FACE THE TRUTH, The Real Game of Love
FACE THE TRUTH, The Real Game of Love
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Jun 26 2008, 02:07 AM
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Elite
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Good post mate
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Jun 26 2008, 11:53 PM
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Jul 1 2008, 03:36 PM
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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Jul 1 2008, 02:11 PM) Life is unfair, so what? Are you going to sit around b****ing about it? or are you actually going to do something about it? You can look at all your negative aspects, and think that you were just born unlucky, and life is unfair. Then you look at other people and think "he's lucky he's tall/rich/handsome/etc" must be getting everything he wants. What you fail to realise is that person may have it worse than you, but he knows how to overcome it. Every negative aspect you can think of, has a positive side to it, you just have to know how to look at it. Unfairness is relative, and any hardship is merely an obstacle. A step you have to take to become a better person. Stay at the bottom and weep, whine and cry all you want. The rest of us will just climb wall after wall and become better, and thus opening up opportunities that you will never have because you're stuck at the bottom. QUOTE(eRiCCa @ Jul 1 2008, 02:55 PM) but dont you think sometimes when one doesnt like you then it's the FEEL and not anything that you can change? haha, ask yourself, what is this "feel"? If you think its something that just happens, you're naive. That "feel" can easily be manipulated by people who know how to manipulate it. |
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Jul 1 2008, 03:51 PM
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QUOTE(three forty five @ Jul 1 2008, 03:41 PM) yeah so basically,it's better being a guy than a girl you can improve your social skills and whatnot if you're a guy and can go through a makeover and be attractive but for a girl,,,what you get is literally...what you get.you're either ugly or pretty,unless you can hypnotize the guy into believing you are pretty than only you can improve your attractive value.but other than that,,very limited chance to improve.too bad. Any good improvement on a guy, is also a good improvement on a girl. Both want to look good, both need social skills. I'm sorry, but no matter how pretty a girl is, if she can't hold up a decent conversation, its a total turn off. There are so many aspects people can improve on to become better, it doesn't matter what gender the person is. |
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Jul 2 2008, 02:50 PM
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Jul 2 2008, 05:17 PM
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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Jul 2 2008, 03:39 PM) It's unfair lah. Some might get it some wont. Balance in a way though.. Not everyone is rich and not everyone in poor. Not everyone is drop dead gorgeous. not evryone is lucky . Balancelah . Hence, some getting most, some getting none. Basic concept of injustice. Unfair rite?. If you read what I said previously, you'll notice I mentioned that what is unfair, is relative to whatever standard of fair you're comparing to. Some people have it bad, some people have it WORSE, some people have it good, some people have it better. You're right when you say its quite balanced, because behind all the negatives, there are positives. Its whether the person can see it and focus on that instead of the negative things which befall them. To put it simply, life is fair in the way it is unfair. |
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Jul 4 2008, 11:58 AM
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QUOTE(murcie @ Jul 4 2008, 10:37 AM) ah those that are socially dominant usually has the tendency to seek attention and acknowledgment in anything and everything they do, say or associated with. they are the elite bunch, as they'd like to think so. they feed on others downfalls and shortcomings, and by that, they think they are superior than the rest. That's not really socially dominant. Sometimes the most quiet one in the group is actually the socially dominant one. Its basically the person who commands the most respect, authority, confidence and influence. You can be the noisiest person, make everyone laugh, and still fail to be socially dominant.that is strictly to my own opinion. man. why cant they just be silently confident rather than showing it off. geez. |
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Jul 4 2008, 03:13 PM
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QUOTE(murcie @ Jul 4 2008, 01:31 PM) thats true. but i doubt that sort of traits are possessed by those that are socially dominant in my age group. as of what i said, it is simply based on my observation. not really, they do have all those traits, and if they're lacking it, its only simply because no one else has it. Best of the worst scenario. |
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Jul 4 2008, 06:06 PM
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QUOTE(kanabalize @ Jul 4 2008, 04:31 PM) i am someone who hates pre-defined rules.... i hate people who think that they are morally righteous - telling other people how to act ...even how to eat and drink - I don't see how you can connect being socially dominant and being morally righteous, they're completely different things. You could be the most amoral person on the planet and still be socially dominant.because i think i am someone who want to be like house not confined by mind numbing rules and what not.. ..... so can i be socially dominant? because from what i understand socially dominant person is someone who is always act morally righteous (and thus respect).... i dont need respect.... i need honesty..... please comment... |
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