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 wat will u do if ur bf cheat on u?, opinion

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yvonnedev
post Jul 29 2008, 12:11 PM

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they both are horny.
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post Jul 29 2008, 12:15 PM

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QUOTE(yvonnedev @ Jul 29 2008, 12:11 PM)
they both are horny.
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good point LOL

very good and true =P

but honestly sexual activity and skills is important in a relationship dear...
now is 20th century. i dont think theres true love with no sexual activity. things aren't that simple anymore like before yea =)

perhaps there is true love. but it's very rare case biggrin.gif
jesslynfann
post Jul 29 2008, 01:34 PM

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QUOTE(pinkling @ Apr 18 2008, 11:24 PM)
one day, i notice dat my bf actually sms with a gal...although it is just sms friend...but that gal mms her private part pic to my bf....so i;m very angry...wat shoud i do?
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"SMS-friend" sometimes can be dangerous because there is possibility that he may be more close to the girl than you as he sharing more secrets with that girl than you. we never know.

some girl tend to be flirty and like to spoilt other couple relationship. we never know. then this will depends how rational is the guy thinks.

* deeply think: a girl will not simply send out their private part picture to a guy that they dunno unless both of them get to know each other quite close. BUT again, some girls are open minded...

For me:
First i will ask him why the girl send him the mms of the private part.
secondly, i'll observe his attitude and behaviour towards me for a period of time.
Thirdly, will not see him for sometimes. will wait and see how is his reaction towards me.

Before i make my decision, i will consider the 4 factors include (how long is the relationship between me and him, trust and maturity, how much my understanding to him)
1. how long is the relationship between me and him- how stable is it...
2. trust- how much i trust on him
3. maturity- how mature is his thinking
4. how much my understanding to him- 40%? 50%? 80%? 100%?

after the 4 factors i will make my decision to:

a. break up with him IF:
a-1. he lie on me not only once but continously. i will forgive him for the first time of course.

b. continue to be with him IF:
b-1. he tells the truth but i will not be very close with him for several periods of time.
b-1-1. the truth also depends on what kind of "truth"
b-1-1-1. IF he tells me that the girl send him the mms voluntary n he promise me not to contact to her anymore, and he really no more contact with that girl then i will forgive him.
b-1-1-2. IF he tells me that the girl send him the mms voluntary n i catch them still continue SMS-ing each other then better SPLIT. this GUY no use lo. he doesn't care of your feeling and i BET u he will do it again in future more worst that this case.


anyway, this is just my opinion ya... smile.gif


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post Jul 30 2008, 12:15 PM

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QUOTE(jesslynfann @ Jul 29 2008, 01:34 PM)
"SMS-friend" sometimes can be dangerous because there is possibility that he may be more close to the girl than you as he sharing more secrets with that girl than you. we never know.

some girl tend to be flirty and like to spoilt other couple relationship. we never know. then this will depends how rational is the guy thinks.

* deeply think: a girl will not simply send out their private part picture to a guy that they dunno unless both of them get to know each other quite close. BUT again, some girls are open minded...

For me:
First i will ask him why the girl send him the mms of the private part.
secondly, i'll observe his attitude and behaviour towards me for a period of time.
Thirdly, will not see him for sometimes. will wait and see how is his reaction towards me.

Before i make my decision, i will consider the 4 factors include (how long is the relationship between me and him, trust and maturity, how much my understanding to him)
    1. how long is the relationship between me and him- how stable is it...   
    2. trust- how much i trust on him
    3. maturity- how mature is his thinking
    4. how much my understanding to him- 40%? 50%? 80%? 100%?

after the 4 factors i will make my decision to:

a. break up with him IF:
a-1. he lie on me not only once but continously. i will forgive him for the first time of course.

b. continue to be with him IF:
b-1. he tells the truth but i will not be very close with him for several periods of time.
b-1-1. the truth also depends on what kind of "truth"
b-1-1-1. IF he tells me that the girl send him the mms voluntary n he promise me not to contact to her anymore, and he really no more contact with that girl then i will forgive him.
b-1-1-2. IF he tells me that the girl send him the mms voluntary n i catch them still continue SMS-ing each other then better SPLIT. this GUY no use lo. he doesn't care of your feeling and i BET u he will do it again in future more worst that this case.
anyway, this is just my opinion ya... smile.gif
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Woohoo ! Rock on to you !

jesslynfann
post Jul 30 2008, 01:02 PM

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QUOTE(Caesar Stonebridge @ Jul 30 2008, 01:15 PM)
Woohoo ! Rock on to you !
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hehe... it's just my opinion. smile.gif
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post Jul 30 2008, 04:10 PM

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hope you girls don`t fall for some girl that use trick to make you left your bf
so that herself can have it.

a good single guys/girls is hard to come by, some will think of steal if they are desperate.

and yes not to sound rude, there all kind of guys & girls.the so called cheating or not faithful not really applied to guys only.

where the word saying both male and female is same status,
you girls hope your bf please you, cheer you,support you, be mature and done everything perfectly
We guys hope you girls do the same.but then guys are not perfect, either are girl.
Love is blind, if you value a guy either he is useful or useless you just taking advantage of him.

