Alright, i'm feeling terribly lonely. No 'real' friends, no girlfriends, no invitations and nothing. I felt isolated and depressed. I've tried many things to cope with my loneliness. I've tried listening to loud music, walk in the park, walking from my house in SS12 to Sunway and Subang Parade, but nothing seems to work. And infact, everytime i get teased or bullied in school i get more lonely and it's bad for my studies because i felt scared of meeting other students to help me.

And the fact is, i'm too scared to meet people because i feared being teased or saying something stupid or embarrassing. I can't even get a girlfriend because i fear that she'll hate me or will find me annoying. It's getting worse and worse everyday.

Which is why i'm seeking help from you guys here in LYN. I want you guys to help me cope and deal with my loneliness. Maybe you can ask me to be your friend, or inviting me to hang out. Anything that could help me cope with this terrible illness(yes, loneliness is an illness IMO). Can you guys just help me?

yes yes you came to the right place.

But is anyone helping me?!

Don't be shy, step out and just do it. I always go with with my motto, just do it. Lolz.

Or are you a nerdy type of guy? (no offense ) You don't wait for people to ask you out, YOU go ask people out, get it?

Seems like you always get bullied or teased because of??

yes, let's become frenz first... talk later

But to where should i step out?



But the thing is always fear rejection! I've been asking alot of girls out and i've been rejected alot of times that it's now silly. I've stopped going to clubs alone because i miss going to clubs with a girl. And i'm not nerdy. I'm 50-50.

Because i'm a new student at my new school. And the culture shock of this new school is horrible that i can't really fit in. The thing is is that my old school preaches creativity and general knowledge while this new school is filled with pathetic people who can't help themselves including me. Which is why i'm always teased, because i'm more mature, smart and knowledgeable than the rest of them.

first of all,u need to be confident to yourself... its the key of everything. Dont feel that your are pathetic guy. if u dont want to be lonely then make friends, and learn how to mix the crowd...

but when i'm confident i felt like i'm going to be "over-confident" to the point that i'll start embarrassing myself. And how do i make friends if i don't know what to say?

Sometimes, you have to sink to a lower level to mix with ur friends at school. Hide away ur maturity once in a while and go goofing around with them (but know your limits ) Once you're alone you can take your real personality out again. I have two different lives, one when I'm with my frens and one when im alone... you might consider having another personality for girls too

This post has been edited by myownworld: May 10 2008, 03:11 PM

do volunteering work. help others and u will find meaning. thru there u will also be able to socialise with other volunteers and widen ur network.

Well can you recommend me some good volunteer programs?

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lulz....

1) Grab a brick
2) Hits face repeatedly
3) Face gets deformed
4) Epic fail disguise
5) Profit!

Make for friends, spend time with family, get new hobbies, go out, go on dates so many things you can do actually.

Please guys, be serious. I don't care about your afros. I'm looking for some real-life outside comfort!

Polis kata jangan rogol

close LYN .. go outside ?

i know that.

But the thing is: how?

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and go out and just say hi to anyone you saw

u srsly have no real life friends?

since i can see you have phd image...are u raver?if yes then try to hang out with them la..at least u can shuffle rite..tonite is tiesto..damn i cant go..

With internet,no loneliness!(for me)

dont mess with the /B/rodahood


jk jk

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Poor you. Stay away from the guns okay ? The last thing everyone needs is someone going around gunnning down other school kids.

You will be assimilated.
Resistance is futile.
Once you are assimilated you will never be lonely.

ahh thats why happens when you ask in LYN especially the kopitiam section..

you get idiots..

first.. care to share.. why you dont have friends ?
are your "friends" avoiding you because of something ?
do you have any self confidence problem ?

are you somebody special that don't fit into the general "social" outline the society has set ? ...

i pity ppl who feels lonely and doesnt make any effort to go and solve the problem...

u juz sit there and type it out hoping ppl will give u solutions? and what kind of solutions are u hopping to get? in the end meeting new net friends?

that is impractical....why dun u start off by asking one of ur closest friends for a drink? then from there maybe organise some outings and ask ur frend to invite his friends...and there u go..u wont feel boring/lonely anymore...

i think my goat just got pulled...nvm.

