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post Jun 10 2008, 05:40 PM

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Talking about pregnancy ...

I wanna share you a story about my wife. How we went thru our pregnancy. My OLDEST son during fetus time, his intestine was outside we found out during those normal routine scan. It was a very serious matter.

Both My wife and my SON have to do surgery. Once my son was born I still remember seeing him inside this TUBE. With his intestine outside. He can't be expose to outside due to there might be a risk of infection. And there were SOO many cables monitoring him and even from the slightest change of temperature the machine will do a lot of beeping noise and you can see all the nurse attending to it. After seeing him he had immediately go into another surgery. Which was painful to wait outside. My mum in law and my mother was praying for his well being.

While my wife, she was in soooo much pain from the surgery that she can even barely TALK. I remember the first few days she can't even talk to me. Then the nurse tell her that she have to walk. If not mistaken ..hehehe ... But it wasn't easy for her as well as for me

Once the doctor came out he told me that the operation was succesful and manage to put all the intestine in. Goodnews was short lived. As times goes by, they notice my son wasn't coping very well after the surgery. He had to go thru xray and scan only found out what was wrong. The intestine didn't function well and they can't absorb the food and nutrition intake.

so HE HAD to go another surgery. I remember sitting inside the ward crying just to pray nothing happen to him. I wasn't easy going thru the first month. I remember the first month he had to stay NICU in the hospital. I remember we have to celebrate full moon inside the hospital with him. It was a happy moment but none of us gave up. It was really sad to see there was SOOOOO many wires and tubes attach to him like a robot.

But all good went thru and you can see him at my wife's blog

The Truth About Joe flex.gif

Now he's a hyperactive boy who just like to talk talk talk and play video games non stop .......
It's just a blessing that all went smoothly

This post has been edited by MSA: Jun 10 2008, 05:44 PM
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post Jun 30 2008, 05:13 PM

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QUOTE(Kyoyagami @ Jun 26 2008, 08:59 AM)
So, the drug numbs the body nearly to the hips area? And that helps you relieve the pain and make the labour easier?
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From what i've heard from mother's and mum-in-law .. Pain Killer's don't really help. The labour pain is still there. No difference.
But the drug may react differently to each and different individual

QUOTE(zeist @ Jun 27 2008, 10:35 PM)
Why do woman became fatter after giving birth? Just look at britney spears... ph34r.gif  rclxub.gif
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I believe Kapitan have answered you there.

QUOTE(kapitan @ Jun 27 2008, 11:11 PM)
Well, if you think of it, there's reasoning for getting fatter.

First, you will be eating a lot more than usual consumption. But due to pregnancy, many women will actually make a lot less movement. Just like my colleague in my office, she double her meal but move a lot less than before pregnancy. Some women does develop diabetis during pregnancy which would explain the sugar level in her blood as a result of unhealty eating habit.
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If you still maintain workout's when your pregnant and after pregnant then it shouldn't be a problem. But it may differ with different individual as well.

QUOTE(lunarbubbles @ Jun 30 2008, 01:10 PM)
I had C section a month ago. Delivered a healthy little princess. I would have opted for normal birth but because the umbilical cord was around baby's next 3 times, I had the C section.

The epidural (drug given at the spine to numb the body from waist down) was a a better option compared to having to be fully knocked out by drugs as you can see your baby immediate after the operation and also, the recovery is much faster too.

Of course, the pain was bordering on unbearable in the 1st week but it got better. As for the tummy that Jyen talked about, breast feeding will reduce the size of the tummy as the uterus get smaller. The rest, I guess, you just need to exercise it off..

The pain is worth it once you see your precious in your arms...
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Yeah i have to agree with you.

To have fully knocked out It's much painful. You have to recover from the "HANGOVER" and the pain @ your abdominal.

An CONGRATS to you and your BABY. You have started a wonderful journey and i tell you looking after a baby whistling.gif

Not an easy job for mothers. You have all my notworthy.gif

This post has been edited by MSA: Jun 30 2008, 05:14 PM
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post Jul 2 2008, 02:48 PM

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QUOTE(lunarbubbles @ Jun 30 2008, 08:37 PM)
Thanks. Well, confinement ending tomorrow. So it's FREEDOM!!  rclxm9.gif  rclxm9.gif
Hehe, freedom in the sense that I have been craving for so many types of food..assam laksa, char koay kak, pizza. peppermint ice cream...  drool.gif

Actually, looking forward of taking care of baby. I know its a tough job but with hubby's support, sure can do it.. Jia You!!
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Wohooo today you celebrate your freedom ? notworthy.gif
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post Jul 10 2008, 03:34 PM

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QUOTE(n_n @ Jul 10 2008, 11:37 AM)
actually the rick of women getting down syndrom kid is 40 and above.. yes there might be chances that you will get normal healthy babies but the risk is there
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No only down syndrome but risk of Miscarriage is also high as well
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post Dec 18 2017, 08:56 AM

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QUOTE(Kekikan @ Dec 6 2017, 11:27 AM)
Wow. Every life is precious...I hope your oldest son knows how fortunate he is!
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Hello Kekikan !

Wow ! I didn't expect to get notified for such an old post ! smile.gif

Yes, he does know about it and his surgery scar is there always to remind him smile.gif He is now 16 and doing extremely well. I'm just very blessed to have such a wonderful son.

Cheers

 

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