allright, I am gonna start all over and going to be straight forward now, just to shoo away some kiddie newfags gonna spoil my thread again.


1) what do you think of woman in general? no not that 1 that you like, I mean in general. do you think they are different than man? in what way?


2) what do you think of a relationship? what do you expect and look for in a relationship?


3) what makes you like that girl, and not THAT girl? why is she different than any other girl?


4)have you been hurt by girls before? hurt meaning angry, sad, or any bad feelings done directly, or indirectly by girls?


5)have you heard more stories about how woman abuse their man, or the other way round?

6) what do you think of marriage, is it a must in your life? have you ever thought of not going to married for your whole life and just stay single, occasionally having GF for fun?

so far these are the questions, will update moar.

This post has been edited by ah_suknat: Jul 1 2008, 05:33 PM

First !!!

1. They're fine creations of God/E.T's . I have to say that the very instinct and biology of women hasn't changed since Eve came down to Earth. They still drag queen, no doubt.

2. It's like a revision course before the actual exam. I look forward to lots of hot steamy sex.

3. Simple, she caters to MY needs.

4. Which guy hasn't ? It's like part and parcel of growing up.

5. Heard it tonnes of times. Normal.

6. Well, i'm not gonna take care of the kitchen everyday right? I've gotta be out there feeding my man ego.

Oh goodie, more questionaires

1) what do you think of woman in general? no not that 1 that you like, I mean in general. do you think they are different than man? in what way?
wemon are sensitive and needs more attention.

2) what do you think of a relationship? what do you expect and look for in a relationship?
Relationship is just being with someone.... what do i expect? A bond between the 2... going thru life together as a team,
not some bimbo trying to make u her slave. That's a parasite, not a life partner.


3) what makes you like that girl, and not THAT girl? why is she different than any other girl?
Qualities.... it doesn't take much.... 'cos like for example, majority of girls are money face, so long as she's different in that sense, she's already a winner.
But what i really treasure most is loyalty...... something i still struggle with girls.

4)have you been hurt by girls before? hurt meaning angry, sad, or any bad feelings done directly, or indirectly by girls?
oh shi-, loads... She can do whatever they want. 'cos she's the princess

5)have you heard more stories about how woman abuse their man, or the other way round?
U mean like the lazy ones who does not contribute anything to the relationship? Yeah, plenty of those around.

6) what do you think of marriage, is it a must in your life? have you ever thought of not going to married for your whole life and just stay single, occasionally having GF for fun?
oohh... definately has to happen someday. You wanna make it legal and declare to the world she's yours, don't you ?

1) what do you think of woman in general? no not that 1 that you like, I mean in general. do you think they are different than man? in what way?
Most of them have only their best interest in their heart. Women are generally selfish beings.

2) what do you think of a relationship? what do you expect and look for in a relationship?
I'm indifferent towards relationships, it's not that important to me.

3) what makes you like that girl, and not THAT girl? why is she different than any other girl?
Girls are all the same to me, though I would prefer those who are much more independent and mature thinking.

4)have you been hurt by girls before? hurt meaning angry, sad, or any bad feelings done directly, or indirectly by girls?
Yes.

5)have you heard more stories about how woman abuse their man, or the other way round?
We need more social groups that cater to men, we don't have legal rights to protect ourselves when it comes to abusive relationships. The problems towards having an abusive girlfriend is that they leave no physical scars, but they torture one mentally.

6) what do you think of marriage, is it a must in your life? have you ever thought of not going to married for your whole life and just stay single, occasionally having GF for fun?
Having seen far more broken mariages than successful ones in my lifetime, I don't feel particularly inclined to get myself into mariage. I don't mind having gfs for fun as long as that's what they are into.

YOU'RE THE MAN !!

1) what do you think of woman in general? no not that 1 that you like, I mean in general. do you think they are different than man? in what way?
They support man. they give a man confidence .

2) what do you think of a relationship? what do you expect and look for in a relationship?
Happily ever after perhaps.

3) what makes you like that girl, and not THAT girl? why is she different than any other girl?
The feeling that hard to explain.