I have friends. But i don't have "real" friends. I want a real friend, someone who can come with me to hang out together, go to raves together, and all that. I'm tired of doing things alone. I want to experience life and enjoyment with someone.


Maybe. I don't know why.


Yes. I have a problem with confidence. Whenever i woke up, i have all the confidence but when i reached school, i lost the confidence and lost the social ability to converse socially because i'm scared that i may embarrass or hurt someone, or be embarrassed myself.

Maybe. Maybe because i think different than others. Maybe because i have an open mind. I don't know.

Please, i need someone. Atleast give me a hug.

This post has been edited by TwoThirdsMajority: May 12 2008, 06:19 PM

do u have any hobby or sport that u like? From sport & hobby, i'm sure u can get to know lot of new friends.. coz there have same interest with you, which will give u some topic to chat about..

You most be one ugly mofo

well i love listening to every dance music genre, and because of that i wanted to try DJing...but i don't have any money to buy turntables and mixers

Sports? I don't play sports. I'm a MU fan, but i lost interest in watching football matches since 2002.

But i love reading books, but i'm too scared to reveal it because the people around me consider books as "geeky".

This post has been edited by TwoThirdsMajority: May 12 2008, 06:55 PM

dude, juz b urself & dun think 2 much k.. if u like 2 read book, then reveal it.. go to ur school library if ur school have 1... people wont call u geek or nerd if like to read unless if u dress up like geek..

Then it's obvious you didn't read alotta books when you were in school

I also the same as TS, ever since in uni, my friends has decreased and further away. The first 2 years in uni are still ok, got invited to trips, but currently everyday go class like for the sake of attendance only

most of the time, I eat alone 95% all the time, I watch movie alone for 75% all the time.

life is definitely b****y for me now

i also dont approach ppl .

So what? Do what you love, life is yours.

If you can handle loneliness, you are the man.

i know how it feels when u have nobody around you to hang out or things like that....i guess u need to take the iniative to approach ppl and ask them out instead of u sitting there and hoping ppl will notice you....
u are not alone....

have you heard of PC based DJ software ? you can try that its cheaper and you can use your own mp3s to mix
maybe you can start a blog.. release your mixes online and share with people..
at least that will give you some meaning in life a purpose..

ps: maybe some of us here will like your tunes, if your good, you might mix in some club in kl someday

damn thats bad, any reason why that happen to you ?... well i always watch movie alone, dont like people to bother me when i'm wanna a movie..

are you weird in some way ?

yup.. make people notice you.. when you friends ask you for they will only ask you out twice, later then will know your are busy with shit and all and they won't bother calling you @ all as they know you will be bz..

thats why for me i always attend any outing with my friends, so that my friends know that i'm "around/alive" ...

Ever since I have dropped out from the mainstream. Due to my incompetency in studies, I failed a few subjects which means I have to extend a year. I no longer study with them already, instead my classes this sem are comprises mostly from juniors.

You can get tonnes of friends from lowyat.net

reading is f***ing sexy u retard, chicks dig guys who read.

i kid you not sir.

This post has been edited by notanon: May 13 2008, 02:03 PM

reading is not sexy but being knowledgable is very sexy....

now i know y i'm sexy

ya...hard to find guys who like to read thesedays...(u r one of the species going to extinct soon)

Well i do use Mixmeister and i do release my mixes online. But what i want is a real DJ experience. One which includes a Turntable, a mixer and a CDJ.

