i dunno how you accept guys that court you but from many years experience time reveals and tell many things.
You dont accept a partner base on someone else thinking or base on physical, base on feelings, base on many other things.
You should use logic to assist you. Ask yourself ? Why people keep changing partner ? Because they take an action without thinking with proper logic.
Because your friend thinking and assumption he could be the one but end up you will never know.
In this world not everyone is brave because different people have different personality example
some are shy but when you know them they are daring
some are afraid but with some support they can do anything
some are great advisor great understand but shy? <--- because of one assumption you will never know
some have bad experience because of that it effect their current lifestyle.
some are afraid of failure maybe because they are very honest but being rejected haunt them.
some are daring but it could be a playboy/playgirl?
If we have try to think further or someone assist us in thinking most of us can be safe or lessen the possibility for break up to happen.
Because we do it once or twice we assume
Just my opinion
You only think what he/she can do for you but you never think what you can do for that partner,
well thanks for ur opinion. i did try to think of whether can accept him. but mayb he's still too childish to me. i dun really look at others comments whether to accept a guy. anyway tat guy really gv other ppl a childish n stubborn impression.