4)have you been hurt by girls before? hurt meaning angry, sad, or any bad feelings done directly, or indirectly by girls?
yes of course.

5)have you heard more stories about how woman abuse their man, or the other way round?
yup,esp those drunkers.

6) what do you think of marriage, is it a must in your life? have you ever thought of not going to married for your whole life and just stay single, occasionally having GF for fun?
marriage to me is just part of life.not necessarily needed.

1) what do you think of woman in general? no not that 1 that you like, I mean in general. do you think they are different than man? in what way?
- a complicated being that cannot be understand, seriously...

2) what do you think of a relationship? what do you expect and look for in a relationship?
notting much beside understanding one need and feeling well most of it, its for fun, in some away...


3) what makes you like that girl, and not THAT girl? why is she different than any other girl?
-1st it would be their appearance,2nd their attitude, 3rd feeling that dont kno ow to explain (3rd will influance all)

4)have you been hurt by girls before? hurt meaning angry, sad, or any bad feelings done directly, or indirectly by girls?
- let me see 1..2....3...4... owh.. lost count...

5)have you heard more stories about how woman abuse their man, or the other way round?
- married couple women usually being abuse, but for couple (not married yet..) man r being abuse... am i right? huhuhu

6) what do you think of marriage, is it a must in your life? have you ever thought of not going to married for your whole life and just stay single, occasionally having GF for fun?
- married = responsibility, if dont have that dont get married only burden u n kill u at the end, being single for the rest of ur life?.. er better go kill ur self (J/K only.. i'm still single huhu)

This post has been edited by W_9235: Jun 27 2008, 08:44 AM

please clarify, the end game what do you want out of this questionaires?
you just dont open threads to ask people some general questions.
Be specific please. dont you find the q & a to generic??

1) what do you think of woman in general? no not that 1 that you like, I mean in general. do you think they are different than man? in what way?
In KL i saw girls put themself too high, i mean some will keep on thinking their are the queen who can stand on top of man in this world. Im not saying all, but for most, when i know them deeper, every1 is like tat. For a good side, they are hardworking; bad side, think everything in negative side

2) what do you think of a relationship? what do you expect and look for in a relationship?
I hope my partner able to think of our future and how do we last our relationship and not just thinking on one side, think on both side is best

3) what makes you like that girl, and not THAT girl? why is she different than any other girl?
I oni like mature girls, cause they can have proper thinking. I dont like girls always rely on man and leave everything (future, work, problem) for man to settle and goyang kaki

4)have you been hurt by girls before? hurt meaning angry, sad, or any bad feelings done directly, or indirectly by girls?
yes...both direct and indirect.....

5)have you heard more stories about how woman abuse their man, or the other way round?
according to law, abuse can be in physically and mentally. On physical side, beating man for some reason, although woman (normally )is weaker than man, but man is still human, they can feel the pain; mentally, keep on saying man is good-for-nothing, rubbish, unable to do this and that is adi abusing them.

6) what do you think of marriage, is it a must in your life? have you ever thought of not going to married for your whole life and just stay single, occasionally having GF for fun?
I think marriage is a process that we must go on, else every1 will live alone when grow old. I dont reli agree with having gf just for fun, as i dont agree gf is just a product to test suitable or not, if not suitable change brand.

i think women is sweet charming and bring bright light to my darkness side

1) what do you think of woman in general? no not that 1 that you like, I mean in general. do you think they are different than man? in what way?
they are hot,guys are cool

2) what do you think of a relationship? what do you expect and look for in a relationship?
love->hold hands->kiss->foreplay->sex
sex is a must

3) what makes you like that girl, and not THAT girl? why is she different than any other girl?
coz she met all my requirements n needs. 

4)have you been hurt by girls before? hurt meaning angry, sad, or any bad feelings done directly, or indirectly by girls?
lost count.

5)have you heard more stories about how woman abuse their man, or the other way round?
i don need to hear,i am one of thier victim.

