so u cannot restore/upgrade coz u cannot connected to itunes.. go pinjam real cable from ur fren.. then try to restore/upgrade again.

ok. theres lots of suggestion and queries..let me try to answer.
the phone came with all the cable and stuff ..its look original..and already compared with my friend iphone which he bought in apple store  in us. and its same thing..even tried his cable..no success.

i think the firewire cable is from the old ipod (the cable looks old)..it given free to me by the seller..he said to me as a free gift..and now i know why(sorry to say)

i'll try to post the pict  tomoro..coz he phone is at my house..in its original box.

i can restore the phone as i cant get it connected to my mac..so the main problem now is that..why it can't..is the Q. any body with same problem be4

im not a sifu (im merely passing on what i know) and i do charge; in terms on starbucks rapsberry frap. heh!