And i'll post it online when my blog is available. I have trouble logging to Blogger today.

the thing is if u read alot but u cant present it / apply it then what is the point? i mean ppl wouldn't even notice it....so to get the best of both world....read more and also be able to show / project that u're indeed what u have read and learn....

u are insecure in what you like .. how can u be urself ..??

ppl bully you because they take u as weak .. and not what you do ...
ppl in US bully those geek or nerds or whatever cos they do different things and they know they wont fight back .... those jackoffs wont go bully a martial artist who reads all day .. cos u know why ?? cos he can basically crush their nuts ...

u dun have to hide the fact u like to read ... if u feel happy reading read all u want mate .. go to the library .. meet ppl who like to read ... u will soon find a new world ... not everyone have to like the samething like clubbing football being macho all ...

u are not alone .. u just happen to belong a smaller group so its hard to find the same wavelength ppl .. ... take ur time .. dun feel sad matey

i have sort of low self esteem......

but what the heck....

due to incompetency in studies ? what the hell you did other then studying in college ? girls ? dota ? hahaha
FOCUS man FOCUS...

yup, in a sense its true.. there are some hot chics too in lyn , but they seem a little "odd" hahahaha

yeah being tooooo knowledgeable and people starts to think your arrogant aka mr know it all..


really ? there are guys who still like to read, but mostly its the useless stuff they read, eg car mags, computer mags, fhm and sorts, nothing really useful , so who has actually read a real knowledge book ? hahahaha

hmmm low self esteem isn't the same as have confidence right ???


hey @TS, do you love yourself ?, do you like who you are, ??

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Added on May 14, 2008, 10:14 amsometimes mixing with the same wavelength people too much gets kinda bored, cause they are sort of like a mirror of you, i would prefer people with sort of different wave a bit.. a little mix makes everything much more interesting

This post has been edited by JinXXX: May 14 2008, 10:14 AM

lets be friend ^^

your prayer has been answered....

hohohoh, i see what u did thar ts XD

very smooth

if all of us here become a fren with TwoThirdsMajority den is already ok lorr~
anyway,u have friendster,tagged,facebook,flixster,or any thing similar?if u shy to go make frens outside,den juz try making frens online la...
or those magazine which can people put their photos n hp numbers to make frens also can,i once posted my photo n after being published on the magazine,almoz 100+ people keep calling n sms-ing me within few weeks!
u can try out anything since u say u are lonely n nothing to do...
or u have an idol?join their fans club~make frens n discuss about ur idol there,like my idol ~~ Jolin ~~

Well, i stopped using Friendster because it has become so boring lately. I still use Facebook but only to join groups and applications.

Well, i once had my photo & profile on an issue of Gempak, and i was so ugly in that.

Well, i don't mind looking for a Malaysian Emma Watson fan club.

OMG!!!

TS u r so lucky!

probabally pity. pity.

oh how sweet....someone actually volunteered to be ur friends...see there TS? u got friends already....

Not jsut anyone, its THE original Icy! So TS fren wif her edi or not? Or still there jual mahal...

Good. so when can we hang out?

Dude, as you can see from my signature, I'm organising a small gathering of guys to watch a sexy dance show in Sunway this Saturday. If you are aged above 18, you are most welcome to join in.

join and hang out at lowyat every single day lor..

Hanging out at LYN every day will not cure loneliness. It'll drive a person insane

sad... i sometimes feel lonely... but luckily my family members are around

what kind of dance show ? the sexy dance is performed by guys or girls ?

so lucky.. , guess not everybody that's in KL is a Local KL fella..

Of course gals ... I'm not gay

So you're a hard style fan huh ? No wonder you're lonely.

free only go kacau sister already

Man being a lonely is nothing, u re feeling guilty bcause u just keep on thinking a bout it. why dont u just let it go and be yourself. Oh and 1 ting dont event go outside your house bcause they will stalker u for unknown reason or maybe they worry u gonna blow a building or someting see how they treat u they dont trust u. Go outside when u realy2 need it. come on u must see it all they want is to see u make mistake went u hang out so they have a story to chit cat to each other.u are not a social engineer, hang out they make fun of u. So lock that door and pump tat volume. i been they i know trust me. Oohh yeah i am the devil communicate with u in the cyber world.