there a ton of girl cheat on guys too,
it just guy don`t talk much about they getting dumped by girl who found better guy than him
and usually just call out friends hang out or maybe yam cha to forgot about it.

i not telling you to forgive him
i don`t gain anything from telling you to do so
but calm yourself and observe a bit
maybe you see what you can`t and get a answer what to do next.
is not like you have to pay to maintain couple anyway.
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post Jul 31 2008, 10:12 AM

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QUOTE(kevinlmw @ Jul 30 2008, 05:10 PM)
hope you girls don`t fall for some girl that use trick to make you left your bf
so that herself can have it.

a good single guys/girls is hard to come by, some will think of steal if they are desperate.

and yes not to sound rude, there all kind of guys & girls.the so called cheating  or not faithful not really applied to guys only.

where the word saying both male and female is same status,
you girls hope your bf please you, cheer you,support you, be mature and done everything perfectly
We guys hope you girls do the same.but then guys are not perfect, either are girl.
Love is blind, if you value a guy either he is useful or useless you just taking advantage of him.

there a ton of girl cheat on guys too,
it just guy don`t talk much about they getting dumped by girl who found better guy than him
and usually just call out friends hang out or maybe yam cha to forgot about it.

i not telling you to forgive him
i don`t gain anything from telling you to do so
but calm yourself and observe a bit
maybe you see what you can`t and get a answer what to do next.
is not like you have to pay to maintain couple anyway.
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Agree... thumbup.gif
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post Jul 31 2008, 10:49 AM

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QUOTE(jesslynfann @ Jul 31 2008, 10:12 AM)
Agree... thumbup.gif
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thank^^
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QUOTE(jesslynfann @ Jul 29 2008, 01:34 PM)
"SMS-friend" sometimes can be dangerous because there is possibility that he may be more close to the girl than you as he sharing more secrets with that girl than you. we never know.

some girl tend to be flirty and like to spoilt other couple relationship. we never know. then this will depends how rational is the guy thinks.

* deeply think: a girl will not simply send out their private part picture to a guy that they dunno unless both of them get to know each other quite close. BUT again, some girls are open minded...

For me:
First i will ask him why the girl send him the mms of the private part.
secondly, i'll observe his attitude and behaviour towards me for a period of time.
Thirdly, will not see him for sometimes. will wait and see how is his reaction towards me.

Before i make my decision, i will consider the 4 factors include (how long is the relationship between me and him, trust and maturity, how much my understanding to him)
    1. how long is the relationship between me and him- how stable is it...   
    2. trust- how much i trust on him
    3. maturity- how mature is his thinking
    4. how much my understanding to him- 40%? 50%? 80%? 100%?

after the 4 factors i will make my decision to:

a. break up with him IF:
a-1. he lie on me not only once but continously. i will forgive him for the first time of course.

b. continue to be with him IF:
b-1. he tells the truth but i will not be very close with him for several periods of time.
b-1-1. the truth also depends on what kind of "truth"
b-1-1-1. IF he tells me that the girl send him the mms voluntary n he promise me not to contact to her anymore, and he really no more contact with that girl then i will forgive him.
b-1-1-2. IF he tells me that the girl send him the mms voluntary n i catch them still continue SMS-ing each other then better SPLIT. this GUY no use lo. he doesn't care of your feeling and i BET u he will do it again in future more worst that this case.
anyway, this is just my opinion ya... smile.gif
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wow..so many action and option u having there..hehe... icon_rolleyes.gif
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post Aug 12 2008, 02:36 AM

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Guys r just typical they say n dun do i dun really trust
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post Aug 12 2008, 04:27 AM

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QUOTE
Guys r just typical they say n dun do i dun really trust


neither do guys trust gals as much as gals dun trust guys
do consider finding out the truth first...
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post Aug 12 2008, 10:02 AM

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QUOTE(Kam Tze @ Aug 12 2008, 04:27 AM)
neither do guys trust gals as much as gals dun trust guys
do consider finding out the truth first...
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agrees with u....
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post Aug 14 2008, 09:28 AM

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:-s mms this kinda pic to other's bf sound ridiculous........
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post Aug 14 2008, 09:31 AM

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put him on mix fm lie detector test tongue.gif
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post Aug 15 2008, 12:36 AM

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i say FU*K him
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post Aug 15 2008, 11:41 PM

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It takes 2 hands to clap. Girls, ask yourself this question? Would you willingly simply send ur private part pics to a guy if he did absolutely NOTHING to lead you on?
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post Aug 16 2008, 10:52 AM

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put poison in his drink ! haha


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post Aug 17 2008, 01:47 AM

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QUOTE(prozac @ Aug 15 2008, 11:41 PM)
It takes 2 hands to clap. Girls, ask yourself this question? Would you willingly simply send ur private part pics to a guy if he did absolutely NOTHING to lead you on?
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so you are blaming it on the guy? xD
dont you think about how the girl send the mms too?
there is also a possibility : she is trying to break em up
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QUOTE(nottikid @ Aug 17 2008, 01:47 AM)
so you are blaming it on the guy? xD
dont you think about how the girl send the mms too?
there is also a possibility : she is trying to break em up
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hate those cheap gal so easy send her private thing by mms..... sweat.gif
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