Usually a guy will find excuses to make the girl hate him enough to dump him. Guys never actually do any dumping. And if he does, I guess it means he doesn't want you anymore. Sorry for saying that, but I guess all you have to do now is calm yourself down, focus on what and who you have right now in your life and hope for a better future.

I had a bf for three years before who dumped me for another girl. I actually begged him not to leave me and he actually told me to stop contacting him because he was getting bored of my crying and begging. That was a really big slap on the face for me. I did contact him for a few weeks after that, hoping that he will take me back. He never did.

Thankfully, I have great and wonderful friends who helped me get thru the break up. So your friends are really important right now, as is your family. So just get thru this as best as you could, you will, and you know what, that guy who is staying with you now, might be worth more than your ex ever was

And time is always the best healer. Good luck