6) what do you think of marriage, is it a must in your life? have you ever thought of not going to married for your whole life and just stay single, occasionally having GF for fun?
to me,married is when u r ready to hav kids.
but not now for me.

This post has been edited by lil_flank: Jun 27 2008, 03:14 PM

Before I answer I would need to know what exactly do you intend to do with this information ? I am sure its not JUST FOR FUN or GETTING MORE POSTS , THe True purpose must be revealed.

1. Women are one of the wonders of creation , Beacuse we men seek peace in them , I personally cannot live without them they must exist in any form ( GF , FRIEND , FB etc). They are definitely different then men , I suggest your look into the mirror closely and examine your soft and delectable body. I would say women are rule by emtion and men by action , That would be essence of our differences , Women are are the gatherers and We are the Hunters. If you are a feminist then you should probably get a sex change operation if your are not happy with your sex.

2. Relationships with women are what keep men sane , as mentioned before , In any form. Rapists are those whose desires have not been satisfied for such a long time that it has all concentrated into a point and destroyed their rational way of thought. I expect my relationship to be filled with her COMPLETE PRESENCE , MIND BODY AND SOUL , And cannot be lacking in any one of those areas or the relationship will end. Physical satisfaction is primary there is no way around it.

3. Hmmm... We men are attracted by the physical appearance , even though you women might claim that we are superficial , Actually the reasoning behind it is deeply embedded in our animal instincts , A pretty woman means someone who is capable of having offspring to propogate the generation. Larger Pelvic region means she is able to bare more children , Hence our fascination with a womans rear end. However this is just at the beginning , Sure once the proper visual stimuli is recieved then we men would go and try to talk to the girl. To see how is her nature , whether she is BIATCH or not. The so called feelings of love which WE men feel is the mechanism within our subconscious to mate with the suitable partner and to care for her once she has kids. This is all instinct meaning programmed behavior.

4. You are asking this question to determine whether or not the answers are stimulated by emotion. You need to understand O WOMAN POSTER , We MEN ARE NOT EMOTIONAL BEINGS , SO ANSWERS TO THESE QUESTIONS WILL NOT REVEAL any insights that you seek.

5. ABUSE against women is an age old problem that existed from the beginning of time. That can never change , But we live in such a feminized society in which women are given so many rights , That crimes against men are often ignored ,I am sure WOMEN ABUSE MEN , WOMEN RAPE MEN too.. But this is unheard of beacuse no one would actually consider a forced intercourse from a woman on a man as a crime. Moreover we men always welcome intercourse in any form , Be it by consent , forced , or downright nasty. By the by if you have some fantasies that needs fulfillment drop me a line.

6. Get one thing straight , Marriage is an institution that has existed from the beginning of time , if it wasnt a big deal then we wont have faggots fighting for it. Never being married in your whole life - To the guy who says this - There will be lots of women who will impregnate have illegtimate children who will be seriously abnormal psychologically and will end up becoming criminals and all other misfits of society , besides that he will risk STD's from himself and his b1tch ( oh i mean girl ) , IMPOSSIBLE for him to find a woman who doesnt want marriage. If he still says that is a LIE ! , TO the woman who sez she will never marry - You barely can decide what color of lipstic k to wear to work , U think you can decide such as fatal decision ? haha I dont think So. Those women who us men categorize as occasional GF's are FB(FCUK BUDDIES) and Working Girls.. nothing more



thats it

This post has been edited by xmsa666: Jun 28 2008, 07:23 PM

1) what do you think of woman in general? no not that 1 that you like, I mean in general. do you think they are different than man? in what way?

I think woman in general (as of those I know personally), I think the single ones tend to have a fairytale impression of relationships and thus generally expect their man to do a lot of things. men too, especially have this 'pre-condition' that their gf is the most important thing in the world. Both of which feed each other.

Sad.



2) what do you think of a relationship? what do you expect and look for in a relationship?

I think a relationship is a necessity at a certain age. Whilst I'm against rushing it, starting early works for some.

Expectations? Quite high sadly, because I too am victim of those same series and dramas that flood our television.



