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mudkipryan94
post Mar 25 2015, 07:14 AM

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QUOTE(nikose @ Feb 23 2015, 04:16 PM)
hi everyone, i wanna share my story too. I had an unrequited love for over a girl but she is now seeing someone else which is my close friend. It hurts me so bad that I'm trying to move on but my mind is still messing my head and wasn't easy trying to move as much as i can. Its been bothering me for a couple of weeks now.

few months ago, me and my friend met a girl over social network introduce by a friend of ours, and we all get together hanging out and have activities together. I felt that i was interested in her so we got to exchange phone numbers and text with each other. Over the weeks we shared interesting stuffs and basically trying to get to know better. I really like her because she really treats me well like a very close friend to me. At that time, she said she's single but not interested to be in a relationship. Even my friend who had a gf before that time even encourage me to pursue her and be close friends with her. All these while i though we could be good friend and probably might turn friendship into a relationship but I was wrong.

Early last month, my friend just broke up with his ex and she and my friend started to see each other without my knowledge. Until my friend told me they both were seeing each other. Few days later, he gave her a single red rose and they started their relationship and that time i didn't realize he already broke up with his ex and everything happen too fast. She even told me she had slight feelings for him too and ask how I feel and thought that we still can be friends. I told her I'm okay with it and support them giving my blessing for them and I felt rejected and I don't wanna confess to her but i still like her and might had feelings for her too. I was disappointed because they started seeing each other behind my back. Even my friend started to avoid me because they knew I had feelings for her and keeping quiet about it. Even she came by hanging out along, we didn't talk much as before and she gave me an awkward reaction just saying hi and bye without further interaction.

Since we still keeping contact as friends with her, we don't really talk much now but each time I spoke to her, whether its her charming voice or seeing her beautiful personality in person I still couldn't get her off my mind its because of my stubborn heart and mind felt that I still have a chance. My feelings for her have been kept all these while and getting stronger and I don't wanna further ruin our friendship because of this. Since then, although I do miss her sometimes, I try to move on and my heart doesn't want this rejection because its been bugging me the whole time. Worse part is that i dreamt of her being my gf and couldn't move on . Should i still be her close friend or forget her by cutting off communication her would work? I don't know whats the best way of letting go of this unrequited love and I do need some advise of letting go.
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post Dec 28 2015, 02:08 PM

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QUOTE(gry @ Dec 15 2015, 08:40 AM)
Just broke up after 12 years relationship. Very painful since i want to propose her during her birthday last week. Went to her hometown last week to suprise her but on that day, she engaged!
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that hurts bro btw stay strong
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post Apr 7 2016, 10:40 PM

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QUOTE(lingweiyee @ Apr 7 2016, 03:20 PM)
actually not just because of that reason only.. HE break all his promises but he is really a very cincai and caring man. but then haiz.. I am really very foolish doh.gif
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just forget it... smile.gif and move on

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post Jul 13 2016, 02:01 PM

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QUOTE(Ash muhammad 28 @ Jul 12 2016, 09:26 PM)
Im having a very difficult time forgetting about someone I really loved she left me already due to our stupid arguments we had to part ways but im still single

The worst part is i took 2 days off from work every single time I wake up I remember all the sweet memories we had I can still picture her face smilling and being happy especially when 1st few months we pak toh  cause that was the best part of my life until she started to change and become someone else with a different attitude

To be honest I been crying a lot and I cant stop I go out I still cry Im at home I still cry

I know I cannot erase the time I had with her but I wish I can moved on and be more happier

Btw she has moved on and I have no chance to be with her anymore

I guess she was my one but I lose her due to my stupidity 

Wish there was a way for me to be more happier then feeling miserable all the time
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calling searizeel

dun cry, lean up and moves on

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if you really love her, just let her go... smile.gif
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post Jul 13 2016, 02:04 PM

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QUOTE(siles1991 @ Jul 11 2016, 03:08 AM)
So I don't think I can be around the gal I like sooner or later, but we have the same group of friends. How should I go around, hanging out with them but not with her? I was planning to just tell the truth to all of them, and see how that works out, prolly not separate her from her friends, just to continue letting me do stuff together with them that doesn't involve her like rock climbing and maybe some gaming, but anything else doesn't matter.
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get known her, ask her interest on which that she interested then slowly goes on your 'games'

QUOTE(SMB002 @ Jul 11 2016, 08:12 AM)
It is not really considered as a relationship, but it is the first time I fall for someone since I was heartbroken last year.
In short, we chatted for a bit and I asked her out for dinner as she is leaving to work elsewhere.
By the end of dinner, I casually told her that I liked her and I would like her to know it because I'm not sure we could see each other again in the future.
After that, we continued to chat for a little. Mostly it is just a short conversation, I tried to chat her up and she replied coldly or doesn't reply at all. Two weeks later which is today, I noticed that she had blocked me on whatsapp.
Never knew you could be heart broken after a heartbreak.
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hmm seems she isn't get interested on you (own views larh)

btw just lean on for another
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post Jul 15 2016, 12:35 PM

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QUOTE(SMB002 @ Jul 13 2016, 02:11 PM)
Yeah, I also feel that she is not really interested in me.
Maybe she is just being nice, that's why I felt some mixed signal previously.
I don't really fall for someone, perhaps only once every one or two years. But when I do, I fall deeply and hard.
I freaking hate myself.  sad.gif  sad.gif
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don't give up and don't hate yourself, just a luck bro.. still have a lot of girls waiting for you right wink.gif

 

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