y some guys/ gals can accept ar??

dont u all feel weird?

i love slightly older girls... more matured... wont be manja manja type.... but they like slightly younger guys is diff case la

normally v used to c elder guy date younger woman n its kinda traditional concept in the past. however things start to change when times goes by. i got read an forwarded email stated there's a china guy married a china woman which is 10 yrs older than him somewhere around 60 yrs ago. tat guy hv left the family as tat time its not accepted by those ppl. feel touching when i read this email.

Well, that's the fundamental problem with most of the women these days.


When did you start to change your mind about it? Are you in a relationship now? If yes, your other half is younger or older?

i'm tat kinda person will be attracted to those guys who make the move. i oso veli particular on feelings towards the guy. if i dun hv any feeling on tat guy even how handsome he is i wont even go out wif him. i'm single now recently broke up. i got 2 ex younger than me out of 5. the recent 1 is older than me. i'm sure u havent read my 1st post. cuz i've given the answer from the start.

This post has been edited by yen1022: Aug 10 2008, 02:23 PM

oh....patutlah...
u dont mind having bf younger then u...

hehe I am 29 and my bf is 22 this oct. We dated last year may that time when 1st i got 2 knw that he is 21 i nearly wan 2 faint. V dated nearly 1 mth plus onli he found out that i am 28 that time. We knw each other from he was 18 yrs old.

He bring me back 2 see his family bt till nw his side does not knw that i am 29 and they assume i am same age wit him since i am petite and chubby bit. Lucky my family and relatives knw and get the blessing from them. Wonder hw our future going 2 be...

hmm i came across girls older than me but less maturity

This post has been edited by redline666: Aug 14 2008, 08:25 PM

aiya if say 100% not k sure cheating. i'll still prefer to hv a bf older than me. i had bad experience wif younger bf so dun really 1 2 happen again.


This post has been edited by yen1022: Aug 17 2008, 10:31 AM

some updates from me. the younger guy which i mentioned earlier called me this few days. thinking he might 1 2 court me. but i think i wont accept him if he really 1 2 court me. even my fren think his character is a bit stubborn.

my bf is a year younger thn me.. n sometimes there is problem of understanding wht each other is actually thinking. but anyhow.. its whether u wanna make things work out or not. effort matters if you want to make the relationship work. take the initiative and time to understand each other would make it.

i dont see any harm in dating someone younger. I have date 2 or 3 younger they are pretty interesting in certain expect some ends up shy and quiet. It depends.

Never let anything becomes a problem in life it will effect alot of things in life

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Added on August 17, 2008, 12:49 pmi dunno how you accept guys that court you but from many years experience time reveals and tell many things.
You dont accept a partner base on someone else thinking or base on physical, base on feelings, base on many other things.

You should use logic to assist you. Ask yourself ? Why people keep changing partner ? Because they take an action without thinking with proper logic.
Because your friend thinking and assumption he could be the one but end up you will never know.

In this world not everyone is brave because different people have different personality example

some are shy but when you know them they are daring
some are afraid but with some support they can do anything
some are great advisor great understand but shy? <--- because of one assumption you will never know
some have bad experience because of that it effect their current lifestyle.
some are afraid of failure maybe because they are very honest but being rejected haunt them.
some are daring but it could be a playboy/playgirl?

If we have try to think further or someone assist us in thinking most of us can be safe or lessen the possibility for break up to happen.
Because we do it once or twice we assume

Just my opinion
You only think what he/she can do for you but you never think what you can do for that partner,

This post has been edited by aspire2oo6: Aug 17 2008, 12:51 PM

most of my ex's are older than me about 2-3 years,n i dont really like sum1 younger than me
bcoz my sister is 1 year younger so i just feel em like my younger sister...

My bf is younger than me 2years, and there's ntg wrong with it. Maybe bcz i look younger than my actual age gua.

Why girl cannot accept younger guy... I adore mature girl, not the 1 with baby kind of voice....

hey Kmaru, surprised to see you here XD ! same here, adore mature girls not those always act cute, having nonacceptance dating younger guys i think its part of the social stigma

This post has been edited by redline666: Aug 21 2008, 12:05 AM

Hey, whats up...

date still ok, but if u looking for marriage
imagine u feel want to get married but ur bf just started working when he still wanna have some fun to spend his own salary.
how if u earning more then him but u have the ego to control him and be bossy coz u feel you earn more then him.

actually besides than career there ill be some maturity issue and others
think twice if you really serious in a younger bf more than 2 yrs.

i had ex gf older 2 yrs then me, but we start our career about the same time so doesnt make much problem coz in my opinion she dont think that mature yet n we togther from college time.

dunno ley y cant accept..mayb feel unsecure...

well thanks for ur opinion. i did try to think of whether can accept him. but mayb he's still too childish to me. i dun really look at others comments whether to accept a guy. anyway tat guy really gv other ppl a childish n stubborn impression.