3) what makes you like that girl, and not THAT girl? why is she different than any other girl?

I don't know. I seriously don't

4)have you been hurt by girls before? hurt meaning angry, sad, or any bad feelings done directly, or indirectly by girls?

Yes. Of course. Quite a few times.

5)have you heard more stories about how woman abuse their man, or the other way round?

yes

6) what do you think of marriage, is it a must in your life? have you ever thought of not going to married for your whole life and just stay single, occasionally having GF for fun?

not raelly, i've thought of being single for the rest of my life, but I doubt my family will allow me to be.

1) what do you think of woman in general? no not that 1 that you like, I mean in general. do you think they are different than man? in what way?
In general, woman is called the fairer sex. I respect those who deserves it. Yes, they are different from man. They smell better. They have boobs and vagina.

2) what do you think of a relationship? what do you expect and look for in a relationship?
That's too general to explain. I'll skip this.

3) what makes you like that girl, and not THAT girl? why is she different than any other girl?
Hard to say, until now I still like that girl but not THAT girl.

4)have you been hurt by girls before? hurt meaning angry, sad, or any bad feelings done directly, or indirectly by girls?
I get it, this questionaire was meant to bash girls only.

5)have you heard more stories about how woman abuse their man, or the other way round?
See 4

6) what do you think of marriage, is it a must in your life? have you ever thought of not going to married for your whole life and just stay single, occasionally having GF for fun?
Well, marriage gives me a ring on my finger. It keeps the flies away.

Whoa they even have servei's in LYN? Woohoo!

1) what do you think of woman in general? no not that 1 that you like, I mean in general. do you think they are different than man? in what way?
They're different from man, yet the difference is to be understood instead of being the subject of jokes and abuses

2) what do you think of a relationship? what do you expect and look for in a relationship?
mutually happy, understanding, give-and-take, working together to solve any problems.

3) what makes you like that girl, and not THAT girl? why is she different than any other girl?
I dunno, the fact that i made her laugh easily and her laughter just lightens up my days. We think alike too

4)have you been hurt by girls before? hurt meaning angry, sad, or any bad feelings done directly, or indirectly by girls?
Yeah. It's not really bad or anything, i can handle it

5)have you heard more stories about how woman abuse their man, or the other way round?
Well yeah I heard of how a girl keep coercing her bf into buying her expensive stuffs, yet she's going out wit another dude, and her bf knows about it. Love is blind indeed

6) what do you think of marriage, is it a must in your life? have you ever thought of not going to married for your whole life and just stay single, occasionally having GF for fun?
Otherwise my mum would kill me Well it's best not to push for it. Let things come naturally. As for my current situation, yeah i believe i've found someone i'd like to spend my life with.
But for my other friends (girls mostly), i told them it sure is fine to stay single, no problem wan. Happy ma can jor lo, Hua Hi dio Ho (Hokkien)

1)of course they are different,,they are self contradictary,emotional,and very confused about themselves.too long to explain on this point.basically,the way a women responds in reality and what she says are two very different things,,that's why men always wonder why a woman says this but acts the other way around,,as i said,,too long to elaborate this point.

2)honesty,understanding,and trust..these 3 are the most essential.to MAINTAIN a relationship,,of course to spark a relationship,other things should come in.

3)bigger boobs.prettier face.what can I say,guys are visual creatures.

4)So far nope,,all my ex gf's are on good terms with me,,and my current one too..as for friends,I don't really make lots of enemies and all my girl and guy friends are on good terms,,so yeah,no drama..yet.

5)yeah,women castrating their husbands cause they cheated on them,,etc etc

6)this is personal preference,and yes I belive in marriage and want to get married.

1) what do you think of woman in general? no not that 1 that you like, I mean in general. do you think they are different than man? in what way?
They are the softer side of homo sapiens. They are different in most ways just like "yin and yang".

2) what do you think of a relationship? what do you expect and look for in a relationship?
Sharing, Caring, Loving, Understanding, Sacrifizing

3) what makes you like that girl, and not THAT girl? why is she different than any other girl?
All girls are different, so we choose a girl based on our liking or needs

4)have you been hurt by girls before? hurt meaning angry, sad, or any bad feelings done directly, or indirectly by girls?
Yes, felt that i was being used............

