my conclusions after reading ur post,..
doesnt matter what cause u to marry him, its in a past
$hit happens but "its the titanic u want to save instead screaming madly at the iceberg"

but,..
having working hubby that doesn't give u a penny, instead asking money frm a housewife cause her parents a rich & being 'friendly' with a SHE-collegues and said 'we are JUST Friends'.. all I can advised u..

Ditch that loser.