Change your signature to something that has to do with Pakatan Rakyat.

why pakatan rakyat?

Opening a thread here and whining about how lonely you are and begging for some physical contact is not going to cure your loneliness. Now, instead of a lonely guy, you are turning into a pathetic wuss. Get up, switch off your computer, and get to know more people. Stop complaining about how lonely you are. There are people in this world that are in worst condition than you.

P.S Damn keyboard

This post has been edited by SilentVampire: May 15 2008, 10:57 AM

Umm, 2 be honest i support UMNO. Why should i support Pakatan Rakyat? Even if UMNO & BN is ruled by SIL and Dollah doesn't mean that we're all pathetic idiots. I support UMNO, it's my right. You can't shove your political beliefs down my throat. Sorry.

I also very lonely.... .. not many friends also... almost none at all....

i rest my case

Hey all the lowyat members here are your friends.

You are definitely not alone.

Alright, i've decided to do something of myself. I want to help people. After watching the film "Charlie Bartlett" and reading books by Freud and Nietzsche, i've decided to help people with their problems. I wanted to become like a counsellor. I think i could solve my problems by solving others, because i finally realise that no one is normal. Everyone has their problems. And maybe, i won't feel lonely anymore.

So what do you guys think? Should i become a student helper/counsellor? And how do i approach the principal to hire me as the school's counsellor eventhough i'm still a student?

You tell me you don't care about afros, even though we extend an invitation to you to join our /b/rothahood.
I invite cos you're said you're lonely.

And then when someone suggests PR to you, you reply in a tone that is far from sociable.

AND YOU COMPLAIN ABOUT BEING LONELY!

Helping others so that you won't feel lonely?

*Cough* *Cough*.

I help people sincerely from the bottom of my heart.

Not cos I'm lonely/bored/lulz.

Good luck.

Well it's not the tone. I just want to believe whatever i want. Sorry for acting in an unsociable tone, but i'm a libertarian when it comes to politics. I don't mind making friends with PR folks. If Mahathir can be friends with Nik Aziz, why can't other people do the same?

Well helping people to reduce self-loneliness works. Have you seen the movie Charlie Bartlett? Charlie was lonely when he entered to a new school for his final year, but when he offered counselling sessions to students with problems, he's now the most likeable student in the school, and he soon realises how much all of his troubles have gone when he becomes a counsellor. I think you should watch Charlie Bartlett, it's way better than Juno.

And yes, i too help from the bottom of my heart, because i realise there are people worse than me.

This post has been edited by TwoThirdsMajority: May 16 2008, 02:29 PM

Well if the show inspired you, by all means do so. Counselling is not easy. Important that you learn to listen to people with an open mind. Most of the time you are there to guide them, not tell them what to do. Cheers.

Well thanks for the advice dude.

wat is the most important criteria being a Counselor ?

Counselor ? well u cant do it without some paper qualifications

same ....

u deserve to be who u are. only fcking idiot supports umn0.

*do u look like monkey? usually umn0 supporters got monkey look

Dude how rude are you?

im telling you the truth. we deserve what we get. if you get what u dont deserve, you will get avenged later.

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Added on May 17, 2008, 7:33 ammaybe ur dad earn money from corruption from his position in umn0 (say so!)
then you inherit his gene, his attitude that make you like him, an umn0 supporter.
soon you and him will get avenged.

check newton 3rd law (scientific evidence)

This post has been edited by kotarosan: May 17 2008, 07:37 AM

Um, no.

My dad did not receive money from UMNO.

We at UMNO may be corrupt, but blame Khairy & Dollah.

I'm a libertarian, and i'm on Mukhriz's side for eff's sake.

Your school does not have any clubs? Any uniform bodies?