1) what do you think of woman in general? no not that 1 that you like, I mean in general. do you think they are different than man? in what way?

Erm..Women are surely different. The shape are different and the organs are different. ..to compare other thing I think it's too much to say. Majority, I can say that females are emotional, sensitive, and too easy to persuade without thinking.


2) what do you think of a relationship? what do you expect and look for in a relationship?

I expect I can receive love, same as how I love my girl..Love is enough than anything. Sex comes later.

3) what makes you like that girl, and not THAT girl? why is she different than any other girl?

-Like girl who is Loyal and does not play with feelings.
-Honesty
-Caring
-Lovely
-Understanding

4)have you been hurt by girls before? hurt meaning angry, sad, or any bad feelings done directly, or indirectly by girls?

My ex is a 'whore'.. She sleep with other guy when she go abroad just for 3month. And give me a shock when she come back. Suffering bad pain for few days at her house for that. Can't forget that pain.

5)have you heard more stories about how woman abuse their man, or the other way round?

Yes, some females tent to get near to rich guy so that they can get more benefits. What they want, they will have it.

6) what do you think of marriage, is it a must in your life? have you ever thought of not going to married for your whole life and just stay single, occasionally having GF for fun?

GF for fun??FUN?? this question is crazy..GF eventually will become your wife if you feel that she's the person you wanted to be with until you die. Human needs Love.

Why ask these questions??What is it for??

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Ok, the reason I started this thread with all the questions is to find an answer or to convince me why do I need a female in my life. And to convince me why is that worth to get into relationship.

I wonder, why most of you guys sees relationship between male and female as if it is the most important thing in life.

Everyday, I listen male crying out loud because of problems in their relationship, suffer hardship, complain, whine, and yet, it puzzles me, why they still want to get into relationship, what makes them so determine? Never give up? Or MAY BE, they are just plain "stupid"??

Dont misunderstand, Im not a gay, me too, crazy in love with a girl before, that was the time when I thought she is the one, everything that I need. Unfortunately things didnt went right and it just goes by without anything happen.

Then as times past by, I dont know why I had a lot of issues with women, mostly bad issues, I read in cupid corner, how man being treated badly by their partner, I watch TV programs on how men being treated badly, abused by their partner, wife poisoned their husband to get insurance cover, cheated behind husband and all sorts of bad things. Yes I do know not just women do that, men do abused women.

That is why I ask, what do man seek in a woman? If it is just sex, than why get married? If you want to have kids, why dont adopt? If you whine because of problems in your relationship, why not stay single? Why still pursue something that is...i dont know, something that has no guarantee? Why love some one that has the potential to destroy you? Why being single is not an option? Convince me, I dont get it.

Its up to you to decide what you want. Typically, people want a partner, this applies to both men and women. Stop looking at the negative things, and look at the positive side of things. Remember how being in love makes you feel, remember the happy times.

If you're happy being single, then so stay single. If not, find someone that can make you happy. Its very unlikely that you will hit the jackpot on the first try, so you'll have to go through hardships and disappointments before you meet the right one.

Do remember too that not all couples having problems like what you read from Cupid Corner

There's actually many many more beautiful love stories that you are missing out from the people out there

well, some people are born to be good husbands and/or fathers, some just aren't (i.e. george clooney!). don't have to force yourself worse thing is if u make other people suffer too!

1) Softer side of human being
2) Dunno. Love or happiness i guess.
3) Preference
4) No, they call me a robot wif no emotion, whadayuexpect ?
5) Yes and those are simple misunderstanding turned complicated disasters
6) Marriage, love oath ? Its not a must in my life. Yes I prefer to be single and occasionally having GF for fun.

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Ok, the reason I started this thread with all the questions is to find an answer or to convince me why do I need a female in my life. And to convince me why is that worth to get into relationship.

I wonder, why most of you guys sees relationship between male and female as if it is the most important thing in life.

Everyday, I listen male crying out loud because of problems in their relationship, suffer hardship, complain, whine, and yet, it puzzles me, why they still want to get into relationship, what makes them so determine? Never give up? Or MAY BE, they are just plain "stupid"??

Dont misunderstand, Im not a gay, me too, crazy in love with a girl before, that was the time when I thought she is the one, everything that I need. Unfortunately things didnt went right and it just goes by without anything happen.

Then as times past by, I dont know why I had a lot of issues with women, mostly bad issues, I read in cupid corner, how man being treated badly by their partner, I watch TV programs on how men being treated badly, abused by their partner, wife poisoned their husband to get insurance cover, cheated behind husband and all sorts of bad things. Yes I do know not just women do that, men do abused women.

That is why I ask, what do man seek in a woman? If it is just sex, than why get married? If you want to have kids, why dont adopt? If you whine because of problems in your relationship, why not stay single? Why still pursue something that is...i dont know, something that has no guarantee? Why love some one that has the potential to destroy you? Why being single is not an option? Convince me, I dont get it.

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So indirectly you're promoting same-sex relationships ?

who said being single is not an option .. u can choose to be single ...

who forced u to have a female companion ? also u dun need convincing since u have already decided what u want ... this thread sounds like a spanar thread where the TS has decided to spanar just asking ppl to support what he is doing ...

so there u go .. stay single ..

yes I had made my decision, but I want to know about you guys!

One day, you will met the one you really love to be with. You will be shocked by her presence and what she brings to the table. Trust me, ah sukhnat....your life is beginning to change.

Silverhawk say it right!!!

You are currently trapped in a deep cold well...learn to let go of your pass so that the new thing will get to you...Me personally oso happen to be hurt by my ex which we'd been together for 3years..she betrayed me...But right after I suffer for almost a year, I tried to let it go so that I can accept new things...I luckily found a nice gf right now with just a few sparks...

when you know how to take it up..u must know how to put it down...learn to let go and enjoy the single life..It's so great and by the time it ends you'd oledi found your real partner for life...^^

God lead us to the wrong one before he led us to the right one...so we know how to appreciate..

This post has been edited by knight: Jul 3 2008, 08:02 AM

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cant say no other than the word agree......