Btw in contrary to popular belief, we dont have a fixed schedule for menstruation. It's common to be late (for a day, a week) , or even skipped. Complaining after one day late is just being ignorant on your/your gf's part.

Learn about the ovulation cycle as well. It's hard to get pregnant if she's "scheduled" to have period 4 days after sex.

The ones who're on clock-work menstruation are commonly on the pills.

That must be one heck of a baby. Can ninja his/her way in

That baby loves you, man

As a female I wouldnt trust IUD myself

Your sperm is too smart also

Euwwwwwww

How much do delivery charges go for these days?

So unfair .

You should do the same too since you're the one complaining about not wanting another kid

what what what you think women ikat isnt mentally and emotionally traumatic? if you're Muslim, husband can use that excuse to marry another one.

it's bad enough that we have to push the baby through, being snipped and stitched back. pills messes up with our hormones, make us fat/depressed/acne-laden/all-of-the-above and has a big chance of being forgotten to be taken.

whats with Malaysian men and not wanting to wear dom doms

ok enough emo already . my cousin tried Implanon. she said it's pretty good google it up

This post has been edited by Syd G: Feb 23 2010, 11:31 AM

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Birth_control

I think it means :

1) Tie a woman up (the non-kinky version ) - 0.0125% of being pregnant
2) Follow calendar - 0.005% of being pregnant

So better to follow calendar than tie tubes

You guys dont believe in withdrawal method?

Nearest government hospital to my house is Hospital Ampang. Next is Hospital Serdang. Wonder if they'd still admit me.

Thinking to go to Pantai Indah (Pantai Ampang).. still within budget but scared if kena emergency c-sect

Very far away

3k is still within my budget so it's ok. Government hospital.. will they let husband be with wife during labour?

Planning to deliver in either UMMC (family member works there) / HUKM (near home).

Any experience?

This post has been edited by Syd G: Mar 11 2010, 11:29 AM

No.. I just want to deliver food there

Of course lah

Prolly same as your accidental baby Week 13 this week. Still a long way to do. I swear I could feel tiny flutters already

We're particularly concern about cost. Donno how much to save to raise a kid so we're saving almost every sen.

Ooo what were you doing during end year holidays?

Wah suddenly you're very happy n welcoming to the little one .

What happened? Finally saw him/her in the scan isit?

Why, thank you

Oh I wasnt planning I cant even track the exact date.. only a range. It's not like we keep a log or something

Medically you can go the expensive route or cheap route.

Cheap route - register for RM5 at klinik kesihatan near your house and go for every checkup for free. This includes vitamin etc. Pros : cheap. Cons : lots of people so you dont really get to ask many questions. Scans are only done if necessary so you prolly wont see baby till birth unless there's something wrong.

Expensive route - private checkups. Going for approx RM100 (specialist fee) per checkup excluding cost of scan, medicine etc. My first time checkup kena RM300 cause they coupled it with full blood n urine test (around RM100+) and transvaginal ultrasound (lady doctor put scanner in my vajayjay). Also kira cost of vial, gauze, plaster etc. Mahal like #$@()$%@#(%)@#$ but hubby was too smitten to be able to see baby very clearly (can even see baby's teeny weeny beating heart) so wouldnt mind paying. Only this time...

We're gonna do private checkups every 2 1/2 or 3 months and klinik kesihatan every month instead to save $$. Best of both worlds

Dude. You havent learnt your lessons already?

Nah. Prolly red blood cells having to travel to more places and production not keeping up with demand

Went for 2nd scan on Tuesday. So far so good. Baby's now 10cm. So teeny

Because chinese / Asians tend to be more on yellowish side (like the Simpsons) no? Check your eyes to see if really jaundice.

Thank you

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Added on April 1, 2010, 4:47 pmWe went to an expensive hospital (because we like the Dr and she moved there ) so I told doc that I can only come on important scan dates. She's pretty understanding and set my next appointment to be 3 months from now .. confirm if boy can tell ady

The normal monthly checkups, I'm just gonna go to the Klinik Ibu Mengandung & Kanak-kanak near my house... service is almost the same and FREE

This post has been edited by Syd G: Apr 1 2010, 04:47 PM

Just saw this post. Thanks

I just remembered I still owe you an image

Hmm here are some secrets tho :

1) Dont use contraceptives
2) Learn more about fertile period / ovulation
3) Try more often