best way to forget sumthing hurtfull is to take up new things....
my friend cured his broken heart by playing world of warcraft.....not saying you should try that but if you try doing something new im shure you can forget him faster with less tears well good luck...

The best medicine for broken heart is time and definately not a new BF...
I dont really support your action no matter how pity you sounded...
Pick yourself up... you have been living 20+ years without him and after having him for 5 years and now that he's gone, I dont really see a big deal about it. There's always someone better thats waiting for you...

having a similar situation like u, babysweet. i just only broke up with my 5 yrs bf.  i dunno how am i going to cope wit it. worse still, i m alone in the foreign country. came here to work bcoz of him. 1st day here, he broke up wit me. havent even settle in this country. i think my case is even worse than urs. at least, u got ur frens to support u..