QUOTE(liyonglim @ Feb 10 2011, 10:36 PM)
Actually, you can't just compare people head to head. You are asking everyone at the age of 18 - 19 to go out pick-up and deliver newspaper? Do alot of odd job during 13?
In our life, there are a lot of decisions have to be made. I strongly believe, when someone at the age of 13 / 18, he or she should focus on hs her studies. (Remind you, not everyone is born genius, no need to study also can excel).
My point is, see who you are and do what is right for you. Focus on your responsibility and do what you should do when you are in your specific phase of life.
Remember, decisions are difficult to make and also "regret" is always there is the decision is made wrongly. (For example, go into selling newpapers telling yourself "don't worry, i can properly manage my time, i still can excel in my studies". Congrats for those who can do so, but sadly majority will either fail or cannot do well.
Maybe ppl who experienced more hardship r forced to master the ability to multitask and get the job done ..... I’ll share a real story of a someone I know ……….
Like prop101's example, he started taking odd jobs since was in secondary school. Dont have the luxury of having parents paying good tuition, or go to good schools. Still managed to enter a local uni after SPM. Didnt use a single cent of his parents $$$ throughout 4-5 years in Uni, worked his butt off through-out uni to ensure he has enough money to eat, study and pay for his bike. He didnt get 1st class honors, but did enough to get a decent result and graduated.........perhaps could have gotten better result if he didnt have to work but honestly today I personally think that having the right attitude is far more important than getting a 1st class degree.....
Today still in his twenties, he works in an industry n role that is completely unrelated to his degree, earn a decent salary and doing a job that he loves. Like myself , he has always liked prop investing, self-studied the game n made his 1st million from prop investing (networth). Think today he also oversee 3 startup companies that he co-own n co-run.
Looking at him, he never focused on solely one thing at any time yet he isn’t doing that bad at all today. In fact his multitasking ability has become a valuable asset. People often ask him how did he achieved so much with little resources and time. He’ll always smile and then utter the following ………. “stop making excuses, and just start……………”