5)have you heard more stories about how woman abuse their man, or the other way round?
Yes, this is life i guess. Not everyone's relationship like fairytale

6) what do you think of marriage, is it a must in your life? have you ever thought of not going to married for your whole life and just stay single, occasionally having GF for fun?
Humans have evolved and there's a need of ownership and i believe in marriage

Like most of them, I would like to know the true motive behind these questions.


1) what do you think of woman in general? no not that 1 that you like, I mean in general. do you think they are different than man? in what way?
They complete guys. They are different than guys. They like to think and take things the hard way.

2) what do you think of a relationship? what do you expect and look for in a relationship?
Relationship is something that any guy/woman can't deny. I would look for someone to complete me.

3) what makes you like that girl, and not THAT girl? why is she different than any other girl?
I like her .. She likes me? I completed her and vice versa .. good enough?

4)have you been hurt by girls before?
Oh yes ..

5)have you heard more stories about how woman abuse their man, or the other way round?
Yes, yes and yes.

6) what do you think of marriage, is it a must in your life? have you ever thought of not going to married for your whole life and just stay single, occasionally having GF for fun?
To survive a relationship and take it to the next level which is marriage(obviously) is a must in my life.

If i answer you correctly, would you consider to change your point of view of women and love? Because if you still insists in just 'shooting' on our point of view, i don't see how th purpose of this thread. The thread is useful and powerful in a way but it was the TS, that could have 'corrupt' or 'beautify' his thread. Tell me which side are you?

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Added on June 30, 2008, 12:17 amAlright, let me give you answers to your 'dilemma'....



Woman is another 'reflection' of us in a gentle, softer and tender form. If you think they are different than men, it is just because it is part of your reflection from your perception towards about them. The only difference is that what they have and what we don't have, but both fulfill what both doesn't have.



What do you think about friendship? Career? Food and drinks? Ego? Pride? Cars?Sex? And especially self esteem? Those are the things that men need. And relationship is all what our needs, wants and demands combine into a single entity to be shared by both parties. And relationship is fair. It knows no happiness and sadness but it will attract either one depending on how both invites or attracts either one.

Do i have to expect anything out of a relationship or do i have to 'GIVE' more into a relationship? Now thats the question you should be asking. Never expect anything, if yourself never intend to give 'something' to their partner.



The question of feelings is a matter of only one subject can studied it. Quantum physics. The energy that we vibrates, resonates bits and bits of our souls and the more vibration that we make, the more 'energy' especially 'positive' energy will flow into the our feelings towards the other person. But the question is, where do the source of 'inspiration' comes from? For men, beauty, resonates our souls while woman 'sounds' resonates them. But if you would ask me, i would say both resonates my soul as i tend to be 'picky' in the name of love.

She's no different than other girl, but she is the only girls that vibrates the energy in me towards my soul. So the difference lies within me, not her.



As much as we hurt by others, lets look too by how we hurt others. Don't judge or 'berkira' as people will often do us the same as how we do to them. The question is not how or have you, the question is why. But still, it takes a man to be in control and careful for what is 'spitted' out from his mouth or his hands. You thought all these while she might have hurt you, but what you havent realize, is what you do to them either directly or indirectly. Just like confucious say, 'Don't tend to look or talk about your neighbor's roof covered with snows, as your door step is not being swept properly'.



Yes i've heard, but i make no judgment about them, because everybody problem is their problem, so do mine. If we embrace ourselves that each relationship is unique, the only matter to be solve is to be done by two people. So how abusive you are, let your partner and yourself knows it, as other's interference would have merely make no difference but to listen to sympathetic 'cries' and 'gossips'.



I always dream of being a philanthropist, but to do that, i would need alot of inspirations and words of wisdom. Marriage to me is part of what i want to be. To be a good father and a loving husband and to tell my kids to be 'happy' for who they are.

