To potong or not to potong"

dude , just date her . If all goes well , just run to the US get married without changing religion/circumsize. Then live your life with the chick you loved. Everybody must make sacrifices eh . Just my 2 cents XD

lol... for survival purpose... it's better to think ahead rather than think on the go...

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Added on July 20, 2008, 12:26 amwah... no need go US de... go Thailand or Singapore also can...