QUOTE(nikose @ Feb 23 2015, 04:16 PM)
hi everyone, i wanna share my story too. I had an unrequited love for over a girl but she is now seeing someone else which is my close friend. It hurts me so bad that I'm trying to move on but my mind is still messing my head and wasn't easy trying to move as much as i can. Its been bothering me for a couple of weeks now.
few months ago, me and my friend met a girl over social network introduce by a friend of ours, and we all get together hanging out and have activities together. I felt that i was interested in her so we got to exchange phone numbers and text with each other. Over the weeks we shared interesting stuffs and basically trying to get to know better. I really like her because she really treats me well like a very close friend to me. At that time, she said she's single but not interested to be in a relationship. Even my friend who had a gf before that time even encourage me to pursue her and be close friends with her. All these while i though we could be good friend and probably might turn friendship into a relationship but I was wrong.
Early last month, my friend just broke up with his ex and she and my friend started to see each other without my knowledge. Until my friend told me they both were seeing each other. Few days later, he gave her a single red rose and they started their relationship and that time i didn't realize he already broke up with his ex and everything happen too fast. She even told me she had slight feelings for him too and ask how I feel and thought that we still can be friends. I told her I'm okay with it and support them giving my blessing for them and I felt rejected and I don't wanna confess to her but i still like her and might had feelings for her too. I was disappointed because they started seeing each other behind my back. Even my friend started to avoid me because they knew I had feelings for her and keeping quiet about it. Even she came by hanging out along, we didn't talk much as before and she gave me an awkward reaction just saying hi and bye without further interaction.
Since we still keeping contact as friends with her, we don't really talk much now but each time I spoke to her, whether its her charming voice or seeing her beautiful personality in person I still couldn't get her off my mind its because of my stubborn heart and mind felt that I still have a chance. My feelings for her have been kept all these while and getting stronger and I don't wanna further ruin our friendship because of this. Since then, although I do miss her sometimes, I try to move on and my heart doesn't want this rejection because its been bugging me the whole time. Worse part is that i dreamt of her being my gf and couldn't move on . Should i still be her close friend or forget her by cutting off communication her would work? I don't know whats the best way of letting go of this unrequited love and I do need some advise of letting go.
if you love her, then let her go few months ago, me and my friend met a girl over social network introduce by a friend of ours, and we all get together hanging out and have activities together. I felt that i was interested in her so we got to exchange phone numbers and text with each other. Over the weeks we shared interesting stuffs and basically trying to get to know better. I really like her because she really treats me well like a very close friend to me. At that time, she said she's single but not interested to be in a relationship. Even my friend who had a gf before that time even encourage me to pursue her and be close friends with her. All these while i though we could be good friend and probably might turn friendship into a relationship but I was wrong.
Early last month, my friend just broke up with his ex and she and my friend started to see each other without my knowledge. Until my friend told me they both were seeing each other. Few days later, he gave her a single red rose and they started their relationship and that time i didn't realize he already broke up with his ex and everything happen too fast. She even told me she had slight feelings for him too and ask how I feel and thought that we still can be friends. I told her I'm okay with it and support them giving my blessing for them and I felt rejected and I don't wanna confess to her but i still like her and might had feelings for her too. I was disappointed because they started seeing each other behind my back. Even my friend started to avoid me because they knew I had feelings for her and keeping quiet about it. Even she came by hanging out along, we didn't talk much as before and she gave me an awkward reaction just saying hi and bye without further interaction.
Since we still keeping contact as friends with her, we don't really talk much now but each time I spoke to her, whether its her charming voice or seeing her beautiful personality in person I still couldn't get her off my mind its because of my stubborn heart and mind felt that I still have a chance. My feelings for her have been kept all these while and getting stronger and I don't wanna further ruin our friendship because of this. Since then, although I do miss her sometimes, I try to move on and my heart doesn't want this rejection because its been bugging me the whole time. Worse part is that i dreamt of her being my gf and couldn't move on . Should i still be her close friend or forget her by cutting off communication her would work? I don't know whats the best way of letting go of this unrequited love and I do need some advise of letting go.
Mar 25 2015, 07:14 AM

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