I don't mind staying single for my whole life, but i do mind complaining about myself why am i still single while others can find their partners. It degrades your esteem somehow as you're contradicting to your belief because i don't like the fact i can't achieve what others can achieved. Every bf wants to have gf for the lulz, i mean most men does, but how many men understand how women think? That is for you to answer mr sukhnat.

This post has been edited by peinsama: Jun 30 2008, 12:17 AM

Bored and waiting for the Euro 2008 finals to start...so might as well.

1) what do you think of woman in general? no not that 1 that you like, I mean in general. do you think they are different than man? in what way?
They are mostly similar human beings. Just that social upbringing creates expectations in how they should think and be responsible. A lot more sensitive than men though. In both good and bad ways.

2) what do you think of a relationship? what do you expect and look for in a relationship?
Good to have someone willing to back you up and vice versa. But it's good to set expectations right in a relationship. But if too much serious talk gets about, where's the magic?

3) what makes you like that girl, and not THAT girl? why is she different than any other girl?
No straight answer to this question. Why we like someone can change with our exposure to society.

4)have you been hurt by girls before? hurt meaning angry, sad, or any bad feelings done directly, or indirectly by girls?
The only time I'm hurt by girls is when I overly have expectations from them.

5)have you heard more stories about how woman abuse their man, or the other way round?
If a man is weak, he will allow himself to be abused. Vice versa for women. It's just a fact of life.

6) what do you think of marriage, is it a must in your life? have you ever thought of not going to married for your whole life and just stay single, occasionally having GF for fun?
Those who choose to stay single all their life tend to end up being "that wierd uncle/aunty". Not so much because they're not married but they just seem to have issues. I also find married ppl waste less time on relationship matters and have a common strife; hence lending to better focus in life.

1) what do you think of woman in general? no not that 1 that you like, I mean in general. do you think they are different than man? in what way?

Erm..Women are surely different. The shape are different and the organs are different. ..to compare other thing I think it's too much to say. Majority, I can say that females are emotional, sensitive, and too easy to persuade without thinking.


2) what do you think of a relationship? what do you expect and look for in a relationship?

I expect I can receive love, same as how I love my girl..Love is enough than anything. Sex comes later.

3) what makes you like that girl, and not THAT girl? why is she different than any other girl?

-Like girl who is Loyal and does not play with feelings.
-Honesty
-Caring
-Lovely
-Understanding

4)have you been hurt by girls before? hurt meaning angry, sad, or any bad feelings done directly, or indirectly by girls?

My ex is a 'whore'.. She sleep with other guy when she go abroad just for 3month. And give me a shock when she come back. Suffering bad pain for few days at her house for that. Can't forget that pain.

5)have you heard more stories about how woman abuse their man, or the other way round?

Yes, some females tent to get near to rich guy so that they can get more benefits. What they want, they will have it.

6) what do you think of marriage, is it a must in your life? have you ever thought of not going to married for your whole life and just stay single, occasionally having GF for fun?

GF for fun??FUN?? this question is crazy..GF eventually will become your wife if you feel that she's the person you wanted to be with until you die. Human needs Love.

Why ask these questions??What is it for??

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Ok, the reason I started this thread with all the questions is to find an answer or to convince me why do I need a female in my life. And to convince me why is that worth to get into relationship.

I wonder, why most of you guys sees relationship between male and female as if it is the most important thing in life.

Everyday, I listen male crying out loud because of problems in their relationship, suffer hardship, complain, whine, and yet, it puzzles me, why they still want to get into relationship, what makes them so determine? Never give up? Or MAY BE, they are just plain "stupid"??

Dont misunderstand, Im not a gay, me too, crazy in love with a girl before, that was the time when I thought she is the one, everything that I need. Unfortunately things didnt went right and it just goes by without anything happen.

Then as times past by, I dont know why I had a lot of issues with women, mostly bad issues, I read in cupid corner, how man being treated badly by their partner, I watch TV programs on how men being treated badly, abused by their partner, wife poisoned their husband to get insurance cover, cheated behind husband and all sorts of bad things. Yes I do know not just women do that, men do abused women.

