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TSxiao-gui
post Apr 29 2008, 02:42 PM, updated 18y ago

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browsing the forum for the past few days ... wondering ... why do we gals like to compare then self-pity hur?
is it a nature thing or what?
like today 1 of my friend was complaining to me about how her bf not good, how he neglect her, bla bla...
if he's tat bad, why still be with him? if u love him so much, why u only focus on the bad point?
TSxiao-gui
post May 6 2008, 09:12 AM

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haha i guess it's part of the nature tat gals like to gossip, complain, compare ... if a gal keep everything for herself, dun complain, dun gossip... is she still a gal?

but complain doesn't mean we're greedy...
we voice out coz we want to improve the situation ...
but guys doesn't seems to understand ...
now it sounds like i'm complaining ... lol
the one who doesnt noe how to be contented seems like me! haha
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post May 6 2008, 02:49 PM

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QUOTE(~*~jAs~*~ @ May 6 2008, 11:54 AM)
Girls complaining a lot and always because we want to make the things get better as soon as possible..not like guys..they just like to keep everything secret..ask got anything problem anot..said dont have..when start to quarrel..and the girls started to say everything that is not good about the guys..then the guys only start saying all the things out..and blame back to us.. tongue.gif
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yeah yeah ... guys r more defensive... they always say don care/ nothing, bt actually the most kepo one could b them! lol

QUOTE(@lice~~ @ May 6 2008, 12:10 PM)
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i dun like to gossip n yes i keep most of the thing to myself bcoz i cant find someone tat i can trust o a good listener to share.. so mean i m not a normal gal?  tongue.gif
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nah, u'r stil normal. coz u'r tellin us who u are now! lol
and u explain the reason u keep thing for urself, coz u cnt find one tat cn b trust! lol
and tat's whr forum comes in ... keke

QUOTE(Lena314 @ May 6 2008, 12:12 PM)
start feel to admit to change ourselves rather than to complaint other jor.. keep complaining other wrong doesnt help u anyway
cos no matter how good is that people there wont be 100% perfect
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oh well... nobody's perfect.. correct, therefor we sld voice out to try to b perfect... lol
i noe i'm lame .. lol

QUOTE(alanyuppie @ May 6 2008, 12:22 PM)
let's sum things up.

since its nature for girls to complain, then guys should be compliant and listen to what they whine`about lo. listen only, no harm done.(maybe juz need use few more cotton buds to unclog the 'dirt' afterwards =)
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it shows tat u dun understand gal...
i dunno abt other gal, but for me. i'm nt only looking for listener... i nid audience and mu audience sld have some response to my performance.
when i'm expressing myself, i would love to get some feedback ... why sld i voice out if i dun expect anything?

 

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