Tell u my story...
my bf broke up with me 2 months plus ago after being together for 4 years plus. He is a very nice guy and i think maybe my temper made him sick at me but thats not the point. How i cope with it? It was very very difficult for me. I went for counselling and friends were there to support and comfort. I still think of him and miss him now but i need to tell myself that prepare for the worse. We still at separation time and will come with a conclusion by end of may but i prepare myself for the worse so that if we didnt get back together then i can move on. Yes, break up is very difficult especially when we are the one being dump by him. Time will heal..Just hang on there...

hmm... 3 mths of separation. Do u mean that in this 3 mth u n him never contact each other?

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we got contact each other. the latet news is he told me that he can't give me an answer when i come back. He wants to date me like go movie and eat together to find his love back for me. Dont u think is silly? or he just playing me?

really ah? i also feel like that. I always feel want to ignore his call when he calls but i still cant do that coz still love him....so depress lah...