That is why I ask, what do man seek in a woman? If it is just sex, than why get married? If you want to have kids, why dont adopt? If you whine because of problems in your relationship, why not stay single? Why still pursue something that is...i dont know, something that has no guarantee? Why love some one that has the potential to destroy you? Why being single is not an option? Convince me, I dont get it.

Its up to you to decide what you want. Typically, people want a partner, this applies to both men and women. Stop looking at the negative things, and look at the positive side of things. Remember how being in love makes you feel, remember the happy times.

If you're happy being single, then so stay single. If not, find someone that can make you happy. Its very unlikely that you will hit the jackpot on the first try, so you'll have to go through hardships and disappointments before you meet the right one.

Do remember too that not all couples having problems like what you read from Cupid Corner

There's actually many many more beautiful love stories that you are missing out from the people out there

well, some people are born to be good husbands and/or fathers, some just aren't (i.e. george clooney!). don't have to force yourself worse thing is if u make other people suffer too!

1) Softer side of human being
2) Dunno. Love or happiness i guess.
3) Preference
4) No, they call me a robot wif no emotion, whadayuexpect ?
5) Yes and those are simple misunderstanding turned complicated disasters
6) Marriage, love oath ? Its not a must in my life. Yes I prefer to be single and occasionally having GF for fun.

[quote=ah_suknat,Jul 1 2008, 05:27 PM]
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Ok, the reason I started this thread with all the questions is to find an answer or to convince me why do I need a female in my life. And to convince me why is that worth to get into relationship.

I wonder, why most of you guys sees relationship between male and female as if it is the most important thing in life.

Everyday, I listen male crying out loud because of problems in their relationship, suffer hardship, complain, whine, and yet, it puzzles me, why they still want to get into relationship, what makes them so determine? Never give up? Or MAY BE, they are just plain "stupid"??

Dont misunderstand, Im not a gay, me too, crazy in love with a girl before, that was the time when I thought she is the one, everything that I need. Unfortunately things didnt went right and it just goes by without anything happen.

Then as times past by, I dont know why I had a lot of issues with women, mostly bad issues, I read in cupid corner, how man being treated badly by their partner, I watch TV programs on how men being treated badly, abused by their partner, wife poisoned their husband to get insurance cover, cheated behind husband and all sorts of bad things. Yes I do know not just women do that, men do abused women.

That is why I ask, what do man seek in a woman? If it is just sex, than why get married? If you want to have kids, why dont adopt? If you whine because of problems in your relationship, why not stay single? Why still pursue something that is...i dont know, something that has no guarantee? Why love some one that has the potential to destroy you? Why being single is not an option? Convince me, I dont get it.

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So indirectly you're promoting same-sex relationships ?

who said being single is not an option .. u can choose to be single ...

who forced u to have a female companion ? also u dun need convincing since u have already decided what u want ... this thread sounds like a spanar thread where the TS has decided to spanar just asking ppl to support what he is doing ...

so there u go .. stay single ..

yes I had made my decision, but I want to know about you guys!

One day, you will met the one you really love to be with. You will be shocked by her presence and what she brings to the table. Trust me, ah sukhnat....your life is beginning to change.

Silverhawk say it right!!!

You are currently trapped in a deep cold well...learn to let go of your pass so that the new thing will get to you...Me personally oso happen to be hurt by my ex which we'd been together for 3years..she betrayed me...But right after I suffer for almost a year, I tried to let it go so that I can accept new things...I luckily found a nice gf right now with just a few sparks...

when you know how to take it up..u must know how to put it down...learn to let go and enjoy the single life..It's so great and by the time it ends you'd oledi found your real partner for life...^^

God lead us to the wrong one before he led us to the right one...so we know how to appreciate..

This post has been edited by knight: Jul 3 2008, 08:02 AM

you see what you choose to see. there is no line separating the right or wrong here, it is only perspectives.
live a life of routine, or go on and live a day out of the ordinary. live is full of phases, you pick which one you want.

cant say no other than the word agree......