Can u guys tell me what a guy wants actually in LDR ?
I am really confused and actually i have a hard time controllnig my loneliness . all my friends are overseas or outstation . and my bf is in singapore as well . and after i get together with him , i am no lnoger hanging out with boy alone.
I feel guilty if i do so . But i saw some pics he took with a girl in his hp and i am kinda suprised that he actually take a lot of pics with that same girl while he was telling me he doesnt liek to take pic .
Well , i didnt say anythnig or mention anythnig abotu the girl to him , cause i am hoping that the pics are taken before we both get togetehr and i dont want him to feel liek i m limiting his freedome .
but , i am still worry . is he really taking me as his gf or just some random girl to date ? I am kinda lost . boys .. what are you thinkngi ?

This post has been edited by EvePynG: Aug 12 2008, 02:23 PM

Everyone is different in this case, it has to be a mutual agreement between you two. If you two are ok with going with the different gender alone, then you shouldn't be unhappy about this. Talk and communicate, don't guess or hide anything or else one day you are going to explode or things will never work out

I'm back in the US!

Firstly, being on LDR doesn't necessarily mean u can't go out with other boys alone. Do it. It's ok wan. Cause u'll end up loving your bf more anyway, cos u'll realise the guy u went out with is nothing compared to your bf.

If u don't, well it's time to reevaluate things isn't it?

As for me, wat i wan is that when holiday comes and we both meet up, i just wanna hold her close and tell her how much i missed her.

That's not the point.

You can go out one on one with other boys, but that is not your "opportunity" to see if this guy is better than your boyfriend or not. You should inform your boyfriend that you're going out with this guy, and if your boyfriend is uncomfortable, just reassure him. If he flat out refuses to let you meet up with other guy friends that you may have, tell him that he is not allowed to see other girl friends of his either. Tit for tat.

Basically, LDR is trust.

^oops sorry, forgot about the informing part
Well ya, basically that lo.

lol. I've done LDR three times.

on 3 separate cases?

three separate cases yes. Damn babi sometimes...

But your malay is still good

I've been in LDR once. Well, sucks in a way but you'll learn a lot

lol I'm "pro" at LDR.

So, should we call you 'shi mu'?

lol no, just call me Spunky

Wow......

After 2 days of offline, I got bombs in my mailbox. And I believe that next 2 days when I'm not in, it'll be even worse.

bombs as in wat?

lol not really. I just live overseas but insisted on dating two Malaysians. What could I do? xD
The third LDR was after I graduated high school. He went to Canada and I went to the US ... three hours time difference

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Aug 14 2008, 08:37 AM

Can I call you Spanky?

What kind of bombs? Do you need bomb squad assistance?

She loves spunk spunk.....

Believe me, she will call you kwiut.....

How to pronounce that actually?